"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How do you respond when women ask you this question?

El Payaso

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When they ask you how many women you've been with?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AttackFormation

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I just give them 3 guesses and say they'll never know if they don't guess right. Then when they fail, I say all right, I'll give them 2 more. Then okay, one last. Then they're out. The trick is no matter what they guess, I say it's wrong, and that's the end of that.
 

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I joke about it. "Today?... just you, maybe... depends on how things go, but so far so good." Or something to that effect... depends on the woman and if I've already slept with her.

If we're on a first date... Again I'll tease her and say "Whoa! Slow down cowgirl... I'm not sure if I like you yet... but things are looking up."
 

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When they ask you how many women you've been with?
Don't ever remember a chick asking me that question. If she did I'd just tell her I never had time to run after every chick because I've lived a wild life doing wtf I wanted to. Either I was in an ltr or I wasn't and getting into trouble with friends. Growing up for me was exploring and getting into mischief not trying to be a so-called "don juan" as if I needed chicks acceptance.

In the end no one is really impressed with how many chicks some dude or chicks been with if they have lived life. Might as well be "impressed" with how many chicks Fidel Castro or porn stars have been with and tbh who really cares.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've been speculated a similar question like this(basically said I talked to a lot of girls) and I said:

"Only the pretty ones... But there's only one in front of me..."
 

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It's been years since I've been asked this! I'm thinking like HS yrs probably.

But last night a chick did ask me if I've ever fvcked a girl in the a**. Yes lot's of lube is the way to go!
 

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"I don't know." Field-tested lol.

Or this:
I always say I'm a virgin and wink at her.
Really, there probably isn't a right or wrong answer as long as you feel comfortable with it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i got hit with this a couple of weeks back and to be honest it took me back a bit

i just said " wow its a bit early for that question" and "probably not as many as you think"

she didn't push any harder ,

dont really know why a woman would ask such a strange question to be honest chances are she's with you because you are capable of attracting women in the first place so the answer is pretty self explanatory
 

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dont really know why a woman would ask such a strange question
I think it's weird as well. Shows immaturity, insecurity or a bit of both. Something you'd expect from a teenager.
 

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Woman: How many women have you been with??
Old_Skoolr: Plenty.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I didn't get that question, but my plate started talking about how one of her GFs gets around casually, and she was like "I just never did that. Have you had times where you just had fun and gotten around?"... I didn't know how to respond as the question was a bit abstract, so I said "what are you talking about?" and she rephrased, then I just changed the topic...
 

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I've never been asked that question. I think the vibe I give off is one that causes them to fear what the answer might be so they don't ask. But if they did ask, I would tell them "enough to know what I'm doing, and it's irrelevant".
 

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You think that's bad....

What do answer when your mistress asks... "When was the last time you had sex with your wife ?"
 

El Payaso

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You think that's bad....

What do answer when your mistress asks... "When was the last time you had sex with your wife ?"
How's that bad?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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