mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yeah but he don't like fake ones. Some of us don't no matter how they "look".Well sh!t, she just slightly enlarged her bust size dude, she didn't die.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeah but he don't like fake ones. Some of us don't no matter how they "look".Well sh!t, she just slightly enlarged her bust size dude, she didn't die.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
(See above. About a 9. She is the most beautiful woman I've ever dated, though it's a matter of personal preference).Looks wise, what would you rate her at?
True, and this bugs me, but the surgery was 22 days after our first date. It's not exactly like she deceived me as much as went through with it. Will she really like the men who didn't like her when she had small boobs? She's already a gorgeous stripper. I don't imagine the competition will get any worse. She's already pretty much as hot as possible.@bigneil
Not bad at all...those are all before pics right? It looks like it from the bust you describe.
I have 2 pieces of advice I can offer.
1. Since she's already done this, just tell her you need to take them for a test drive. Maybe make a thing out of it where you try to get her to "convince" you to like the new bolt-ons.
2. To me, she did this for the attention. She already knew you liked small tits, yet she did it anyway. Over the course of the next year it seems likely she'll want to spend less time with you cause she wants to get all the mileage out of them that she can.
I have a preference for shorter women and I'm 6'3-4"ish like you and mostly muscle. I'd give her a solid 8. Small A cup to a decent small C I'm guessing which will look awesome. I have a propensity for a girl having a perfect smile otherwise my hotness scale drops for her.(See above. About a 9. She is the most beautiful woman I've ever dated, though it's a matter of personal preference).
What do you guys rate her? I hope low so there is more for me.
True, and this bugs me, but the surgery was 22 days after our first date. It's not exactly like she deceived me as much as went through with it. Will she really like the men who didn't like her when she had small boobs? She's already a gorgeous stripper. I don't imagine the competition will get any worse. She's already pretty much as hot as possible.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I work on graphics and camera technology plus I own a business so I can hire models for either hardware testing, film editing or advertising. All camera equipment and related expenses are deductible for tech companies. Girls love it when they get a real modeling job and can expense the dress, and they will bend over backwards to do their hair, et cetera. Few things provide such great feedback for photography and graphics as beautiful women. We automatically process hundreds of variables when we see them.What is this photography stuff, just out of curiousity? IIRC that is not a business. Is it just a hobby, or is it some sort of tool you use to engage women?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"Rate my girl" sub-forum sounds better.maybe we should have a "rate my girl" thread?
I don't know her well, true. But note that nearly 9 months elapsed between when I met her and when I got her number. It was the fourth text that I said "Wait, didn't we meet before at a hotel where you worked?" By that point we had already met for lunch, kissed, and she (later confessed) she fell for me when I managed to pull off a 3 way kiss with her and an equally hot girl. We had 3 dinner dates in the 3 weeks prior to her getting a boob job, which was already scheduled and paid for. True, not enough to know her, but saying 3 dates in 9 months is misleading.8.
And I can see why she wanted a boob job.
She'll probably be an 8+ with a decent chest no problem.
But 3 dates over a 9 month period isn't long enough to judge someone's personality...Sutely you'd know this at 41. I suspect at this stage OP is just bored and trolling us hard.
This is a good idea if we can keep things anonymous. Hot or Not isn't good anymore, and I'd rather just have the opinions of 90% Trump supporters here."Rate my girl" sub-forum sounds better.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.