omkara
Senior Don Juan
Hi, so like, I have been having very inconsistent results with first kisses lately and I was wondering if I could get some advice to raise my percentages.
My current thinking is that the first kiss should take place on the first date. Personally I would have no problem with just some kino and maybe a kiss goodnight if the mood was right. But I get the sense that maybe you'd appear wimpy or get friendzoned if you didn't kiss on the first date.
I am really not sure what is the best way to initiate kissing either. The last date I was on I just went for it after some kinoing, and I got denied. It was a little forced. (Plus there were some people on the couch like 15 feet away across from us.) The way I did it was to start kinoing (touching her hair, then her arm, then rubbing her back), and then kissed her on the cheek and then on the lips a little later. This way it was not out of nowhere. But I'm not sure about the kissing on the cheek thing because I think at that moment I may be getting friendzoned. Has anyone else done this? I had one date where i kissed a girl on the cheek at the end, and it was like the window was closed after that. And on this last occasion, she said, "oh that was very nice and friendly." after it.
So these are my main two questions: Should you always try to kiss on the first date, and how to do it? Let's say that you are meeting someone that you barely know, that you chatted up for 5 minutes or whatever.
thx
My current thinking is that the first kiss should take place on the first date. Personally I would have no problem with just some kino and maybe a kiss goodnight if the mood was right. But I get the sense that maybe you'd appear wimpy or get friendzoned if you didn't kiss on the first date.
I am really not sure what is the best way to initiate kissing either. The last date I was on I just went for it after some kinoing, and I got denied. It was a little forced. (Plus there were some people on the couch like 15 feet away across from us.) The way I did it was to start kinoing (touching her hair, then her arm, then rubbing her back), and then kissed her on the cheek and then on the lips a little later. This way it was not out of nowhere. But I'm not sure about the kissing on the cheek thing because I think at that moment I may be getting friendzoned. Has anyone else done this? I had one date where i kissed a girl on the cheek at the end, and it was like the window was closed after that. And on this last occasion, she said, "oh that was very nice and friendly." after it.
So these are my main two questions: Should you always try to kiss on the first date, and how to do it? Let's say that you are meeting someone that you barely know, that you chatted up for 5 minutes or whatever.
thx