omkara
Senior Don Juan
love... acceptance... for you to make them to feel good about themselves. Otherwise a relationship will not form, even a casual one. At least this is my experience. If I go too hard on the aloof/a-hole persona, a relationship will not form. And I already do that naturally anyway, so it's not a stretch for me. I did it in my previous relationship before I even came to this forum.
I have been reading Assanova's blog and he highly advocates hospitality, just being normal and nice and social.
http://www.realmademen.com
A little different spin than the usual PUA. He was actually more successful with women before he learned about PUA, and then he kind of turned it around. He is pretty highly respected in blog circles, even though his blog never gets commented lol.
It stands to reason that on some level, a lot of what happens in seduction is common to both men and women. There are clashes of egos, and both not wanting to be vulnerable. But in a sense, a lot of the things that need to be there to form a relationship, such as affection, have to be there on both sides. Then you can kind of work in that dominance along with it. Well that's my realization anyway -- mostly from having done everything the wrong way and trying to be too aloof from the start.
I have been reading Assanova's blog and he highly advocates hospitality, just being normal and nice and social.
http://www.realmademen.com
A little different spin than the usual PUA. He was actually more successful with women before he learned about PUA, and then he kind of turned it around. He is pretty highly respected in blog circles, even though his blog never gets commented lol.
It stands to reason that on some level, a lot of what happens in seduction is common to both men and women. There are clashes of egos, and both not wanting to be vulnerable. But in a sense, a lot of the things that need to be there to form a relationship, such as affection, have to be there on both sides. Then you can kind of work in that dominance along with it. Well that's my realization anyway -- mostly from having done everything the wrong way and trying to be too aloof from the start.