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has anyone ever done this? I'm on a liver cleanse thing and not drinking right now. But I like the night life and it's key to my dating schematics. I would like to think that I could continue dating as before and just drink coke instead. Sort of the best of both worlds.

love... acceptance... for you to make them to feel good about themselves. Otherwise a relationship will not form, even a casual one. At least this is my experience. If I go too hard on the aloof/a-hole persona, a relationship will not form. And I already do that naturally anyway, so it's...

See, my problem is the opposite of the problem that a lot of guys have. I've been reading Mystery Method lately, and he describes all the IOI's that girls unconsciously give to you, and I went out last night for the first time in a while, and I was getting all of those. - girls seeking rapport...

hey guys, I decided it's time to get back in the gym and I was wondering if I could get some help designing a workout program. I was using Rippetoe's basic program for a while and was feeling pretty good, but pretty soon I ended up shredding my knee by increasing the weights too fast with...

I just had this realization that it's possible to go too far with DJ attitude of being aloof and "too cool." Part of being confident is being one who confides in others. You reach out, take the first step to draw others out and initiate relationships that everyone wants but is too scared to...

Ok yeah I know I'm going to get flamed for starting a thread asking ridiculous questions. haha Is this some kind of a dominance game with chicks? Usually in polite society, people tell you their name as a signature in a letter or formal introduction. However most of the chicks I write to on...

So I had a date a couple weeks ago with a shady online hookup. We had good rapport initially through text. (That is my way of getting girls to feel comfortable. By the way I've never had a girl flake using this method.) Anyway, like the title says, she shows up and I find out that her friend...

Hey what's up... So I went out on one date with this girl from OKC (website). We met for coffee and after a few days after I called her and left a voice mail inviting her to go to a show with me, to watch this drummer I was thinking of hiring. She didn't respond, so I figured she's not...

Has anyone ever done this successfully and had it help with increasing attraction? I don't mean as some kind of cheap trick. I'm talking about if you have plans and later you don't feel like going. What would be a good way to frame this? I had a date for today and I just was not getting a...

So is this the preferred method of moving things forward when you get a girls number from online? Personally I hate talking on the phone to people I don't know. It seems phony to call them up and say 'hey, this is omkara', when we've never talked before. I would actually be more nervous to...

So most of what I have read (including Roissy) says that it's best to maintain a distance, present yourself as being busy, having other options etc. That's all well and good. Being distant comes naturally to me. But I wonder if sometimes you can be TOO distant. After all, part of the...

Hi, so like, I have been having very inconsistent results with first kisses lately and I was wondering if I could get some advice to raise my percentages. My current thinking is that the first kiss should take place on the first date. Personally I would have no problem with just some kino...

What's a reliable way to go from chatting up a girl on a dating site to actually going on a date? Lately I've been trying asking them to go out on the site itself, due to snafus I've had in the past with connections. But not many takers on that one. I assume text or calling is...

I am trying to come to terms with the fact that, ostensibly being a man, I have to make pursuing women part of my life. It is a lifelong pursuit. However, there are several factors which prevent me from wanting to actively pursue women: 1) Pride – I honestly think I’m better than most...

hey what's up... I want to thank all of you for having this site, and all the advanced contributors who stick around to shoot the s*** and share what they have learned through experience. I have been here for about a year, and my progress has been slow. Last week, I achieved a major milestone...

Hi... I actually found this discussion really helpful for insight on what to write and what not to write when hitting on girls online. I am still terrible at it though. I would recommend not to use C & F unless you really know what you are doing. I have broken off more email communications...

Ok so, this is kind of a hard question to answer. I was talking to this girl online... which is pretty lame to begin with, since it gives the women all the power to choose. If you say one wrong thing all they have to do is ignore you and go on to the next one. It makes it too easy for them...

I ran across this post randomly on the internet. I think this guy breaks it down pretty well. It's nothing new I guess, but I have to say that number 13 helped me a lot this Saturday. :) This line made a big impression on me: "Touching a woman inappropriately on the first date will get you...

Ok here's my situation... say you don't really know a girl but you meet her on the internet, and she doesn't reply to your email, after sending you like 2 emails. Or say you went out on a date and then emailed and she just didn't respond. So that means it's over right? She is showing low...

hi.... well I am back in school now and of course this is a great place to meet girls and practice and learn. I am a psychology major, and this is a field that is heavily preferred by women. In most of my classes there are like 3 or 4 guys and all the rest are women. LOL Anyways I don't have...