Ex adds and follows my friends that she met because of me on social media

[GeoMan]

Am I over reacting or is that inappropriate/disrespectful?

All male friends btw

 

[logicallefty]

I don't see an issue with a current GF doing this if she has met the people in person first.

An ex, yeah, that's different.. ??.. The only thing that comes to mind is if she is trying to use your friends to get potential dirt and info on you.. Maybe she still likes you? And she is hoping to see some of your posts thru your friends. Or even talk to your friends about you and see if you have a new GF and what not.

I've had buddies who's current GFs have friended me. But the minute they break up I unfriend her, and block her, out of respect to him.. Would hope your buddies would see it the same way for you.

 

[GeoMan]

I don't see an issue with a current GF doing this if she has met the people in person first.

An ex, yeah, that's different.. ??.. The only thing that comes to mind is if she is trying to use your friends to get potential dirt and info on you.. Maybe she still likes you? And she is hoping to see some of your posts thru your friends. Or even talk to your friends about you and see if you have a new GF and what not.

I've had buddies who's current GFs have friended me. But the minute they break up I unfriend her, and block her, out of respect to him.. Would hope your buddies would see it the same way for you.

Some friends did some didn't. Guess I know who my true friends are.

 

[GeoMan]

Your friends need to back off. Put the word out.

Like I said some friends instantly followed her back. Some friends ignored her friend requests. To be honest the ones that followed her back always give me a sense of jealousy when I'm doing good in life or dating hotter chicks and I can sense there joy when I went through rough times or heartbreaks. The ones that didn't add her back I have always had sence of trust and security with them.

 

[logicallefty]

To be honest the ones that followed her back always give me a sense of jealousy when I'm doing good in life

Been there, seen that.

With that said, it might be time for an intervention with your friends; know the ones who are true friends and kick the others to the curb. And the best way to handle that business is to just go NC with them and don't answer them if they reach out to you. After a while they will get the message. Remove them from social media too. Friends will come and go, even ones you have had for many years. And friends change too. A friend 5 years ago who would have given you 3 of his 4 limbs and the shirt on his back may be a toxic PoS now.

 

[NSX-R]

Let me guess. This chick is the only plate you had for the last couple of months. Cause if it wasn't, you wouldn't had spend time on checking her out about the friends she added or even make a thread about it.

 

[GeoMan]

Let me guess. This chick is the only plate you had for the last couple of months. Cause if it wasn't, you wouldn't had spend time on checking her out about the friends she added or even make a thread about it.

True

 

[Young OG]

The friends that didn't ignore her friend request are not your friends. Unfriend them and remove them from your life. Like another poster said, friends come and go.

 

[Tictac]

She's an ex.

Who gives a sh*t?

 

[NSX-R]

True

That means you already know what you should do about it?

 

[SgtSplacker]

I dunno but these little social media nuances just drive me nuts. It's because of this I just stay away from social media. I spend maybe 10 minutes on FB a week. Best thing you can do is be the pimp that passed on that piece of azz you already hit and wish your buddies a good lay. lol

 

[GeoMan]

That means you already know what you should do about it?

Start getting more plates?

 

[NSX-R]

Start getting more plates?

Bingo. Now that theorically you know what to do,time to make it happen.
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