BraddH
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When you are not sure about her stds... ?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Do you let birds BJ you after club or on first date?
- Thread starter BraddH
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If you are worried about catching an std from some girl giving you head....you are worrying about life way too much and
you need to change, less you stay in your protective bubble for too long....
I've been tested about ten times.......and only once........about 14 years ago......got chlamydia.....which is easily cured with two pills....
Stop worrying and get fvcking
(by the way, one day you'll die)
PeasantPlayer
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I posted in another thread how I got a BJ after 20 minutes of a conversation with some bird behind a bar. She swallowed and everything. Grabbed her digits and went my merry way.
I had a slight burning (not when peeing) 2 days after. Apparently this happens alot to uncircumcised men. (read a few threads about it) a week later I am fine. Went to the doctors for another issue, decided to get check as its been a year. Clean as a whistle
I had a slight burning (not when peeing) 2 days after. Apparently this happens alot to uncircumcised men. (read a few threads about it) a week later I am fine. Went to the doctors for another issue, decided to get check as its been a year. Clean as a whistle
About two years ago I went to Cuba. I think I used a condom with one chick.....out of eight or so......had a threesome
(street "pick up" who asked did I want her friend to join)
No condom. Oral and rimmed.
No STD
Been to Thailand twice..........
People worry to much....
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PeasantPlayer
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Exactly I had sex with a few questionable women on the first night on some instance drunk and making poor choices, didn't use protection. STDs are way overblown IMO. Yes there is a risk, but like another poster said it might have to do with your own immune system. Even if I did catch Herpes I would probably shrug it off its just a skin condition
It's interesting......just how many of your posts are accusing people of being trolls........I believe you had one yesterday too, no?
It's ok, just because someone has a different opinion....
Let's try help you.....you state that you wouldn't go down on a girl on the first date/night ...but you would after you know her or
after a few dates.......yeah?
Here's a question.......how has her fvcking puzzy changed from the first day???? regardless of whether it's the first night or you
know her one year, IT'S STILL THE SAME *****
Go on, who will you call a troll tomorrow........keep up your pattern married biatch....
A married gym rat mouth advising posters about the dangers of catching STD's, from the comfort of his
own home......
The kid wants advice from people who are out living their life in the real world. Not from a married little boy
who thinks arriving at being a man is through testosterone shots.
own home......
The kid wants advice from people who are out living their life in the real world. Not from a married little boy
who thinks arriving at being a man is through testosterone shots.
You've revealed yourself for what you are.......a feminist shamer....
I live my life the way I choose to live it and there you are........attempting to shame.....
I guess married life has taken it's toll on you........good luck.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
marmel75
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Lol...I think it's kinda obvious when the same dude posts nearly identical threads 3 times asking pretty much the same question about STDs. First he wants to know how he can guarantee he won't get an STD. Common sense tells you there is no way to do that. Then he asks the same thing about getting a BJ..
Next he is going to ask if you can get an STD from looking too long at a hot chick...
But keep answering the same dumbass questions...I'm sure he's getting a laugh out of it
marmel75
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Wow...Really have your panties all bunched up don't we?
I'm also laughing pretty hard at the "queer" messages you felt the need to inbox me with 3 times...think we've found a Sociopath in our midsts...
So now I'm into child porn?
I find that to be classless and pretty disgusting, but I guess it's probably no different from the room you rent in your Mom's basement that has sewage backing up into it every other week...
Go get your plunger...you got some work to do.
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Yup, you got me. Yawn... Gotta get back to doing something intelligent like programming...I'll let you do the same...
I'm sure you can make it all the way to at least 15 when you start counting the roaches running around your place...
Get back to your computer little girl. Make that money for your biatch.
For others there's yale and there's puzzy....
I'm available if you need a chat. I'm there for you, despite the accusations you have
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
BraddH
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What the **** are you talking about? Yes I am young and yes I want to know more about stds. You are a shame to this forum.
MrWood
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"bird" is standard UK talk for "females"