How do I convince a girl to do something I want?

[devilkingx2]

I'll try and keep it short: girl (18 y/o, chubby, pink hair, really short, seemingly inexperienced but talks big) I met in NYC and smashed all summer is going to transfer to my college in the spring (I'm taking this semester off for personal reasons but I'll be back in the spring), but still goes to a college in upstate NY for the next 3 months or so,

since we can't have sex (for now) I want her to send me sexy pics (for example, her in a thong but I want her to take it somewhere that isn't private to make it sexier/naughtier, think: public category on pornhub, ) for the next few months. she's reluctant (I honestly thought it would be really easy to convince her, I know a girl who posts selfies in her underwear in her shared dorm bathroom all the time, and I know another girl who takes sexy pics in her work uniform in the bathroom mirror while on the clock lmfao), how do I get her to do it?

now you may wonder, "why don't you just get normal sexy pics?" because I spent so much time getting them out of random girls in my life that I find them boring unless they're spiced up in some way.

you may also wonder "are you spinning other plates?" well the other girl I was gonna bang til this one got back into town got back with her boyfriend recently so I'm really SOL on that front.

If it wasn't possible to talk girls into whatever weird kinky stuff you're into 50 shades of gray wouldn't exist, right guys? lol.

 

[cola]

Numerous questions ..

1. Why are you dating a girl with pink hair..

2. If you've seen her nude already why do you need pics?

3. Do you realize that's a weird as f*ck request..?
That's like a chick asking you to send a d*ck picture .....

But take it in mcdonalds bathroom...

Creepy in my opinion.

 

[devilkingx2]

Numerous questions ..

1. Why are you dating a girl with pink hair..

2. If you've seen her nude already why do you need pics?

3. Do you realize that's a weird as f*ck request..?
That's like a chick asking you to send a d*ck picture .....

But take it in mcdonalds bathroom...

Creepy in my opinion.

1. I don't really have a particularly good explanation for that

2. Because i won't be seeing her naked again for months, duh. Also I have a short attention span I'll lose interest if she can't keep me entertained.

3. That sounds hilarious i would do it lmfao.

 

[cola]

Hopefully you'll look back at this thread in 5-6 years and shake your head at yourself.

 

[lizardking82]

Stop dating trash. Girls with pink hair, girls with meaningless tattoos on their body, girls who wanna look "cool", these type of trash. Start looking for Sally or Nancy who's a bit shy, but a monster in bed.

 

[AJ84]

I'll try and keep it short: girl (18 y/o, chubby, pink hair, really short, seemingly inexperienced but talks big) I met in NYC and smashed all summer is going to transfer to my college in the spring (I'm taking this semester off for personal reasons but I'll be back in the spring), but still goes to a college in upstate NY for the next 3 months or so,

since we can't have sex (for now) I want her to send me sexy pics (for example, her in a thong but I want her to take it somewhere that isn't private to make it sexier/naughtier, think: public category on pornhub, ) for the next few months. she's reluctant (I honestly thought it would be really easy to convince her, I know a girl who posts selfies in her underwear in her shared dorm bathroom all the time, and I know another girl who takes sexy pics in her work uniform in the bathroom mirror while on the clock lmfao), how do I get her to do it?

now you may wonder, "why don't you just get normal sexy pics?" because I spent so much time getting them out of random girls in my life that I find them boring unless they're spiced up in some way.

you may also wonder "are you spinning other plates?" well the other girl I was gonna bang til this one got back into town got back with her boyfriend recently so I'm really SOL on that front.

If it wasn't possible to talk girls into whatever weird kinky stuff you're into 50 shades of gray wouldn't exist, right guys? lol.

So because other girls post semi naked pictures you're surprised that she won't?

Sounds like you want what you see in pornhub to play out in real life via your own stream of porn pics. I recently read an article on how young men are having sexual issues due to too much porn, where they can't get the same kind of stimulation with real women that they get from what they see in porn and it results in ED and other sorts of things.

I don't know why but this post reminds me of that article. I guess because here you are, a 20 yr old guy getting bored by girls unless they are sending porn style pictures. You're a 20 yr old guy who is bored with girls and you are trying to get one of them to recreate something you saw on the public catogory of pornhub.

You're 20, and bored with girls unless they're spiced up in some way.

This is not a good trajectory for you. Lay off pornhub for a bit.

 

[marmel75]

Why would you want to see a chubby chick naked any more than you had to?

 

[Building_and_Loan]

If you have to ask a girl to send nudes of her, she's less likely to send them to you unless she's already really attracted to you.

Just get her snapchat, make her legs tingle, and if she wants to, she'll send you pix.

 

[soulforge]

Dude what is wrong with you.. Girls are usually hesitant to send the normal type nude pics, yet you want her to take Vag pics at her local walmart..

Your going to come across as a creepy mofo to her.. You need to lay off the porn man

 

[devilkingx2]

yet you want her to take Vag pics at her local walmart..

I saw something exactly like that on pornh-

. You need to lay off the porn man

...maybe you're right. I will consider it

Your going to come across as a creepy mofo to her

this is not the weirdest conversation I've had with this girl specifically, and this isn't the weirdest thing I've asked a girl for either. well, in my opinion anyway. I've had some pretty weird conversations, it's not really fun if it's normal lol.

 

[devilkingx2]

Why would you want to see a chubby chick naked any more than you had to?

because it's better than not seeing a girl naked imo lol.

 

[AJ84]

I saw something exactly like that on pornh-



...maybe you're right. I will consider it



this is not the weirdest conversation I've had with this girl specifically, and this isn't the weirdest thing I've asked a girl for either. well, in my opinion anyway. I've had some pretty weird conversations, it's not really fun if it's normal lol.

It's fun mixing it up and being freaky but there's a line between spicy fun and only being able to enjoy it if it's as close to porn as possible. Real life women are not paid entertainers posing and moaning for a camera, trying to get the best angle for a visual.

The more porn you watch, the more freaky, weird stuff you may need to watch get off. What went from a simple video of a nude girl bouncing around becomes something else months later.

Ask yourself how much of this is porn influence and how much is what you would geniunely be into if you never saw it on a porn site.

If it's porn influenced:
Layoff the porn and reset your d**k to real life secs so you don't wake up at 30yrs old, with a string of failed relationships, wondering why your one night stands aren't into ATM followed by a golden shower followed by a facial while suspended from the ceiling wearing a furry with holes cut out in the right places. Just saying.

 

[devilkingx2]

It's fun mixing it up and being freaky but there's a line between spicy fun and only being able to enjoy it if it's as close to porn as possible.

if it was all about my porn habits I'd be talking her into letting me watch her in a lesbian orgy with a bunch of squirters, but she'd never agree to that, and yet I still talk to her, knowing that she won't ever do the things I typically see in porn lol.

plus I watch a lot of stuff in porn I explicitly wouldn't want to do irl. not super huge on getting messy.

Ask yourself how much of this is porn influence and how much is what you would geniunely be into if you never saw it on a porn site.

if I quit porn cold turkey forever tomorrow, the only real impact on my life that it would have, is that I'd want more freaky perverted stuff from my plates since I ain't getting it anywhere else.

though I will say that it's really a chicken and egg kind of thing, if I had never seen something in porn and didn't like it, then I saw it in porn and liked it, how can anyone determine if porn made me like something I didn't like before or if I always would've liked it and just didn't know about it before?

 

[AJ84]

Sounds like you need to find girls who are into super freaky stuff then, and not waste time trying to get this girl to do something that she doesn't seem to want to do, hence your original question.

Instead of asking, "How can I convince a girl to do something I want?" Ask, "What's the best way to meet girls who are into what I want?"

Really, the last thing you want to do is try to conjole a girl into doing something sexually that she is not comfortable doing like sending you sexy pics. In this hyper alert cyber bullying/ rape culture/ harassment age that could come back to bite you in the butt. Just focus on meeting willing and freaky girls by being upfront from the hop with what you are into, ie sexy semi nude pics in Walmart or whatever.

 

[beforeimgone]

I'll try and keep it short: girl (18 y/o, chubby, pink hair, really short, seemingly inexperienced but talks big) I met in NYC and smashed all summer is going to transfer to my college in the spring (I'm taking this semester off for personal reasons but I'll be back in the spring), but still goes to a college in upstate NY for the next 3 months or so,

since we can't have sex (for now) I want her to send me sexy pics (for example, her in a thong but I want her to take it somewhere that isn't private to make it sexier/naughtier, think: public category on pornhub, ) for the next few months. she's reluctant (I honestly thought it would be really easy to convince her, I know a girl who posts selfies in her underwear in her shared dorm bathroom all the time, and I know another girl who takes sexy pics in her work uniform in the bathroom mirror while on the clock lmfao), how do I get her to do it?

now you may wonder, "why don't you just get normal sexy pics?" because I spent so much time getting them out of random girls in my life that I find them boring unless they're spiced up in some way.

you may also wonder "are you spinning other plates?" well the other girl I was gonna bang til this one got back into town got back with her boyfriend recently so I'm really SOL on that front.

If it wasn't possible to talk girls into whatever weird kinky stuff you're into 50 shades of gray wouldn't exist, right guys? lol.

You want nudes? Ask in a deadpan and matter of fact manner. Get her to spread her pvssy lips and be nasty as fvck.

Tell her:
"Do something for me"
"Do a photo shoot for me"
Etc