“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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JonnyD123

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As talked about in another post, my gf of a year broke up w/ me a little less than a week ago. She said she didn't wanna do it anymore and asked for all her stuff back. I didn't wine or plea or beg, I complied and left all of her belongings in her car while she was at work.

Went full NC, she just texted me tonight wanting to meet up. My first thought is to tell her she made her bed now lay in it, but I'd be lying if I said I didnt wanna see her again. What would your response/action be? Much appreciated.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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How about snapchatting a girl? Is that the same attention giver as a text?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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No response.

Delete text and block. You deserve better than a woman who randomly breaks up with you and says "I don't want to do it anymore."

If she gets back with you, it's just out of comfort, because she didn't get the response she wanted and because her other option didn't fall through.

Nothing stopping her from breaking up with you again or even cheating on you as soon as another c0ck comes knocking.
 

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"Meeting up with a friend...sorry."

=hamster overdrive turbo
Ahhhh dammit hahaha. Wish I would've seen this sooner I would've said that. Following coach Corey Wayne he teaches not to ignore so all I said was I can't tonight, sorry. Didn't get a response but just found out she blocked me on IG/FB.
 

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so all I said was I can't tonight, sorry.
Has the same effect on her. Both statements tell her you're busy living your life without her in it.
Your life didn't magically end when she decided to look for strange dik, did it?
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Ahhhh dammit hahaha. Wish I would've seen this sooner I would've said that. Following coach Corey Wayne he teaches not to ignore so all I said was I can't tonight, sorry. Didn't get a response but just found out she blocked me on IG/FB.
Typical actions when a woman's emotions are raging from insecurity.

Make sure you don't show her that you've even noticed her blocking you. Just continue with life as usual. Don't give her the validation of knowing that you've even checked her fb or IG.
 

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Typical actions when a woman's emotions are raging from insecurity.

Make sure you don't show her that you've even noticed her blocking you. Just continue with life as usual. Don't give her the validation of knowing that you've even checked her fb or IG.
Done and done. I'm chilling man haha
 

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When a woman overtly says it's not working out, take her word for it.

If you go back she'll bring up hell again soon and you will be miserable.

You are anyway going to do what you are going to do, just remember, this is only going to go south if you stay in touch.
 

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As talked about in another post, my gf of a year broke up w/ me a little less than a week ago. She said she didn't wanna do it anymore and asked for all her stuff back. I didn't wine or plea or beg, I complied and left all of her belongings in her car while she was at work.

Went full NC, she just texted me tonight wanting to meet up. My first thought is to tell her she made her bed now lay in it, but I'd be lying if I said I didnt wanna see her again. What would your response/action be? Much appreciated.
Sounds like she was branch swinging to the next guy then the branch broke now she is looking backwards.


Don't give her anything more than "sorry can't meet up with you. I have a date at that time."
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Dude, take this from me because my ex left in pretty much the same way: she said "I don't feel it anymore" in the same day she was jumping from joy when she saw me and hugged me and kissed and we had awesome sex just a couple of days before that.

When a woman tells you "I can't do this anymore", she's not your kinda woman. This is the kinda woman that will handle everything in her life like this, by leaving. It's their nature, most of them anyways. They just leave because it makes them feel like they do not have any responsability for whatever happened. Take it easy, boy, and DO NOT ANSWER. **** her, she made her bed, now let her lay in it. Emotionally unstable and immature, she's a disaster waiting to happen. Nothing more than a booty call and I would even avoid that since it will probably stir you up with emotions and might lead to wrong decisions in the future.
 

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You dodged the bullet.:D
 

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Dude, take this from me because my ex left in pretty much the same way: she said "I don't feel it anymore" in the same day she was jumping from joy when she saw me and hugged me and kissed and we had awesome sex just a couple of days before that.

When a woman tells you "I can't do this anymore", she's not your kinda woman. This is the kinda woman that will handle everything in her life like this, by leaving. It's their nature, most of them anyways. They just leave because it makes them feel like they do not have any responsability for whatever happened. Take it easy, boy, and DO NOT ANSWER. **** her, she made her bed, now let her lay in it. Emotionally unstable and immature, she's a disaster waiting to happen. Nothing more than a booty call and I would even avoid that since it will probably stir you up with emotions and might lead to wrong decisions in the future.
Right on the money man, especially the whole leaving to avoid responsibility thing. She's very good at playing the victim and although I know she still has feelings for me, she's bailed in the past and I know things just aren't going to change.
 
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