"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
RichardTheFrog
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It's her heart that counts...
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I hope it works out for you!It's her heart that counts...
Thnx..I hope it works out for you!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Joke??
I can understand your jealousy,she is a very beautiful woman indeed (a blonde bombshell) BTW American women are prettier than eastern women and you have to have more "game" to keep them,eastern women are overrated,I know I have traveled the world.Men like you who trash American women in my opinion do not understand "game" at all.... and have to resort to mail order brides lool..... read Poon King,and Pook woman are the same world over.
dustmuffin
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I trust you are joking, if not, you must have your fat colored glasses on and when you look in the mirror, your stuart smalley glasses on. You must be way into virtue signalling, only way you can get any chicks to like or validate you...smh.
marmel75
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Does she happened to be named Umfufu?
I'm not showing you....I don't want you drooling all over your computer screen....
If you think she is beautiful, I believe you.
A lot of members here think we need to date girls who THEY want.
We only need girls who WE want. If they turn us on, they are hot enough.
Have to disagree on the Asian girls however. Been in the land of Aussie for 16 years now. Had plenty of Sarahs, Crystals, Cathys, Mandy's, etc. I find the rice girls at least 20 % better behaved. And there is the incredible bonus of the one inch square. U can even get big titted varieties if you don't mind Malay or flips. Checkout the thread where fruitbat sees the light and joins me on the yellow fever ward. And he s shagged half the hoes in England. BTW neither of us had to go mail order.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Guess who is coming over too see "daddy" tonight.......Happy Saint Patrick's Day.......EAT.YOUR.HEARTS.OUT.