How long has it been for you?

[dk1990S111]

How long has it been since you met a girl that has no red flags? Or maybe just one or two minor ones?

 

[The Duke]

No red flags within the first 3months?.......only 3 out of 50+ in the past 9yrs! The youngest I dated was 21, the oldest was 46.

 

[wifehunter]

Forever

 

[shesabranchswinger]

Since I was unaware of red flags so 25 years ago. I'm sure we have red flags ourselves but I have not seen a woman alive who had less than 3 red flags. For me I just hang out with them till I can't deal with their red flags or I find one with less red flags.

 

[dk1990S111]

Just makes me wonder since everyone talks about how once you start noticing red flags it's time to bail or not take them seriously for an LTR. But seems like every girl is gunna have atleast a few red flags these days.

If you aren't seeing red flags you aren't looking hard enough or they are good at hiding sh1t?

 

[bigneil]

You need to overcome red flags, not avoid them.

 

[dk1990S111]

You need to overcome red flags, not avoid them.

Interesting take on it

 

[shesabranchswinger]

I try to have a bless your heart approach to red flags myself. If it's to good to be true it usually is and if you start believing the hype that you built her up to on a pedestal then get ready for weeks, months and or years of depression in your future over something you built a person into in your mind but they were just another human in reality.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Thread translation: "I'm flawless. When was the last time all of you other flawless guys found a flawless woman?"

PSA: You are not perfect. Stop searching for a perfect woman. You will never find her. If she does exist you are not worthy of her. Because you are not perfect.

What are your red flags?

 

[SeymourCake]

You need to overcome red flags, not avoid them.

You need to overcome natural disasters, not avoid them.

 

[devilkingx2]

if she was perfect she wouldn't be single (and she wouldn't be stealable either, you'd have to wait for the relationship to run its course)

 

[bigneil]

You need to overcome natural disasters, not avoid them.

If your dates are analogous to disasters, you have poor taste in women.

I had to steal my woman away from her man. I didn't insist on dating women with no men.

 

[SeymourCake]

If your dates are analogous to disasters, you have poor taste in women.

I had to steal my woman away from her man. I didn't insist on dating women with no men.

Women who show signs of red flags are disasters waiting to happen. They are a ticking bomb waiting to go off.

 

[bigneil]

if she was perfect she wouldn't be single (and she wouldn't be stealable either, you'd have to wait for the relationship to run its course)

Give me a f*cking break. Newsflash: hot girls have boyfriends. Be hotter.

 

[bigneil]

devilkingx2, a woman has no obligation to stay with her boyfriend. If she finds better, by definition of the word better, she should take it. This is not cruelty, quite the opposite. This is necessary to inspire the lesser man to improve.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Women who show signs of red flags are disasters waiting to happen. They are a ticking bomb waiting to go off.

Well it's good to think about WHY they have these red flags. They are missing something within themselves, trying to fill some kind of void. Figure it out, and use it. They will love you even more for it. And then go in deeper and deeper to make it so that her void will be even bigger if you leave. That's how you leave your mark on a woman. That's how you make her yours forever. That's how you reach the top of her 'high score', if you will.

 

[dk1990S111]

Thread translation: "I'm flawless. When was the last time all of you other flawless guys found a flawless woman?"

PSA: You are not perfect. Stop searching for a perfect woman. You will never find her. If she does exist you are not worthy of her. Because you are not perfect.

What are your red flags?

You couldn't be more wrong bro lol I know I'm not perfect. Started the thread because a girl I've known for about a year and have been talking to a lot lately really isn't showing any red flags that I can see. Since I've joined here learning to better judge girls has been something I wanted to improve on, so not like I don't know what to look for.

 

[bigneil]

When we first met (as many of you know) my girlfriend had enough red flags to scare a buzzard off a sh!twagon (she was a 20 year old stripper for starters). One by one I realized most of the things that scared me about her were exaggerated, or all in my imagination, or she grew out of them, or she admitted she was wrong, or she trended in the other direction. Suddenly she has blossomed into a nearly perfect woman.

If it feels incredible (for both of you) to hold each other, you can work through most of the other things.

 

[SmooveMooves]

You couldn't be more wrong bro lol I know I'm not perfect. Started the thread because a girl I've known for about a year and have been talking to a lot lately really isn't showing any red flags that I can see. Since I've joined here learning to better judge girls has been something I wanted to improve on, so not like I don't know what to look for.

My bad homie.


I just hate the "all woman suck" narrative going on here.

I still think everyone has red flags. Including that girl and yourself.

 

[devilkingx2]

devilkingx2, a woman has no obligation to stay with her boyfriend. If she finds better, by definition of the word better, she should take it. This is not cruelty, quite the opposite. This is necessary to inspire the lesser man to improve.

so in your mind a perfect girl isn't loyal but is instead willing to throw you away the moment the next guy she likes comes along?

I've already dated girls like that, it's a fvcking disaster.