How does a DJ/sosuaver "win" a girl back?

[CMNILS87]

You don’t

 

[wifehunter]

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You don’t

If she thirsts after you and come running back then what?

 

[wifehunter]

If she thirsts after you and come running back then what?

Let her qualify herself, but don't be surprised of she returns to the same crap that you ghosted her for.

 

[flowtheory]

Any man with any self worth is worth winning - mindset of a woman.

Any man who thinks he needs to win women over has no self worth.

It's women who chooses the man and then takes initiative to seduce him covertly, she will chase a worthy man and won't let him out of her claws so easily.

Probably one of the best and yet most simplistic posts I’ve read on SS.
Good one @Spaz

 

[Spaz]

Probably one of the best and yet most simplistic posts I’ve read on SS.
Good one @Spaz

Care to join a retarded motherfvcker with deep seated issues like me?

Kful before agreeing, thinking outside the norm is hazardous

 

[flowtheory]

Care to join a retarded motherfvcker with deep seated issues like me?

Kful before agreeing, thinking outside the norm is hazardous

Haha what’s happening?

 

[Spaz]

I'm just pulling ur leg's brother, no worries haha

 

[captain55]

Any man with any self worth is worth winning - mindset of a woman.

Any man who thinks he needs to win women over has no self worth.

It's women who chooses the man and then takes initiative to seduce him covertly, she will chase a worthy man and won't let him out of her claws so easily.

What planet are you on? You have to be in your 40's at least.

1. Women leave high value men for lower value dudes all the time.
2. I wouldn’t of banged half these chicks if I waited for them to seduce me. I seduced them
3. With today’s social media most hot women are too lazy to chase a man. And **** why would they? Any girl that is an 8 or better with an instagram will have tons of high status guys sucking up to her within days of being single. This is why It's a dangerous time for men to get married or invest in women emotionally...because women can afford to make mistakes and lose out on good men into their late 20's hell even mid 30's and still come out with a quality man in the end. In the good ole days women treated high value men like kings because they knew if they were over 25 and single most guys would wonder what was up and not want anything to do with them. Times have changed. Guys that sit back and let women come to them get left in the dust and its only the aggressive guys with thick skin that get any play these days.

If she thirsts after you and come running back then what?

the only time its ever ok to take a woman back after she has been intimate with another man is if she left you for cheating on her. At that point its fair game....but to go back to an ex for any other reason after another guy has torn that up is weak.

 

[flowtheory]

I'm just pulling ur leg's brother, no worries haha

I thought you were a resident whacko for a split second like Spidah and I just joined the wrong clique haha

 

[Spaz]

What planet are you on?

1. Women leave high value men for lower value dudes all the time. 2. I wouldn’t of banged half these chicks if I waited for them to seduce me. 3. With today’s social media most hot women are too la


the only time its ever ok to take a woman back after she has been intimate with another man is if she left you for cheating on her. At that point its fair game....but to go back to an ex for any other reason after another guy has torn that up is weak.

Rich high value men vs rich/poor/average worthy men, there's a world of difference there buddy

 

[Spaz]

I thought you were a resident whacko for a split second like Spidah and I just joined the wrong clique haha

We all need our amusements now and then don't we?

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

What planet are you on? You have to be in your 40's at least.

1. Women leave high value men for lower value dudes all the time.
2. I wouldn’t of banged half these chicks if I waited for them to seduce me. I seduced them...Times have changed. Guys that sit back and let women come to them get left in the dust and its only the aggressive guys with thick skin that get any play these days.

I think you're confusing the difference between trying to "raise interest" (impossible) and simply responding to initial interest (seduction) and mistaking the latter for passive when really it's the most active thing guys do.

If you can seduce a woman she already has interest. If a girl's smiling at me occasionally at a party, that means there's an interest level there and it's up to me as a man to talk to her and determine how great or minor that interest is.

No one is saying your job as a man is to stand there scoffing unless a woman is undressing in public in front of you.

On the other hand if a girl's stringing me along or not flirting much at all, that's low interest, and it's something you cannot cure by trying to "seduce" the woman - she simply isn't feeling it.

It's an important distinction that it's very, very easy to overlook or mix up. Even in cases where a girl maybe initially seemed disinterested and then perked up after you "seduced" her, in actuality she already had that interest, you just warmed it to life by opening up to her more.

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There are two solutions to girls who have no interest:

1. You're just not their type. Even if you had an anaconda for a gentleman's tool, a million dollar yacht and were voted World's Sexiest Man, they just wouldn't find you attractive for whatever arbitrary reason.

2. Go and work out more, improve yourself further, flirt with other women and enjoy yourself. She'll suddenly see your value and develop interest where there previously was none, something you could not achieve just by interacting with her yourself.

 

[Paradiddle]

She was cool enough to sit back with some wine, Netflix, and massages. That's what I'm missing. Plus she didn't talk so much like most girls.

Oh common bruv! There's something called abundance mentality. Use it.

 

[_sideways_]

The only way to get them back is to move on with outwardly better women, by which point your self respect should prevent you from every taking her back.

I was just looking for the "right" answer.
It's not like I have oneitis. I took that vaccination a long time ago.

I do have abundance mentality... Just missed those massages without my asking. Surely a guy can miss such joys like I miss living in a house with a pool

 

[Reykhel]

Care to join a retarded motherfvcker with deep seated issues like me?

wtf

I thought you were a resident whacko for a split second like Spidah

your compliment overexcited him and he shot his load.

 

[flowtheory]

wtf


your compliment overexcited him and he shot his load.

Hahahah

 

[lizardking82]

2. Go and work out more, improve yourself further, flirt with other women and enjoy yourself. She'll suddenly see your value and develop interest where there previously was none, something you could not achieve just by interacting with her yourself.

I would not date or **** a b1tch that had no interest, but her interest suddenly went up because I became a more famous photographer or because I got a hotter body. Why? Because that's shallow and shallow women are unable to turn me on. They even turn me off.

And secondly, it screams instability as a woman, if you plan to have sth more than just sex with her. Meaning, as soon as your "value" might fluctuate, her "feelings" for you will, too. Find yourself a woman or women who are into men that can talk, are interesting and are good pleasers in bed, not some b1tch that is willing to jump all over you once you're "famous" or "hotter".

 

[MatureDJ]

A DJ does not try to "win" back a woman; he moves on to the next one, and *maybe* allows the woman back if she has shown him that she has learned her lesson and will treat him appropriately.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

I would not date or **** a b1tch that had no interest, but her interest suddenly went up because I became a more famous photographer or because I got a hotter body. Why? Because that's shallow and shallow women are unable to turn me on. They even turn me off.

And secondly, it screams instability as a woman, if you plan to have sth more than just sex with her. Meaning, as soon as your "value" might fluctuate, her "feelings" for you will, too. Find yourself a woman or women who are into men that can talk, are interesting and are good pleasers in bed, not some b1tch that is willing to jump all over you once you're "famous" or "hotter".

It's not neccessarily shallow. If a girl will ONLY date men with 6 packs or whatever, that is shallow. Same for the gold-diggers.

However, a woman may look at you and think "6/10", then you get fit and she thinks "9/10". That's not her being shallow, it's just a legitimate response to the improvement you've made to your body.

Would you want to date an obese chick? If not, that's not you being shallow, it's just having some degree of self-respect and standards.

So if she's ONLY interested because you're now ripped, yeah don't date her. But it may be that she was previously interested but not attracted enough to date you. That's perfectly understandable and not based in having a shallow personality.