"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Landed her number - what next?

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Ive recently been on a new trend of only talking to complete dimes -- pushed my old roster of girls to the side.

So was out with a buddy at upscale bar and a waitress who wasnt supposed to attend us or take our order strikes up conversation with me

Gave her some feedback then ordered a drink -- fair enough maybe thats what she wants lol, then give my attention back to my friend

After her coming back once or twice we talk some more and i really strike her interest had a cool convo played it smooth

Told her to bring me the bill she said dont worry about it (we had 6 drinks total lol and offers one more) I said sure.

I then told her id like to leave with her # so told her be creative and find a way to get it to me -- she left me a note with her # touched my shoulder and whispered nice meeting you

Again the drinks were free lol so ill assume its not a tip tactic

Regardless that was the previous Friday

Wanted to reach out to her -- any tips or suggestions?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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stringpuller said:
The way that went down i think you got this one bro. She wants the diddley...
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Haha. Well like I said she was a dime, not that i care too much but trying to build my new roster of complete 10s

My ordinary follow up call or text of nice meeting you - to lets grab a drink could possibly work

Just would like to elevate my game some more open to new suggestions
 
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This is the part where you go out with her.
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Lol Im aware.

Maybe I should have clarified Id like to elevate my game so more -- i cant keep my same system -- have to grow and incorporate others help as well

Sometimes with this forum people are pretty negative when someone is using it as a learning platform lol
 
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jdamack said:
Haha. Well like I said she was a dime, not that i care too much but trying to build my new roster of complete 10s

My ordinary follow up call or text of nice meeting you - to lets grab a drink could possibly work

Just would like to elevate my game some more open to new suggestions
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This ^^^^^^^

Whether she is a 7 or 10, the game is still the same.

"Nice meeting you the other night. Lets grab a drink and this time I will actually pay....unless you insist that I dont again ;). What evening works best for you?"

Easy peasy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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stringpuller said:
We dont let that bother us.
I dont know man that was pretty tight. I think the next step is to meet up with her. She felt a strong attraction for you i think you got this.
As far as learning? If your not invested in being with her. Throw somthing at her you always questioned about game. See what happens.
Its not my thing. I try to stay in what im feeling. I just cancelled on a girl for sex tonight and she not a happy camper.
I really wasnt feeling to so i really dont give a fuk.
My son wants to drink beer. And a buddy is bringing a chainsaw over to take out a cpl trees. What could be better then beer chainsaw and a few bad azz dudes lol
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Haha i like your style man

Never respected dudes who can toss away plans just for some sex; the plans you chose sound like the real deal. The girl will be there another day

As for the girl i met; id like to see where it can go so might now go too far off track, but just wanted some opinion -- but yea i figured it was a lock but you never know after a few days have to come back and mind **** her again lol
 
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Glassguy said:
This ^^^^^^^

Whether she is a 7 or 10, the game is still the same.

"Nice meeting you the other night. Lets grab a drink and this time I will actually pay....unless you insist that I dont again ;). What evening works best for you?"

Easy peasy.
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100% right -- should be treating it the same, maybe overthinking a bit which is throwing me off
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Getting a number used to be like a 75% chance that you'd get the date.

Nowadays it's more like 10%...it means not quite next to nothing, but pretty close to it.

Do not assume just cause you have the number it's a sure thing.

What to do from here? Simple, text her a few times and then ask her out in the 3rd or 4th text.
 
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