So silly!!!

[wifehunter]

So being a ladies man and having options is attractive, but when a girl is trying to lock you down, she gets jealous. Go figure.

I think, maybe we just broke up (testing, most likely), lol!!!

Oh, the joys of unofficial relationships.

 

[marmel75]

Just shrug your shoulders and replace her. No big deal.

 

[wifehunter]

Just shrug your shoulders and replace her. No big deal.

Wish it was that easy. We have history. Will spin a few plates, though.

 

[wifehunter]

Therein lies the paradox/neurosis of a woman's "love". Women want the man with options (or the ability to generate them), and then they want to cut off his having options.

Do not compromise your game.



All relationships are time-limited.

If she ditches you because you won't commit/sacrifice yourself for her security, then so be it.

Thanks, indifference, yet again! So, glad things never became "official".

 

[marmel75]

Wish it was that easy. We have history. Will spin a few plates, though.

What does that mean and why does it matter?

 

[wifehunter]

What does that mean and why does it matter?

That means, she's put me thru stuff like this before. If I walk away, she usually starts stalking me after a month or so. She doesn't know how to communicate what she wants. Its been around 14 months. We have a deep connection, being both introverts.

Sure wish this lady would talk. The deer in headlights is all I get, if she tries to approach me. She has shown confidence at times, but its rare.

 

[marmel75]

That means, she's put me thru stuff like this before. If I walk away, she usually starts stalking me after a month or so. She doesn't know how to communicate what she wants. Its been around 14 months. We have a deep connection, being both introverts.

Sure wish this lady would talk. The deer in headlights is all I get, if she tries to approach me. She has shown confidence at times, but its rare.

Umm, and you are with this woman why? This chick is going to turn out psycho

 

[wifehunter]

Umm, and you are with this woman why? This chick is going to turn out psycho

I can say, I'm not happy with the situation... buy psycho... I think you don't know introverts. Try a library or a bookstore. Oh, and don't bother them, they're busy being awesome.

 

[marmel75]

I can say, I'm not happy with the situation... buy psycho... I think you don't know introverts. Try a library or a bookstore. Oh, and don't bother them, they're busy being awesome.

I WAS an introvert until I got a job in retail and was forced to talk to people all day every day and became very comfortable with it. I'm still somewhat introverted, there are times I'd rather be alone than hanging out with others or being social. So I'd say I'm pretty familiar with them.

If you want to be more extroverted you can be with enough practice and desire, but you have to make that decision and actively work at it.

I view that as an excuse because you are unwilling to push yourself out of your comfort zone

 

[wifehunter]

I view that as an excuse because you are unwilling to push yourself out of your comfort zone

Typical extrovert response.

Introversion/Extroversion is about psychological energy. Shyness is something else.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Yes, introvert does not equal shyness. I consider myself...ambivert.

 

[marmel75]

Typical extrovert response.

Introversion/Extroversion is about psychological energy. Shyness is something else.

No that's bullish!t, sorry.

You will always trend towards one or tthe other but you can definitely actively become more extroverted if you wanted to. I know, I did it.

 

[Vantagepoint34]

So being a ladies man and having options is attractive, but when a girl is trying to lock you down, she gets jealous. Go figure.

I think, maybe we just broke up (testing, most likely), lol!!!

Oh, the joys of unofficial relationships.

OP You should look into a new Casino That was sold. Find your self a nice Super Spy Girlfriend. Blue Knight yourself.

 

[wifehunter]

No that's bullish!t, sorry.

You will always trend towards one or tthe other but you can definitely actively become more extroverted if you wanted to. I know, I did it.

No, you were just shy.

Introverts get psychlogical energy being away from people. Example: Thinking and reading. We recharge by using our brains and spending time alone in silence.

Extroverts gain energy by being around people. Socializing etc.

These are personality traits that makup who a person is. How they are wired. It would be easier to change your fingerprint.

But yes, a person can learn to be outgoing, if that's what you mean.

 

[devilkingx2]

the good thing about having side girls is that you don't give a **** when you lose one

 

[wifehunter]

the good thing about having side girls is that you don't give a **** when you lose one

She was my main chick... we were crazy about each other. She got jealous and ended it. Still not giving a sh!t because... at the end of the day...it's meant to be, or it's not. Odds are, she'll be back... But I'm not waiting around. Way too many hotties around here.

 

[marmel75]

No, you were just shy.

Introverts get psychlogical energy being away from people. Example: Thinking and reading. We recharge by using our brains and spending time alone in silence.

Extroverts gain energy by being around people. Socializing etc.

These are personality traits that makup who a person is. How they are wired. It would be easier to change your fingerprint.

But yes, a person can learn to be outgoing, if that's what you mean.

No, I wasn't shy I was/am introverted. I STILL get energy from doing that, and many times prefer that. Like sitting down and programming, or taking online classes or doing something that exercises my brain, or simply being alone. I mean I am part of the American Mensa after all, I fit the profile rather well.

I don't always enjoy being around a lot of people but I have learned to manage it better. The same way you can use your intelligence to learn a skill or exercise your brain, you can use your intelligence to figure out how to become more extroverted and function in that environment. And I think that's the takeaway---I am STILL introverted but have figured out how to function better in that environment and be more outgoing and talkative with people, although if I don't know many people I still tend to kind of keep to myself.

I'm pretty sure I know what I am personality wise a lot better than you, so you can cut the psychoanalyzing rubbish you are trying to offer me. If we are talking about Myers-Briggs personality types I am an INTJ for the record over multiple tests taken in a 10-12 year period, meaning it's pretty conclusive.

 

[wifehunter]

No, I wasn't shy I was/am introverted. I STILL get energy from doing that, and many times prefer that. Like sitting down and programming, or taking online classes or doing something that exercises my brain, or simply being alone. I mean I am part of the American Mensa after all, I fit the profile rather well.

I don't always enjoy being around a lot of people but I have learned to manage it better. The same way you can use your intelligence to learn a skill or exercise your brain, you can use your intelligence to figure out how to become more extroverted and function in that environment. And I think that's the takeaway---I am STILL introverted but have figured out how to function better in that environment and be more outgoing and talkative with people, although if I don't know many people I still tend to kind of keep to myself.

I'm pretty sure I know what I am personality wise a lot better than you, so you can cut the psychoanalyzing rubbish you are trying to offer me. If we are talking about Myers-Briggs personality types I am an INTJ for the record over multiple tests taken in a 10-12 year period, meaning it's pretty conclusive.

INTJ here also...

The rubbish/psychoanalyzing you're on about, is symantics. Forget about it.

Good to meet you

 

[Reykhel]

OP You should look into a new Casino That was sold. Find your self a nice Super Spy Girlfriend. Blue Knight yourself.

Blue Knight yourself!!!

How did this one slip through the net during five years.