You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Just number closed with same opener
number closing means very little, call us when you get a date (and they show up)Number closed again
so you're a middle aged insecure woman? because that's the demographic of people who get offended by thatIn northamwrica is rude to ask someones age but if you really want to know u can pm me
Whats wrong not revealing my age in a public forum. I said if you want it you can pm me. Its very offensive to call people names. Show some respect.number closing means very little, call us when you get a date (and they show up)
so you're a middle aged insecure woman? because that's the demographic of people who get offended by that
Adjust yourself. Don't go into defense mode.I was in the supermarket and i did an indirect approach, she was not receptive and i moved on.
Same thing that is wrong with your weirdo pick up line. Just weird that's all.Whats wrong not revealing my age in a public forum.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
well as long as they don't start using silver bullets you should be good to gothe city where I live people are onto pick up in a negative way. Its on the news and reporters tracking down pua's etc... feminists handing out flyers 'warning' women that pua's frequent this area and telling women how to shut them down