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    What percent of our time should be spent chasing girls versus improving oneself?

    As we all know, time is our most valuable resource. We live on average just 28,000 days. If we take out the time that we spend growing up as children or as senior citizens, this number is much much lower. With that being said, chasing girls can take up a lot of time. I classify any activity you...
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    how do i reply to her on pof?

    ME 12/28/2012 8:23:34 PM Salary: 41K Hobbies: Basketball, Weightlifting, Coding using PHP, Reading, Meditation Straight to the point, I think your pretty. Want to chat? HB 12/28/2012 11:04:46 PM Salary: About double what I make. Not hat I give a **** about that. Because money doesn't...
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    Sosuave teachings don't mesh well with society overall

    Here on sosuave, we are often taught to treat romance like a number's game and to spin multiple plates to find the woman who is perfect for you. Ideally, she will love you for who you are, fit into your world, and never cheat on you. (pook and anti-dump would agree) However, imagine you're the...
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    Is it awkward to cold approach in the train? subway? train/subway station?

    On any given day, I see tons of HB's while I'm waiting for the train or riding on the subway. Is it creepy to make these approaches or not? Will approaching a HB on the train put me on the same level as a homeless person asking for money on the subway? Will I develop a reputation for being THAT...
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    Magic number of cold approaches to make during the day?

    How many cold approaches does it take to get laid with a HB who is equally as attractive as you? To be more specific, could you guys please answer the following questions: 1) How many approaches minimum do I need to make before I see any success (get laid / find a girlfriend) with a HB who is...
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    My Approach Journal

    I just graduated from college, and I'm still a newb at all this. Please feel free to provide constructive criticism as I make my approaches. Yesterday, I chickened out and made no approaches. I was so pissed at myself that I finally made an approach today to get my feet wet. Hopefully, this...
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    Is how much weight I'm lifting weird across different exercises?

    I am 6 foot and 184lbs in the morning. Squat (ATG below parallel): 145lbs Deadlift: 185lbs Bench: 150lbs Military press: 100lbs Pendlay row: 135lbs What's bothering me is that my squat is even lighter than my bench press. Squats are just so difficult for me, especially when I'm trying to add...
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    Don't cheesy pickup lines make PERFECT openers?

    They're funny and direct. They can be used in almost any context. They are never meant to be taken literally. For example: Me: Excuse me HB: yes? Me: Did you fart? HB: no... Me: Because you just blew me away! HB: hahaha Me: By the way, what's your name? Insert any of the following cheesy...
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    Inspiration to all asian men

    http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=110653041&highlight=post+party http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=110653041&highlight=post+party&page=9 http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=110653041&highlight=post+party&page=10...
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    Number closed for 1st time but forgot her name, she's expecting a text...help

    Hey guys. I'm still a beginner at all this. I number closed a HB7 after a cold approach for one of the first times, but I forgot her name. I know that she'll probably flake, but I still really want to get it right this time. It's really important to me since it's one of my first number closes...
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    To flirt or not to flirt? according to Pook

    I don't understand. Are we supposed to flirt or not? What is flirting? According to Anti-Dump and Pook, men are not supposed to flirt. Here are some quotes by Pook, which seem to contradict one another: "A guy does not flirt with chicks (unless he is working, thus captive, and has nothing else...
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    Do I need to improve my look? (with pic)

    Please be brutally honest. If there's nothing wrong with my appearance, please say so. If I can improve my appearance in any way, please say so. Also, if possible, could you please state the extent to which your suggestion would improve my appearance? eg. minor vs major improvement...
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    What do you guys think of asking random girls to have sex?

    I'm referring of course to dbot's infamous experiment. He asked 100 random girls to have sex with him and achieved a 5-10% success rate. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=55957 http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153414 I have the balls to do it, and I really want to...
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    Should I be friends with a gay guy who's into me? Will he give me access to more HBs?

    I went out to a house party and met a guy whom I'm willing to bet money on that he's gay. I met him through a mutual friend, and he seemed to give me a lot of attention. I'm not completely sure if he's attracted to me, but I wouldn't be surprised if he was. He's also quite good looking no homo...
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    Is it acceptable to cold approach girls outside when it's dark?

    or would that come across as creepy?
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    starting to lose faith in djbible... what's wrong with acting AFC?

    According to AD and Pook, success with women is just a numbers game. Be yourself, have fun, and weed out low interest girls. Based on other threads, guys are approaching over 100 girls just to get laid maybe once or twice. To me, these numbers are quite dismal. Is this really what it takes to...
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    Critique my opener for moving targets

    If anyone has a better opener for moving targets (HBs walking by you to some destination), please feel free to share. Most quality HBs I see during the day are always walking somewhere and on the move, so it's one of the biggest challenges I have. Me: Hey, do you know where [insert random place...
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    Morals vs Penis: Is it wrong to lead on a girl with high IL just to get in her pants?

    Suppose there's a HB who is below your standards for any LTR, but she definitely meets your standards for a quality ONS. She has very high IL in you and probably wants to be in a LTR with you. Is it wrong to pump and dump in this situation? Will I later regret it?
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    Doesn't feminism mean more HBs for us? Why is everyone complaining?

    Everyone is complaining about the rise of feminism in today's society, which is creating a lot of feminized AFC's. However, doesn't more AFC's mean more girls for non-AFCs? Why is that something to complain about? Doesn't it mean less competition for DJs?
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    Struggling to gain weight/not lose weight

    Hi guys, I'm 6ft, 175lbs. I'm trying to aim for 185lbs at least, but it's extremely difficult for the following reasons: 1. i don't eat eggs b/c of cholesterol 2. i don't eat red meats b/c of cancer/heart disease 3. i play intense basketball 4. GOMAD is really difficult because I'm somewhat...
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