I just met this girl from facebook but the second she saw me she looked like she was panicing and looked back as if she wanted to run into the train station to go home..
it's kind of hard not to take it personally instant rejection, she knew what i looked like.. although maybe it wasn't what she was expecting cos i spoke her language a bit so she thought i was from the ethnic minority group of her country.
anyway, something like that would destroy most wannabe DJ's confidence, but i tried to not let it affect me and tried making jokes with her from the walk to the station to the bar. how do i do better?
i mean it's like she thought 'ok im physically unattracted to him cos i think hes ugly' i know im a good looking guy for my ethnicity but i know i'm not majority of women's physical type ethnically wise/features wise.
can you really recover from something like this on a date when she's ready to leave after u arrive (after 10mins shes like 'im only going to stay another 15mins or so') i feel like she didn't even give me a chance and i felt under pressure to neg her but i ended up talking too much instead. she did have apprehension about meeting she said cos i didn't add her to my profile and i was acting mysterious, but she took everything i did the wrong way i.e. not giving her my number straight away saying i'd give it to her 'later'. i just wanted to text her directly to her phone not leave my number on facebook. but she took it as i had something to hide.
from the start she had this apprehension i had something to hide so i guess she didn't give me a fair chance from the start. shame really, too many of my dates go this way. maybe i should forget about facebook dating.
it's kind of hard not to take it personally instant rejection, she knew what i looked like.. although maybe it wasn't what she was expecting cos i spoke her language a bit so she thought i was from the ethnic minority group of her country.
anyway, something like that would destroy most wannabe DJ's confidence, but i tried to not let it affect me and tried making jokes with her from the walk to the station to the bar. how do i do better?
i mean it's like she thought 'ok im physically unattracted to him cos i think hes ugly' i know im a good looking guy for my ethnicity but i know i'm not majority of women's physical type ethnically wise/features wise.
can you really recover from something like this on a date when she's ready to leave after u arrive (after 10mins shes like 'im only going to stay another 15mins or so') i feel like she didn't even give me a chance and i felt under pressure to neg her but i ended up talking too much instead. she did have apprehension about meeting she said cos i didn't add her to my profile and i was acting mysterious, but she took everything i did the wrong way i.e. not giving her my number straight away saying i'd give it to her 'later'. i just wanted to text her directly to her phone not leave my number on facebook. but she took it as i had something to hide.
from the start she had this apprehension i had something to hide so i guess she didn't give me a fair chance from the start. shame really, too many of my dates go this way. maybe i should forget about facebook dating.