"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you could trade places with any poster ever on So Suave

9Volt

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Since there has been many legends/ great posters on these forums If you could trade places with any poster who ever posted on so suave who would it be and how do you think doing so would improve your life or situation if at all?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Atom Smasher

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LOL, you beat me to it.

The great thing about SoSuave is that we have access to the thoughts and philosophies of some great minds while still maintaining our individuality.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I wouldn´t even trade my life for a succesfull artist who can fvck whoever he wants like Justin Bieber.

I want to be myself, always, no matter how f8cked up my life is. I want to experience the joy of being me now and seeing myself in 10 years after reaching all my dreams and experience that joy. I love being myself no matter the circumstances.
 

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You'd still be you, just in their body

So if you are a **** up, you'll still be a **** up

So don't wish for things like this, work on being the best YOU
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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theres a lot of great posters here but 'trade places' ? Not chance lol

I'd trade places with like tom Brady for a day though. That'd be cool. Get out there and sling a couple lazers in a playoff game feel the vibe and be back to me in the am.
 

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Just for a day, just for fun, I'd trade with quite a few.

Obviously @guru1000 to fact check the substance behind the talk. @Espi to see how chicks react to that bod. Maybe some of the younger lads so I could access the college chicks again :D
 

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@logicallefty , I'll trade for a couple days with you.

This will let me be a cop for a few days, and you can fly my aerial cinematography business.

What say you?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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@logicallefty , I'll trade for a couple days with you.

This will let me be a cop for a few days, and you can fly my aerial cinematography business.

What say you?
That would be fun. I'd fly it! Being a cop isn't as difficult as people think, at least not to me. I think running a business of any size with any number of employees would be harder. I don't know if I have what it takes for that or not. The main reasons why many people can't be cops is because they either let their power go to their head and forget how to be a regular human being while also being a cop, and/or, they can't keep their cool and critically think under pressure.
 

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Sometimes, I wish, I was still a lurker. Fools make me ill.

Still rolling with the punches.
 

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Lol it's hard to answer this question because 99.5% are anonymous.
 

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DrBeard has given me more for my entertainment dollar than anybody, hands-down.
 
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