"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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All I did was talk to her friend, now she's chasing?

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Months ago this brunette I've noticed was sitting with a friend in the target cafe. They had a pizza from California pizza kitchen... I opened her friend on the pizza, and chatted for a bit. Ever since then she's been orbiting me and maintaining eye contact.

Strange, today she just sat down at my table, and didn't say a word. An hour later, I caught her eye and she looked away.

She may be a candidate for my LA china town adventure, could be fun!!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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marmel75

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you fantasize about things more than most women.
 

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She sat at your table, and neither of you said a word? Im confused...? You need to make a move or she will lose interest. Attraction doesn't last forever...
 

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Months ago this brunette I've noticed was sitting with a friend in the target cafe. They had a pizza from California pizza kitchen... I opened her friend on the pizza, and chatted for a bit. Ever since then she's been orbiting me and maintaining eye contact.

Strange, today she just sat down at my table, and didn't say a word. An hour later, I caught her eye and she looked away.

She may be a candidate for my LA china town adventure, could be fun!!!
Sounds like she was waiting for you to open.
Lol "an hour later" sounds !ike you made her wait!

U wanna hit it?
 

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She sat at your table, and neither of you said a word? Im confused...? You need to make a move or she will lose interest. Attraction doesn't last forever...
This is true tho, based on your descrption, I dont think you have lost attraction yet.

Again, I say, you wanna hit that?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You need to make a move or she will lose interest. Attraction doesn't last forever...
This has been going on for months, with a 2+ month break in between.

If attraction doesn't last forever, how long does it last? Any real time frame? I doubt anyone can answer this question.

Time pressure, to make a move, kills any fun that may or may not have taken place.

This isnt a drive thru...it's more like a slow cooker.

The key word is "months"
 

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Sounds like she was waiting for you to open.
Lol "an hour later" sounds !ike you made her wait!

U wanna hit it?
Maybe, I'd like to know her first.

She's definitely my type.
 
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What were you waiting for, her twerking in your face?

"I'd like to get to know her first" !!!
How, if you aren't even talking to her? That's what dates are for.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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