"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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All I did was talk to her friend, now she's chasing?

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Months ago this brunette I've noticed was sitting with a friend in the target cafe. They had a pizza from California pizza kitchen... I opened her friend on the pizza, and chatted for a bit. Ever since then she's been orbiting me and maintaining eye contact.

Strange, today she just sat down at my table, and didn't say a word. An hour later, I caught her eye and she looked away.

She may be a candidate for my LA china town adventure, could be fun!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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marmel75

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you fantasize about things more than most women.
 

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She sat at your table, and neither of you said a word? Im confused...? You need to make a move or she will lose interest. Attraction doesn't last forever...
 

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Months ago this brunette I've noticed was sitting with a friend in the target cafe. They had a pizza from California pizza kitchen... I opened her friend on the pizza, and chatted for a bit. Ever since then she's been orbiting me and maintaining eye contact.

Strange, today she just sat down at my table, and didn't say a word. An hour later, I caught her eye and she looked away.

She may be a candidate for my LA china town adventure, could be fun!!!
Sounds like she was waiting for you to open.
Lol "an hour later" sounds !ike you made her wait!

U wanna hit it?
 

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She sat at your table, and neither of you said a word? Im confused...? You need to make a move or she will lose interest. Attraction doesn't last forever...
This is true tho, based on your descrption, I dont think you have lost attraction yet.

Again, I say, you wanna hit that?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You need to make a move or she will lose interest. Attraction doesn't last forever...
This has been going on for months, with a 2+ month break in between.

If attraction doesn't last forever, how long does it last? Any real time frame? I doubt anyone can answer this question.

Time pressure, to make a move, kills any fun that may or may not have taken place.

This isnt a drive thru...it's more like a slow cooker.

The key word is "months"
 

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Sounds like she was waiting for you to open.
Lol "an hour later" sounds !ike you made her wait!

U wanna hit it?
Maybe, I'd like to know her first.

She's definitely my type.
 
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What were you waiting for, her twerking in your face?

"I'd like to get to know her first" !!!
How, if you aren't even talking to her? That's what dates are for.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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