What's a good response to this question?

[El Payaso]

When women ask if you have a girlfriend. It's obvious they're trying to fish you out or figure you out.

 

[Poon King]

What a good response is depends on what your goal is.

What do you want to accomplish by having a "good answer"?

 

[dutchmaster]

"Would you get jealous if I did?"
"no my boyfriend would kill me"
"sure my sister, is like my best friend"
"right now it's a no, keep up with the dumb questions and it will stay a no"

etc etc. duck the sh1t test

 

[El Payaso]

What a good response is depends on what your goal is.

What do you want to accomplish by having a "good answer"?

Good question. I already have an answer I use, I just wanted to see what other people say in such situations.

 

[Konada]

"Why? You want to sign up for the position?"

 

[DiegoSantori]

My usual answers are "I’m dating around" and “I’m not tied down yet". That way, they know that you have options and that it's a real challenge to obtain exclusivity with you.

A response you should definitely avoid is "Define 'seeing'".

 

[Trump]

When women ask if you have a girlfriend. It's obvious they're trying to fish you out or figure you out.

If you are not attracted to her and can't improve your life by sleeping with her, then yes you have a girlfriend.

If you are attracted to her and can improve your life by sleeping with her, then no you don't.

Even if you have a girlfriend, what does have to do with sleeping with her? Although it's is frowned upon in NA culture, lots of men in the East are married and have good looking mistresses.

 

[Poon King]

Good question. I already have an answer I use, I just wanted to see what other people say in such situations.

I don't use canned responses with women. So whatever the situation is.. that is what I tell them.

 

[Bible_Belt]

"I'm not relationship material."

 

[El Payaso]

I don't use canned responses with women. So whatever the situation is.. that is what I tell them.

And what are some examples you've used and what was the situation?

 

[El Payaso]

When they ask, I know my chances for sex increase significantly. So in my mind the answer doesn't really matter that much.

I prefer to answer direct and minimal. And then immediately turn the conversation back to them.

80% listening
20% conversation

I like this.

 

[Tictac]

And what are some examples you've used and what was the situation?

Belching brim fire and farting noxious gases. Maybe some chest thumping.

 

[Poon King]

And what are some examples you've used and what was the situation?

Women ask me this question all the time. If the woman asking is someone I want to f*ck I usually say no or that I'm "talking to someone". If the woman asking is someone I don't want to f*ck then I say I'm dating someone. All three are true.

 

[wifehunter]

No, I'm not into girls. I prefer women.

 

[MrWood]

I am not currently in an exclusive relationship

 

[Atom Smasher]

"Not a steady, committed one".

Leaves her thinking you're obtainable yet are desired by other women. Social proof, the keys to the kingdom...

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Too situation dependent to have a readymade answer.
"Yup, dozens, and I have one booked in at 11."
"Girlfriends no, sex slaves, yes."
"Do ****buddies count?"
"Yes"
"Ask me in the morning"
"Yup, she's hiding under the table right now."
"Why do you care if I do?"

I guess each time is different

 

[Desdinova]

When women ask if you have a girlfriend. It's obvious they're trying to fish you out or figure you out.

I have a ton of answers for that.

"Well aren't you curious!"
"I have too many to count"
"Wouldn't you like to know"

Sometimes I'll just be 100% honest and tell her I don't or that I don't have time for one, especially if I'm sensing extremely high interest from her.

 

[El Payaso]

I have a ton of answers for that.

"Well aren't you curious!"
"I have too many to count"
"Wouldn't you like to know"

Sometimes I'll just be 100% honest and tell her I don't or that I don't have time for one, especially if I'm sensing extremely high interest from her.

I like the last one about not having time for one. Demonstrates high value and triggers competition in her.