"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Advice for dustmuffin on dates

dustmuffin

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I have created quite a few threads asking for advice on dates. From now on I will post my dates in this thread.

Texted with the low interest girl a bit. I think Harry is right. She is low interest. She answered quickly but short answers. I will verify the date later in the week. Its for Sat. I won't contact her unless she inicates except to tell her time and place of date.

I have a date tuesday with an easy lay. We will see how that goes. I dont need advice on this one. Could be a short term fb.

I have a date wednesday with a slender hb6.5. She has bright blue eyes and blazing red hair. This is the chick that gave me her number and then didnt respond. I tried again sent my pics and she answered immefiately. She said she was busy and i replyied that i would hit her up in a few days. This morning i sent her a text asking how her schedule looked. She replied within 5 mins and gave me a list of days. I picked one and set up the date.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I flaked on Tuesday date and set it up for Thursday. The woman agreed. I don't have a good feeling about her I am getting weird vibes. I was planing on banging her on the first date. I think I will just size her up on the first date. I dont want her to know where i live if she is nuts.
 

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My advice is stop playing "flake" games. That's stuff people with poor character do. Men should be above that.
 

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My advice is stop playing "flake" games. That's stuff people with poor character do. Men should be above that.
I have a good reason for flaking. I do have poor character. I am not above anything.
 

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Texted information about sat date to low interest chick and texted a bit. Sat will be last date unless its really good because I'm starting to lose interest.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I took action....I asked for a number today and got it. Nurse at the testosterone clinic.
 

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I took action....I asked for a number today and got it. Nurse at the testosterone clinic.
F a testosterone clinic, I do that sh!t myself, lol...not paying an arm and a leg for something I can do a lot cheaper on my own...

As for advice on dates I've got two things:

1) Always make a move in date and go for the kiss
2) Take their hand and put it on your c0ck at some point while you are making out.
 

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F a testosterone clinic, I do that sh!t myself, lol...not paying an arm and a leg for something I can do a lot cheaper on my own...

As for advice on dates I've got two things:

1) Always make a move in date and go for the kiss
2) Take their hand and put it on your c0ck at some point while you are making out.
It's only 21 bucks a shot...I have insurance. There is no way in hell that I can increase my testosterone to the level it needs to be naturally. As for the other tips ty. I need all the help I can get.
 

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Low interest chick wanted to change date to Friday. I gave her **** but did it. I was very close to saying next. I think after this date
I'm done unless it goes very well.

I think my date for tomorrow will flake. Sent her a text see you tomorrow wear something cute....no reply as of yet....

Sent a bunch of messages out on old....got some replies. I need to work on profile, pics or both. Many women read my message and went to my profile. Then no response..
 

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F a testosterone clinic, I do that sh!t myself, lol...not paying an arm and a leg for something I can do a lot cheaper on my own...

As for advice on dates I've got two things:

1) Always make a move in date and go for the kiss
2) Take their hand and put it on your c0ck at some point while you are making out.
Option 2 looks like pretty brazen sh!t...:D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's only 21 bucks a shot...I have insurance. There is no way in hell that I can increase my testosterone to the level it needs to be naturally. As for the other tips ty. I need all the help I can get.
I'm on TRT also...I was just saying I do it myself, lol...my insurance needs 1000 hoops to jump through to get it covered...
 

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Didn't know you could do it yourself.
Yeah its simple...easy enough to locate the Testosterone online if you know where to look and are in the know about sites and people, can order the syringes and needles, etc...

I highly recommend going half Masteron/half Testosterone for your TRT...its phenomenal
 

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Sent out...messages on old. Got three bites. Chatted with one she said I was to pushy. Might have been. Will try to build a little report without investing loads of time. I was pushy because I asked for the date to soon.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah its simple...easy enough to locate the Testosterone online if you know where to look and are in the know about sites and people, can order the syringes and needles, etc...

I highly recommend going half Masteron/half Testosterone for your TRT...its phenomenal
Since I can have a professional do it cheaply I will stay with that. How do you blood test for level?
 

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You can get labs done for cheap. God damn 21$ a shot? **** that. I'll take my UG test that's way cheaper for a vial. Also, with trt you won't be at surpaphysiolgical levels, just normal.

Check out private MD labs, get the female panel since that also checks for E2.
 

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Arab chick cancelled...as harry said low interest date tonight flaked.

Chatting with a 39 yo HB 7 on old. She is naughty. Likes sex and she is what I'm looking for very wild. Will try to set up date.
 

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You can get labs done for cheap. God damn 21$ a shot? **** that. I'll take my UG test that's way cheaper for a vial. Also, with trt you won't be at surpaphysiolgical levels, just normal.

Check out private MD labs, get the female panel since that also checks for E2.
TRT is great for fat loss...studies have shown even going from 300 to 600 results in 36% less fat, mostly around the midsection. This is mainly due to testosterone making muscle cells more sensitive to insulin while simultaneously making fat cells virtually resistant to insulin. Yeah test is cheap as hell, and once you are involved enough on certains forums you'll have plenty of access to legit places to get anything you want.

Depends on what state you are in regarding testing. In my state have to get a script to get hormone levels checked from doc which is complete BS in my opinion...

I can kill myself from smoking cigarrettes but I can't find out my hormonal levels?? GTFO...

Just added a new SARM RAD 140 into the mix which is interesting since in testing it reinforced and amplified the effect of testosterone as well as exerting its own anabolic effects...
 

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I am getting 180 MLG shot of I guess testosterone. They do level tests every six weeks. For 84 bucks a month it is worth it to me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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