Barrister
Master Don Juan
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I see a lot of these texting questions on here right now so sorry to ask another. Typically I like to ask women out face to face or at the very least on a phone call, but in this particular instance I had a chick initiate and ask me via text and was wondering what everyone's opinion is on how to proceed when my counter is met with silence. We were in the middle of discussing some unrelated business and then I started giving her a hard time and she states:
Her: Are you going to be in [city] later today to grab a drink?
Me: No - I actually just left. But I am free on day X or Y.
Then nada after this point. My initial thought is I will say nothing further for a few days then ask her out on a completely different day maybe next week. I am trying to balance not coming off too desperate by immediately texting again and asking "do either of those dates work?" with letting it go too long and just losing out completely. Thoughts from the DJs?
Her: Are you going to be in [city] later today to grab a drink?
Me: No - I actually just left. But I am free on day X or Y.
Then nada after this point. My initial thought is I will say nothing further for a few days then ask her out on a completely different day maybe next week. I am trying to balance not coming off too desperate by immediately texting again and asking "do either of those dates work?" with letting it go too long and just losing out completely. Thoughts from the DJs?