article: Male Sexlessness is Rising, But Not for the Reasons Incels Claim

[MatureDJ]

https://ifstudies.org/blog/male-sexlessness-is-rising-but-not-for-the-reasons-incels-claim

 

[skinnyguy]

Never married people have sex 60-80 times a year?? I have sex two times a year lol

Most of it is my fault though. I know of quite a few women who want to have sex with me, but they’re fat. It would be fair to them because I wouldn’t be able to have sex with them. I’m willing to hold out for months on end for a hottie than just bang any HB 4 that crosses my way. Maybe that’s why people are having less sex?

 

[MatureDJ]

I know of quite a few women who want to have sex with me, but they’re fat.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Never married people have sex 60-80 times a year?? I have sex two times a year lol

Most of it is my fault though. I know of quite a few women who want to have sex with me, but they’re fat. It would be fair to them because I wouldn’t be able to have sex with them. I’m willing to hold out for months on end for a hottie than just bang any HB 4 that crosses my way. Maybe that’s why people are having less sex?

Obviously due to everyone over inflating their value due to social media . It's not good for a man to go greater than 3 weeks without sex .

 

[R.U.G.]

I think their data is flawed. I also think many women, regardless of age, do not "need" sex as much as men. They get their validation and gratification through talking and conversing with people. Hence women value a man's non-sexual attention more than his sexual attention. Women instinctively know they can have sex at a drop of a hat, so it's not important or challenging enough for them. However, getting a man to actually give them his non-sexual attention is more gratifying for them.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I think their data is flawed. I also think many women, regardless of age, do not "need" sex as much as men. They get their validation and gratification through talking and conversing with people. Hence women value a man's non-sexual attention more than his sexual attention. Women instinctively know they can have sex at a drop of a hat, so it's not important or challenging enough for them. However, getting a man to actually give them his non-sexual attention is more gratifying for them.

Women have easier access to NON sexual attention, thus making it harder for man to get sexual attention .

 

[Mike32ct]

Never married people have sex 60-80 times a year?? I have sex two times a year lol

I haven’t had 60 sessions in my entire life. Maybe 30ish lol.

 

[Mike32ct]

According to the chart, male sexlessness (relative to women), really took off in 2009. That’s not due to marrying later. The marrying late thing has been going on for much longer than that.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I haven’t had 60 sessions in my entire life. Maybe 30ish lol.

Dude... In some of my relationship I had 60+ sessions in a month.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I think their data is flawed. I also think many women, regardless of age, do not "need" sex as much as men. They get their validation and gratification through talking and conversing with people. Hence women value a man's non-sexual attention more than his sexual attention. Women instinctively know they can have sex at a drop of a hat, so it's not important or challenging enough for them. However, getting a man to actually give them his non-sexual attention is more gratifying for them.

Let's not forget being a *****, a attention *****, social media, and a variety of things.

 

[sosousage]

imo its all social media and tinder fault

 

[Mike32ct]

imo its all social media and tinder fault

Yeah that’s what I was thinking. Thus spike in 2009 does seen like it is smartphone/social media related.

 

[R.U.G.]

imo its all social media and tinder fault

Sad, but true. These dating apps have given so much power to one gender. Even I, have disabled all my apps. I've accepted it and waive the proverbial white flag in online dating. Online dating now is nothing like it was last decade. The quality on both sides probably has suffered as well. No sense in beating a dead horse.

 

[sosousage]

Sad, but true. These dating apps have given so much power to one gender. Even I, have disabled all my apps. I've accepted it and waive the proverbial white flag in online dating. Online dating now is nothing like it was last decade. The quality on both sides probably has suffered as well. No sense in beating a dead horse.

i mean you can still use it in your favor if you get extremaly ripped, but yeah the amount of entitlement and rude chicks who are not even hot is horrifying

 

[R.U.G.]

i mean you can still use it in your favor if you get extremaly ripped, but yeah the amount of entitlement and rude chicks who are not even hot is horrifying

Waste of time. Maybe I hit a dead zone or because it's summer time. It's been hit or miss for me since May. Last year this time, I had a few women in the loop. Now, mostly ghosters. I had several in Bumble and Match want to meet up, then just ghosted; but they still look at my profile. So, I just hide it for a minute. I'll come back in Sept. Q4 and around Feb. is where I do really well.

 

[R.U.G.]

Dude... In some of my relationship I had 60+ sessions in a month.

Yea, but that doesn't last. We all fvck like jack rabbits in the beginning, that's the pinnacle in relationships; it just goes down from there; sexually.

 

[The Duke]

Male sexlessness is rising but for what reasons....you can't deny the fact that men are also more feminized than previous generations.

The most masculine men on this forum don't seem to be having any problems.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Male sexlessness is rising but for what reasons....you can't deny the fact that men are also more feminized than previous generations.

The most masculine men on this forum don't seem to be having any problems.

That's about right. A masculine man would be having sex .

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yea, but that doesn't last. We all fvck like jack rabbits in the beginning, that's the pinnacle in relationships; it just goes down from there; sexually.

That one lady we fvcked at least once a day for 6 years.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Without social pressure, makeup and social media we would have the same dynamics we had when we were early teens.

Basically girls trying to be involved in guys activities and being pushed away for their lack of useful contribution.

I'm 100% sure that most guys go after girls not for libido but validation, the lost of the war the same moment we accepted that a man manliness is measured not by his worth but from female approval.

Nothing we see in the western world exists outside of it, even in eastern europe is not as bad.