“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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feedback on my third approach this year

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I walked up to two women in a square that had been walking across the square and were standing still at the edge of the square. They didn't understand me well when I spoke my language and they told me to speak English. I asked them if they knew a place that had coffee that was open. It seemed they meant especially one of them didn't understand my language so I turned to her and since they both looked Thai I asked her if she was from Thailand. The whole time she had a bitchy facial expression. She replied to my question with a really bitchy annoyed tone: "Why?! You asked about coffee, right?!". I pretended that I was genuinely interested in a place that had coffee and genuinely didn't know any such place, kept talking and tried to be nice for a few seconds, then walked toward where the nice one said there was a café. Before I walked off they seemed like they were trying to end the conversation and move away from me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The moral of the story is...

Don't be a weirdo to strangers in public.

You were basically harassing them for no purpose because you didn't even care about coffee. That would piss me off, too.
 

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The moral of the story is...

Don't be a weirdo to strangers in public.

You were basically harassing them for no purpose because you didn't even care about coffee. That would piss me off, too.
Is there no end to this freak's trolling...

He's basically shaming the op (a new poster who's signed up to sosuave for feedback and advice on his ability to approach women) because the op has the balls and audacity to approach real live women in REAL....

While Mr Know it all troll can only pay for disease ridden hookers...

Jealous troll wishes he had an ounce of op's balls
 
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Is there no end to this freak's trolling...

He's basically shaming the op (a new poster who's signed up to sosuave for feedback and advice on his ability to approach women) because the op has the balls and audacity to approach real live women in REAL....

While Mr Know it all troll can only pay for disease ridden hookers...

Jealous troll wishes he had an ounce of op's balls
Fvck off and stop responding to my posts.

I talk to girls all the time, I just don't walk around the planet like some PUA weirdo.

I fvck hotter girls than you do. I guarantee the girls in your rotation would not even be attractive to me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Can't get over that "Why?! You asked about coffee, right?!". I took it personally and wondered if with another guy she would have smiled and giggled and said "Yes I'm from Thailand, and you, where are you from?" Oh, well, I managed to get a date with 3 women out of 8 approaches in December. But might just have been a streak of luck. Two of those approaches were almost identical to this one in terms of what I did. One of the approaches was different in that the woman had sat down really close to me on a bench in a subway station even though there was a lot of space, so she more or less approached me, something that happens very rarely to me, happened only once in 2017. I was the one to start talking though.
 

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Just purchased the ebook How To Flirt With Girls by Tom Torero. I feel like he scammed me, because in the description it says 76 pages, but when you see the book every page is like the size of a paragraph in a normal book, and I payed like $4 for that ****.
 

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The moral of the story is...

Don't be a weirdo to strangers in public.

You were basically harassing them for no purpose because you didn't even care about coffee. That would piss me off, too.
Kind of agree with Frog.
Came off creepy. Indirect game looks weak. They know why you approached them.
So the fact that you can't be a man and say, Hey! I find you attractive and want to date you, just makes you look like a chump.

They could tell you didnt give a d*mn about coffee .. No one asks strangers where stuff is in 2018. Smartphone.

Just be straight up from now on.
"Hey I'm who I am, I think you're pretty. I want to date you, what you like to do? What type work do you do? Lets set a date right now, you free Friday? Cool, I'll confirm with you later this week, what's your number?"
 

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Just purchased the ebook How To Flirt With Girls by Tom Torero. I feel like he scammed me, because in the description it says 76 pages, but when you see the book every page is like the size of a paragraph in a normal book, and I payed like $4 for that ****.
Go to iTunes and you'll see the chap has a weekly podcast....must have about 130 thirty minute podcasts. Free. Plenty of free content
on youtube too. You'll more than make up your lousy 4 poxy dollars.
 

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Kind of agree with Frog.
Came off creepy. Indirect game looks weak. They know why you approached them.
So the fact that you can't be a man and say, Hey! I find you attractive and want to date you, just makes you look like a chump.

They could tell you didnt give a d*mn about coffee .. No one asks strangers where stuff is in 2018. Smartphone.

Just be straight up from now on.
"Hey I'm who I am, I think you're pretty. I want to date you, what you like to do? What type work do you do? Lets set a date right now, you free Friday? Cool, I'll confirm with you later this week, what's your number?"
I don't think what he said was creepy. Granted I don't know day game from that perspective, but to me it's an apparent opener from a man who is interested.

She was a b1tch in her response.

This one of the perils of daygame.a Shake it off!

Be glad she exposed herself as a b1tch early.

Next!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Maybe when she was being a b1tch I should have instantly started walking off without saying a word, looking very nonchalant and happy with my day, maybe glancing at my watch?
 

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Maybe when she was being a b1tch I should have instantly started walking off without saying a word, looking very nonchalant and happy with my day, maybe glancing at my watch?
Let any negativity bounce off of you and exit those situations. No need to check the time while doing so… If she’s a b1tch, there’s no need to impress her by acting cool.
Just walk away and hit up the next girl you come across.
 
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Cold approach is tough and if you've scored 3 dates from 8 approches then you need to be writing about pickup-game instead of reading about it. I personally believe that 1 out of 10 is a solid ratio. Your success rate is close to 30% percent and if you maintain that ratio you'll soon have more women than you can physically handle.

In my opinion it's best to be direct on cold approaches.No need to feign inquiries about coffee shops. Just come right out with it: "Wow you look terrific. I can't talk long but I want you to join for a drink. Will you meet me?"
He makes no mention of the quality of the girls...if I go up to a 3 and hit on her of course she is going to go out with me.
 

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Let any negativity bounce off of you and exit those situations. No need to check the time while doing so… If she’s a b1tch, there’s no need to impress her by acting cool.
Just walk away and hit up the next girl you come across.
A problem I have is that my social reactions often are slower than I wish. A lot of times I'll realize only afterwards that I should have done a certain thing, like for example walk away. But maybe you get faster with practice.
 

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But maybe you get faster with practice.
Yes you do. When you experience enough social situational interactions on a routine basis, it becomes ingrained and you reach a point of instant recognition.
 

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Kind of agree with Frog.
Your argument just lost any validity. Anything you say after writing those words cannot be taking seriously....

Perhaps too much time on the hash pipe over Christmas....
 

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I just don't walk around the planet like some PUA weirdo.
You got sent to prison for four years FOR STALKING WOMEN WHILE HIGH ON LSD.....

I think you've already lost the MORAL HIGH GROUND and are in no position to be judging anyone approaching women.

This guy hates women and is ever so hostile to men. He states "I spent four years in prison so like my own space"
Son, nobody here took your innocence in prison. Do you still wake up shivering in the middle of the night imagining that
they are behind you holding you down? GO GET SOME COUNSELLING!!!

I fvck hotter girls than you do.
Sure you do child.
Like I said, you can pay me through western union and you'll get your photos. otherwise what benefit would I get playing
top trumps would a worthless prison gimp like you.
By the way, non of your "pictures" of random prostitutes have you with the prostitutes. Just pointing out that anyone can go to
google, or whatever and upload random photos of random disease ridden escorts and say "hey look at the escorts I'm banging"

I guarantee the girls in your rotation would not even be attractive to me.
They would not be attracted to you, correct.

What can we learn from this freak? He hates women and he claims he would not even be attracted to whatever women....he isn't bothered talking to women who aren't prostitutes as "they are not interesting" etc ......men are not worth speaking to either as "it's mostly men on this site and look how that goes"..........so there is nobody on the planet worth speaking to according to Richard the freak except ...THE PROSTITUTES THAT HE PAYS TO BE WITH.......

So what can we learn? His ego is protecting him against rejection. All of the women that he hates, all of the women that "are not even hot", all of the women that "are not even interesting to talk to", all men that could be potential wingmen or simply friends to hang out with that are simply uninteresting......these are all instances where our poor baby has been rejected before and had his little heart rejected or instances where he knows that he will be rejected as he is very much aware that HE HAS NO VALUE TO OFFER ANYBODY......this guy is a psychic vampire......

.....so we can observe that the only people on the planet worth anything to him are the women who will not reject him.....
....PAID PROSTITUTES.........because he has something of value to offer to them......COLD HARD CASH...

All of this baby's lashing back at the world is simple EGO PROTECTION......"I will reject them before they get a chance to reject me....."

Poor little fella. Prison has left scars.....and not just the physical ones...
 
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You got sent to prison for four years FOR STALKING WOMEN WHILE HIGH ON LSD.....

I think you've already lost the MORAL HIGH GROUND and are in no position to be judging anyone approaching women.


This guy hates women and is ever so hostile to men. He states "I spent four years in prison so like my own space"
Son, nobody here took your innocence in prison. Do you still wake up shivering in the middle of the night imagining that
they are behind you holding you down? GO GET SOME COUNSELLING!!!


Sure you do child.
Like I said, you can pay me through western union and you'll get your photos. otherwise what benefit would I get playing
top trumps would a worthless prison gimp like you.
By the way, non of your "pictures" of random prostitutes have you with the prostitutes. Just pointing out that anyone can go to
google, or whatever and upload random photos of random disease ridden escorts and say "hey look at the escorts I'm banging"


They would not be attracted to you, correct.

What can we learn from this freak? He hates women and he claims he would not even be attracted to whatever women....he isn't bothered talking to women who aren't prostitutes as "they are not interesting" etc ......men are not worth speaking to either as "it's mostly men on this site and look how that goes"..........so there is nobody on the planet worth speaking to according to Richard the freak except ...THE PROSTITUTES THAT HE PAYS TO BE WITH.......

So what can we learn? His ego is protecting him against rejection. All of the women that he hates, all of the women that "are not even hot", all of the women that "are not even interesting to talk to", all men that could be potential wingmen or simply friends to hang out with that are simply uninteresting......these are all instances where our poor baby has been rejected before and had his little heart rejected or instances where he knows that he will be rejected as he is very much aware that HE HAS NO VALUE TO OFFER ANYBODY......this guy is a psychic vampire......

.....so we can observe that the only people on the planet worth anything to him are the women who will not reject him.....
....PAID PROSTITUTES.........because he has something of value to offer to them......COLD HARD CASH...

All of this baby's lashing back at the world is simple EGO PROTECTION......"I will reject them before they get a chance to reject me....."

Poor little fella. Prison has left scars.....and not just the physical ones...
What value do you offer women?

PS: People don't have sex with each other in prison. You're just talking sh1t because you're a retard.

You should be perfectly capable of posting pictures of at least some girls that you've been with. Almost everyone else here does. Does your broke a$$ really need money that bad that you're trying to scam me into sending you money through Western Union?
 
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You got sent to prison for four years FOR STALKING WOMEN WHILE HIGH ON LSD.....

I think you've already lost the MORAL HIGH GROUND and are in no position to be judging anyone approaching women.


This guy hates women and is ever so hostile to men. He states "I spent four years in prison so like my own space"
Son, nobody here took your innocence in prison. Do you still wake up shivering in the middle of the night imagining that
they are behind you holding you down? GO GET SOME COUNSELLING!!!


Sure you do child.
Like I said, you can pay me through western union and you'll get your photos. otherwise what benefit would I get playing
top trumps would a worthless prison gimp like you.
By the way, non of your "pictures" of random prostitutes have you with the prostitutes. Just pointing out that anyone can go to
google, or whatever and upload random photos of random disease ridden escorts and say "hey look at the escorts I'm banging"


They would not be attracted to you, correct.

What can we learn from this freak? He hates women and he claims he would not even be attracted to whatever women....he isn't bothered talking to women who aren't prostitutes as "they are not interesting" etc ......men are not worth speaking to either as "it's mostly men on this site and look how that goes"..........so there is nobody on the planet worth speaking to according to Richard the freak except ...THE PROSTITUTES THAT HE PAYS TO BE WITH.......

So what can we learn? His ego is protecting him against rejection. All of the women that he hates, all of the women that "are not even hot", all of the women that "are not even interesting to talk to", all men that could be potential wingmen or simply friends to hang out with that are simply uninteresting......these are all instances where our poor baby has been rejected before and had his little heart rejected or instances where he knows that he will be rejected as he is very much aware that HE HAS NO VALUE TO OFFER ANYBODY......this guy is a psychic vampire......

.....so we can observe that the only people on the planet worth anything to him are the women who will not reject him.....
....PAID PROSTITUTES.........because he has something of value to offer to them......COLD HARD CASH...

All of this baby's lashing back at the world is simple EGO PROTECTION......"I will reject them before they get a chance to reject me....."

Poor little fella. Prison has left scars.....and not just the physical ones...
Plus, I don't give a fvck about what I did 10 fvcking years ago.

Name one thing you've ever done in your life that makes you not a complete pu$$y.
 

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You got sent to prison for four years FOR STALKING WOMEN WHILE HIGH ON LSD.....

I think you've already lost the MORAL HIGH GROUND and are in no position to be judging anyone approaching women.


This guy hates women and is ever so hostile to men. He states "I spent four years in prison so like my own space"
Son, nobody here took your innocence in prison. Do you still wake up shivering in the middle of the night imagining that
they are behind you holding you down? GO GET SOME COUNSELLING!!!

just lol. how did you know about the lsd stalking thingy
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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