Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Any of you guys on NoFap?
- Thread starter jebach123
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
dustmuffin
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wifehunter
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devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
raider87
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Tell me more. What benefits did you notice?
Infern0
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Well my "benefits" may be different from other people just because I had a long history with porn starting at an early age.
But highlights below:
More energy: something I'd had problems with for years, constant fatigue. On my work days I would haul my ass out of bed at the last minute feeling like utter ****, on days off I'd get up at 12. After 30 days on nofap I was wide awake at 7am even on days off
Drastically reduced social anxiety: again a problem for years, started around 15-16, went away gradually
More confident: probably due to the above
More discipline: quit other addictions like smoking and caffeine, got my finances in order, managed to make the gym stick
Better with women: I had learned game before nofap but still had a lot of problems and felt I was "faking" my frame, after a month of nofap I just became way more of a natural, game just felt natural and I was being authentic. I got out of friendzone with a girl without even trying etc.
So these are just a few of the benefits.
Nofap gets a lot of hate from people but the reason is because those guys don't WANT to give up masterbating or looking at porn. And if they want to stay sitting in a dark room blowing loads on themselves that's fine, whatever. I mean personally I think that's weak and disgusting but that's just me.
Theres real science backing up the effects of nofap on the brain, and I also think a lot of it has to do with testosterone and minerals too.
But of all the 1000s of reports online, you will not find a single person who has done a serious nofap streak and got no benefits and thought it was a waste of time.
I initially went for a 90 day Challenge but have been porn and masterbating free for a year now and it's been the most developmental and best year of my life (and the most sex I've ever had in q year by a distance)
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
I find afterwards im more relaxed and focused.