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    Goodbye my friends

    The end of the line. Last September a friend of mine recommended this site to me. I had a problem with my ex-gf and I needed your help. You welcomed me to this site and I am very thankful for all the help and wisdom I got here. I did not take the advice given here and I took her back...
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    Age difference; is it a big deal?

    I find it funny how a girl find it such a big deal once they found out how old you are. To be honest with you, I find age difference not that big a deal. When two people click, they click for various reasons. It is that chemistry that can help make the relationship fun. What makes age...
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    Stop replying to ItsOnNow

    Stop replying to ItsOnNow until he's willing to get out there and do something with his life! I'm going to put on a challenge for ItsOnNow. I'm going to call him on coming back here night after night with useless threads. He's either going to go out there and experiment and come back...
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    now I need help...

    ok, i met this girl through a coworker 3 months ago. It was awesome. we started seeing each other a lot and well, there were happy endings. Anyway, i started seeing another friend of the coworker. We hit it off pretty well as well and the next thing you know, we again have happy...
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    The Shadow

    I found this quote on the web after watching the movie, “Coach Carter”. It was a quote that goes against everything that I ever believed but it is also a quote that opened my eyes to a lot of truths. The purpose of this quote was for those who are afraid of being more than what they are...
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    Want to share something with those who are struggling

    First of, I want to say that it wasn't an easy thing for me. When I invest my emotions into someone, I pour my whole heart into it. I come to a realization that sometimes, you just have to take that chance and be willing to take the hit should things not work out. Life has an amazing way of...
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    [I]Unwritten - Natasha Bedingfield

    Not sure if anyone would agree to the lyrics to this song. Thought I share it because I find it really beautiful and to have us think about what’s really going on in the mind of a woman. Or, perhaps someone can give some of their insights. Unwritten - Natasha Bedingfield I am...
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    How do you stop thinking?

    I have been going in circles man... For the past two months, I have been thinking and thinking, it's driving me nuts. can someone please tell me what to do? I don't want to think anymore!!! I don't want to think anymore... I have friends to hang out with, but when i hang out with them...
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    Need Help with the art of listening

    I really really suck with listening skill and need your help... Can someone point me in the right direction? anyway, here is one of the correspondence I got from a girl the other day... "i dunno wut i like about photography anymore! the past five years in art school didn't do any...
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    Common phrases used by women

    Hey guys, I want to hear some common phrases that women used on you when you break up. Can you guys contribute? Here are some examples I know of; "I love you but not in love with you anymore." "I need space" "We need to take a break" and lately, "I'm confused" <--- this is the first time i...
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    Did I do something stupid again?

    I just messaged my ex and trying to inform her of not continuing to wait around for the OP. I told her that the OP was using her and played her. Jesus... what does it have to do with me? I shouldn't care. I told her to stop going in circles... she said to me she just needed an answer from...
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    My Own Experience

    So here I am. One month after the breakup already. It’s amazing how time fly by. Over the course of this little shebang, I come to realize that I was no different from the day that she and I were together to the day that we broke up. Only now, that I was more free to do whatever I want...
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    i got played

    I think I finally figure it out. This whole time it was a phucking act in her part. And I got played like a little meat puppet.(where you have a hand stick up your ass and used as a pupper). I finally “get it”. From the moment I broke up with her, I was feeling strange because it was...
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    How to deal with the early stage of rejection?

    One of the common mistake I noticed is in asking my friends for advice after a breakup. Those of us here who've been a DJ for awhile, knows the game. Yet, we would want to try it anyway because we get convinced in "following our hearts". What you need to do now is to not follow your heart...
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    Girls under the age of 26

    First off, a girl at the age of less than 26 and she’s attractive, is not yet ready to settle. She only wants to have fun. And at that age, that’s all women are after. Doesn’t matter if you’re the greatest guy in the world, she’s only after one thing. And that is to have fun. When you...
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    Convinced that I was able to save my relationship... lol

    How silly I was to become an AFC once again. I can't believe that after so many years of learning this stuff, I can go back to being an AFC. Today, I just want to vent and to have some support from you guys... Here's my story and the story goes like this. Two weeks ago, I broke up with a...
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    Want to get her back? Why would you want to?

    I woke up this morning, I come to a realization. Many people come to this site, asking for help in getting the exes back. I am no relationship expert, but I do act on logic. And here is what logic tells me. I'm sure that a lot of us are great guys here. We are here because we're way too...
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    Need Help dealing with emotions...

    I don’t know what to say… Here’s my story and this is how it goes. Gf and I have been together for a year. In between, we’ve had our ups and downs. It’s crazy… I don’t know what I was thinking dating such a young girl… but I did anyway. In the beginning, it was just a fling… It was 6...
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    Just want to share another one of the LJBF

    I was here last year when I posted and ask about a girl threatening to commit suicide. jesus... you guys are so damn right... I went back with her and I said I give her another chance. Well, it's been 4 months since that happened and I started "falling" in love with this woman. Only to one...
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    Need help getting this girl

    I have this problem. I have no problem getting girls I partially like. But when it comes to girls I do like, I tend to screw things up. So, i come here to ask for help. Would you guys help? This girl is a colleague of mine. I'm leaving the company soon so it doesn't matter if I go for...
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