RichardTheFrog
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I don't know if that's sarcastic or not.Must be my personality, haha
How would they know your personality before talking to you? As they do when they match you based on a few pictures and possibly a profile description?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I don't know if that's sarcastic or not.Must be my personality, haha
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Lmao. Apparently he has a crush on me too. We can all go to Union Square Cafe or 11 Madison Park next time I'm there. NN can buy.He has a crush on me, especially when I made dinner plans to meet him in an oyster bar in midtown, and then flaked. He had oysters alone that night.
LOL
You'll have to excuse me Richard. I dropped my harem of 7 this weekend. A few misbehaved, so to punish, I dropped them all.I don't know if that's sarcastic or not.
How would they know your personality before talking to you? As they do when they match you based on a few pictures and possibly a profile description?
Wtf. Your putting the problem on him?get off the juice
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
A club dude could bang several babes a week, week after week.Highly unlikely that your 40-year-old friend has fvucked 1000 women.
Assuming he fvucked his first woman at age 15, my math calculates your friend has fvucked 40 women per year for the past 25 years, which means he has fvucked a different woman every 9 days or so for the past 25 years.
Ain't happening.
I think after that it won't have value.So, when you fvck 1000 women, does that qualify as putting pvssy on a pedestal?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
200 is easy if you travel a lot. Different woman every single week and on an average of 4 per month X 12 months = 48/year.I stopped counting after 20, I'm definitely under 60, but even at that level I'm known as a player by everyone that knows me.
What kind of status would 200+ have? It's unheard of to me.
That's what I'm saying. Too many holes in the fairytale. Does the dude literally keep an updated spreadsheet? And if a guy claims he's so high value wouldn't he have tons of headaches with women feeling scorned because they aren't being chosen by him? It's like saying you're a lotto winner with millions and have 1000+ people after you yet claim you have no problems with them because you're a lotto winning millionaire.Sounds like the typical i caught a fish "this big" story where everytime it gets told, the fish grows in length. I would think after about 500 or so it would be literally impossible to detemine an exact count
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
So u got an axe to grind with guru1000.That's what I'm saying. Too many holes in the fairytale. Does the dude literally keep an updated spreadsheet? And if a guy claims he's so high value wouldn't he have tons of headaches with women feeling scorned because they aren't being chosen by him? It's like saying you're a lotto winner with millions and have 1000+ people after you yet claim you have no problems with them because you're a lotto winning millionaire.
Or are all these 20 somethings just coming in and out of the high value guys life like air satisfied with just a meet or a ONS with a man women for sure should want to be with. And with 1000+ women you are literally jumping off a cliff due to them seeing you on all these dating sites, meeting you, having your number, knowing what you look like having met you, etc.
I think my friend is deeply insecure and lives in Marvel comic land where he's the high value, 20 something, high quality woman getting, boogeyman that tries to instigate paranoia in others with his male fan fiction tales.
**I see my lil student @guru1000 up in this thread desperately trying to prove himself to his sensei and the rest of ss forums like he just came home from kindergarten and got a gold star for his finger paintings. Not bad young grasshopper. Work on that frame lil guy as you're being a little too "try hard" for approval and e-pats on the head.
I've been doing it a good 20 odd years throughout southeast Asia. And along my travels I do meet seasoned men such as myself, it's no mystery nor is it surprising. They are many men doing it, just because you don't know of one or experienced it yourself doesn't make it any less real.From the perspective of a 47-year-old man:
It's highly improbable, especially for a normal business traveler. In my opinion most normal/average businessmen simply lack the financial, physical, and social status required for banging a plethora of women.
To be fair, you must be very good looking because 99% of guys trying those lines would get absolutely nowhere. "Hi how are you?" is basically the first sentence most girls auto-delete you after.You'll have to excuse me Richard. I dropped my harem of 7 this weekend. A few misbehaved, so to punish, I dropped them all.
Start anew. I'll have a new harem by Sunday.
Here's Number 5 for the day. Damn, such hard work, I'm sweating!
http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/IMG_3626_zpsgvitwzbb.png.html?sort=3&o=0
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.