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I used to be her male orbiter, I've not spoken to her for 2 years cos I was not in the country. I'm suppose to meet her this weekend to catch up. I don't want to be her shoulder to cry on cos she's been depressed since she's broke up 2 weeks ago. Would she be looking for rebound sex during this...

my confidence has been pretty high these past 2 weeks up until today, i've set myself targets of approaching everyday when i can, trying to make improvements knowing that i wouldn't necessarily get interested girls straight away. i've gotten a few numbers in that time but they've either flaked...

I met this cool chick who I was tryna pick up but I was too nice so tho I'm annoyed I'm happy to friendzone her cos I can tell she has hot friends from the stuff we talked about. She was a former cheerleader etc similar friends, I got her number but I'm wary that the way she gave it and the way...

ok, i picked up this chick in a cafe last sunday, i spoke to her about 2 weeks before that in the same cafe but only briefly. i go to set up the date on wednesday for that evening for us to get ice cream and go to the local park by text (i tried calling 1st no answer), she says she cant do it...

I just had an awkward situation, there was a girl I met at a houseparty over 2months ago who I went on a date with soon after, I afc'd on the date trying to set up a valentines date with her that week. I was in town walking down the road and I was walking towards her (I didn't realise it was her...

ok i've had a bad week, all my options are over i was down to my last 2 and whenever i was in this situation in the past i'd lose both. so when i lost 1 of them beginning of the week i knew the 2nd would follow. anyway, this 1 i was suppose to see today i already saw signs of low IL, she was...

i had this highly interested girl on facebook who was interested in meeting up for a drink and playing golf. we had this little joke about how if i won i'd get a kiss and if she won she'd get a kiss. she was saying something about there wouldn't be any kissing unless we became an item, i said...

Ok I have yet another facebook date with a hot woman. This time it's 1 who was recently separated from her super rich husband so she's left fragile, insecure and broke. She even cut her hair short in response to the bad divorce. She's still young though, i'd say 30 tho she's trying to...

I just met this girl from facebook but the second she saw me she looked like she was panicing and looked back as if she wanted to run into the train station to go home.. it's kind of hard not to take it personally instant rejection, she knew what i looked like.. although maybe it wasn't what...

IF you have a facebook 1st date and the girl forgets or says you didn't confirm it with her even though you didn't need to should u just walk off when she shows u signs of disrespect? this b1tch had the audacity to not only cancel on me 10mins beforehand but also show up late.. AND gave me an...

ok as i'm posting this im suppose to have a facebook date with a girl in 1 hour, i texted her last evening saying to meet me at 9pm at a train station. she said 'ok i'll see u tomorrow at 9pm' so really that's confirmed, i dont need to send a text back to say 'ok see u then' cos she's...

I arranged this facebook date with a girl who didn't want to meet me for a drink cos she felt it was not safe meeting a stranger, so i counter offered with coffee during the day in a public place and she accepted. but from the start of the date all she kept talking about was her ex-bf who she...

I set up a date on the phone with a HB on tuesday for sunday which is quite far in advance so I should at least give a heads up on saturday or sunday to just let her know its still on. Is something like 'hey, as I recall I think we said 8pm tomorrow at the station. See you then' is that ok or...

If you give a girl a suggestion of where you're going to take her out by text and you add at the end of it 'let me know by midnight tonight as i'll need to make arrangements' so that she needs to make a decision. would this be perceived as being too controlling and needy?

I know on here everyone advocates calling as oppose to texting, however if you know she won't pick up her phone and won't return the call (she's cheap or worried about phone cost) is it not better to text then? If you call and it rings and she doesn't answer is leaving a voicemail better than...

Can someone give me a good suggestion for a text to send a HB without looking desperate. I tried to set up a date with her last week by text (she didn't pick up my call and appears to want to do it by text) but she said she was busy with presentations at work etc so next week would be better...

I have a date with a spectacular HB tonight. I feel pretty confident that it will go well however I should not mention about valentines or Sunday, if she brings it up and asks me what I'm doing I'll say I'm doing nothing. However I am wary that no girl wants to be single on Valentines and if the...

I'm about to date a rich posh HB who is used to going to expensive restaurants etc, she's accustomed to that sort of lifestyle and I dont have the money to provide anything like that. If she ever suggests we go somewhere ridiculosly expensive, how do I get out of it without seeming cheap...

One thing I'm always fearful of is when I come on too strong, act AFC, pushy etc I always worry about another guy taking my spot and escalating to the level where she's thinking about him and only him. How quickly do girls become attached to 1 guy and forget the rest? I'm a control freak and...

Is it unreasonable that a girl with mid to low IL not to commit to a time for a date with you despite what is going on in her life? Right now she is starting an important full time job on monday and her friends are leaving soon so they somewhat take priority. I can tell her IL in me isn't...