"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
If you could trade places with any poster ever on So Suave
- Thread starter 9Volt
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TheFixer14
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logicallefty
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Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
The great thing about SoSuave is that we have access to the thoughts and philosophies of some great minds while still maintaining our individuality.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
I want to be myself, always, no matter how f8cked up my life is. I want to experience the joy of being me now and seeing myself in 10 years after reaching all my dreams and experience that joy. I love being myself no matter the circumstances.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Then you would become illlogical righty and none of your posts would make any sense. It might even create a collapsing singularity that would destroy Sosuave...
Once upon a time DavidDeangelo posted here under the name @sysnopyh. That dudes gotta be a millionaire by now.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'd trade places with like tom Brady for a day though. That'd be cool. Get out there and sling a couple lazers in a playoff game feel the vibe and be back to me in the am.
ChristopherColumbus
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dustmuffin
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TheMonkeyKing
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Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
This will let me be a cop for a few days, and you can fly my aerial cinematography business.
What say you?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
logicallefty
Moderator
That would be fun. I'd fly it! Being a cop isn't as difficult as people think, at least not to me. I think running a business of any size with any number of employees would be harder. I don't know if I have what it takes for that or not. The main reasons why many people can't be cops is because they either let their power go to their head and forget how to be a regular human being while also being a cop, and/or, they can't keep their cool and critically think under pressure.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Still rolling with the punches.
