"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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All I did was talk to her friend, now she's chasing?

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Months ago this brunette I've noticed was sitting with a friend in the target cafe. They had a pizza from California pizza kitchen... I opened her friend on the pizza, and chatted for a bit. Ever since then she's been orbiting me and maintaining eye contact.

Strange, today she just sat down at my table, and didn't say a word. An hour later, I caught her eye and she looked away.

She may be a candidate for my LA china town adventure, could be fun!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you fantasize about things more than most women.
 
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She sat at your table, and neither of you said a word? Im confused...? You need to make a move or she will lose interest. Attraction doesn't last forever...
 
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wifehunter said:
Months ago this brunette I've noticed was sitting with a friend in the target cafe. They had a pizza from California pizza kitchen... I opened her friend on the pizza, and chatted for a bit. Ever since then she's been orbiting me and maintaining eye contact.

Strange, today she just sat down at my table, and didn't say a word. An hour later, I caught her eye and she looked away.

She may be a candidate for my LA china town adventure, could be fun!!!
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Sounds like she was waiting for you to open.
Lol "an hour later" sounds !ike you made her wait!

U wanna hit it?
 
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Roober said:
She sat at your table, and neither of you said a word? Im confused...? You need to make a move or she will lose interest. Attraction doesn't last forever...
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This is true tho, based on your descrption, I dont think you have lost attraction yet.

Again, I say, you wanna hit that?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Roober said:
You need to make a move or she will lose interest. Attraction doesn't last forever...
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This has been going on for months, with a 2+ month break in between.

If attraction doesn't last forever, how long does it last? Any real time frame? I doubt anyone can answer this question.

Time pressure, to make a move, kills any fun that may or may not have taken place.

This isnt a drive thru...it's more like a slow cooker.

The key word is "months"
 
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sazc said:
Sounds like she was waiting for you to open.
Lol "an hour later" sounds !ike you made her wait!

U wanna hit it?
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Maybe, I'd like to know her first.

She's definitely my type.
 
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What were you waiting for, her twerking in your face?

"I'd like to get to know her first" !!!
How, if you aren't even talking to her? That's what dates are for.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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