BeTheChange
Master Don Juan
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Huh?Didnt read the email but if it was like every other time then yeah.
Tbh it looks more like she is fishing for attention than legitimate interest. Best to let this one go. You truly win, when you don't have to make a thread about her in the first place.Its been 9 months NC almost a year since i seen her.
I have been training seriously in that time and got great results, plus heaps if self improvement and growth, feeling good boyos.
other day i ran into her best friend (hb8) who couldnt stop complimenting me and squeezed my arms lol (this one is the hot slutty girl who my ex worships) its funny because this girl used to pretty much snob me when i was out of shape depressed dude with the bpd, but now she was all "omg you look so different, good for you, wow" and smiling and hard eye contact.
Anyway I knew at that point the clock was ticking.
Anyway opened my emails and there it was, the email from the ex.
Opened it and just saw wall of text starting with:
"i know you hate me and want nothing to do with me but"
DELETE
No thanks.
Tldr: they ALWAYS come back
If she actually wanted you back you would KNOW. That's how BPDs are.
They either love/hate you (which manifests in the same type of behaviour) or they're pretty much indifferent to you.