How does a DJ/sosuaver "win" a girl back?

[EyeBRollin]

Best way to “win” a girl back is to not lose her in the first place

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It's not neccessarily shallow. If a girl will ONLY date men with 6 packs or whatever, that is shallow. Same for the gold-diggers.

Gold-diggers are vampires. They suck and suck and suck. Give little to nothing in return. I think a woman does have a legitimate reason dating people who have $$$ or success if they also have $$$ or success themselves.

However, a woman may look at you and think "6/10", then you get fit and she thinks "9/10". That's not her being shallow, it's just a legitimate response to the improvement you've made to your body.

"Hot" is "hot" and it works. It reaches a womans LIZARD brain, meaning it bypasses logical thought. All of us should aspire to be able to fulfill a womans core base desires in a man.

Would you want to date an obese chick? If not, that's not you being shallow, it's just having some degree of self-respect and standards.

Not sure.

So if she's ONLY interested because you're now ripped, yeah don't date her. But it may be that she was previously interested but not attracted enough to date you. That's perfectly understandable and not based in having a shallow personality.

You can date and fvck her. I'm not sure I would want to be counting on her though.