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    Should I be mad about this?

    I've been dating this girl for a few years now. We are both in our late 20's. Things are ok. She is Jewish, I am not. She left for a birth rite trip 2 weeks ago. Basically, birth rite is a free trip for Jews to visit Israel. Her trip is 3 weeks in all. She met a lot of people on her trip...
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    Met a girl. Didn't get her #. Became FB friends.

    I was out and about with some friends last week and I met a girl through a guy I am kind of friends with. We had drinks afterwards as a group and we all got split up and didn't get to say bye afterwards. I became friends with the girl on FB. I've never been a FB PU artist, I usually dealt with...
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    A Life Lesson

    I've been meaning to write this article for a while now. Last evening, after a 4 month illness my grandmother died. Yes, I know that an article about this will drive many people away right off the bat. Yes, I know that many people will poke fun at me for writing an article about my...
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    Girlfriend is not into sex anymore

    Hey all, I've been with this girl for over 2 years now. We do a LDR where we live about 5 hours away. We see each other for ~6 days and then have 9 days away from each other. I have a VERY flexible job. We are both in our 20s. Anyways, I have the same old tale. We f*** like crazy when we...
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    Should I dump her or stay?

    Hey all, It's been a while since I've been here. I am 28 and have been dating a girl who is 24 for 2 years now. 6 months ago, she moved 6 hours away from me. Things are going ok, but we've hit a rocky patch and I am evaluating whether or not to move on. There are 2 major issues in our...
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    GF Moving

    Hey all, I've had oneitis with this girl for about 18 months now. Everything is pretty good with her. I am 28 she is 23 and is about to graduate grad school. She is finishing her schooling this summer, and is planning on moving. She says she wants to prove to herself again that she can go...
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    Rock Bottom

    Hey bros, Throwing this story out there to educate others/get advice/ make a promise to myself. I've gone through alot in the last couple of years in the area of self confidence. Was engaged, went through that breakup. I am 27 and am a reasonably successful. pretty good looking guy. About...
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    Should I be worried about this?

    Met this girl about 2 months ago. We've been seeing each other 1-2/wk. This have been going good. Sleeping together once/week. I have been seeing other girls in this time period, but am really beginning to like her and want a relationship with her. This last 2 weeks she has been out of town...
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    1 Year story....

    Just thought Id share a story for all of you..... One year, ago, I was 25 years old. Engaged to a girl who was literally BP, and controlled my life. I thought she was the best thing I could ever get, and she led me to believe that. 3 months before the wedding (in March 08) she snapped and we...
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    Life situation advice

    Just a bit about myself. I am 26, in good health, great family, great job, great friends, working on my PhD in Computer Science, reasonably good looking, so I guess most people would say I am doing pretty well. Yea, I like girls as much as the next guy, but I would rather be content with life...
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    Next her?

    To make a long story short, Ive known this girl for a few weeks who has displayed interest in me and seems really great in numerous areas and we click very well, but by her own admittance she has been hurt by guys in the past and would like to get to know a guy pretty well before dating them and...
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    Low interest?

    I've been speaking with this chick for a while (she was out of town). Anyways, she sent me a bunch of singles, we've hung out 1 on 1 a few times before. Lately, she's been sending me txt's saying "Hey xxx is tonight, are you going?" Today I said that i was in the mood for Italian food (be...
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    Should I respond?

    Met this girl a few weeks ago. Hung out with her a few times. She sent me alot of signals. She asked me to hang out etc.... I called her last week (tues night), left a funny message using an inside joke. I didn't hear back until this Saturday when she returned my call. She left a VM, playing...
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    Take girls to nice dinners?

    Long story, but my company gives me dinner awards that basically let me take another person to the fanciest restaurants and have me not pay for it at all (the girl I am taking has no idea that I don't pay. Basically I charge the meal to my credit card, and the company reimburses me for it) If...
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    Should i call it quits gaming these 2

    Wondering if I should call it a day with these two Girl A: Gym girl whom I've spoken about on here. Things have been pretty friendly/casual with us. The other day, I worked up the guts and went over to her desk and started a convo with her. I was confident + friendly. I asked her what she did...
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    How to game girl at gym

    So the gym I work out at has a trainer (who usually just sits at the front desk) who is pretty cute. Mostly older, gross guys go to this gym, so I'm probably the best looking guy there just about all the time. She doesn't come out from behind her desk much (in front of her desk is a glass...
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    How to deal with ex

    I was engaged up until 6 months ago when my ex (9/10) basically flaked out on me (she began experiencing mental issues, said her psyc told her not to be in a relationship for a while), but she told me how great I was, how much she'd miss me etc..... I have been in no contact with her for the...
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    Need some coaching

    Went out fri night with a bunch of friends. About 30 min before last call, a group of girls approached my friends and I and I started to talk to one girl who was drunk. She said that I was "hot" initiated physical contact etc... and I got her number. I played it cool that night. She txt'd me a...
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    Get girl's number through friend

    Met this girl out fri night, I thought she was cute but I initially was just friendly with her b/c I thought she was with this guy (maybe even married) turns out she is just friends with him and she is single. She might have shown some interest in me because a group of us were heading out to a...
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    How should a DJ handle this

    When a DJ decides to try to make the girl chase him, how does he get her to chase him when they aren't talking daily? I recently met a girl, she gave me her number, but we have been not being able to get together (she being busy/me being busy) Is it DJ to just ask her out for drinks? And...
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