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    Think Tank: is gaming women really what we should be about?

    Disclaimer: long rant, something might be news but probably not. So if you read all this and walk away dumber, you have only yourself to blame. Been doing some thinking lately, and the more I think the more I conclude that maybe I have a wrong understanding of the way things are/should be. We...
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    2x possible threesomes, need advice

    Recently both of my current plates have expressed interest in having a threesome, however they both said the other girl would have to be someone they know. Some details: Plate1: girl has to be someone she's familiar with, but she can't think of any of her friends who would do it, except maybe...
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    had anal for the first time - concerns? (serious replies only)

    First off, serious replies only. None of this "eww you stuck it in her butthole" highschool bs. Things got a little hot last night with this plate I've been spinning for a few weeks now. We both got pretty drunk and ended up having anal. We talked about it on a previous date and I think she...
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    MD3 Bootcamp 07 - 100 first dates or bust

    Although I've made some serious progress the past year, I feel I need to quantify my success to be able to move forward at a steady pace with my upbringing as a DJ. I'm a bodybuilder and I'm pretty attractive (8.8 rating on hotornot at the time of writing) so I definitely have the one up on...
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    aww sh!t it's another valentine's day thread - 2x the trouble

    Well ... the retarded day is almost upon us and this year I have 2 plates to deal with. Now we ARE supposed to get a hardcore snow storm which could prevent me from leaving the house (oh God please please please), but I can't rely on weather. I don't think either of these girls are expecting...
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    2 plates - how do I get this 2nd going as good as the first?

    I have 2 plates going right now, both of whom I've seen a few times for several weeks now. Both are going well, we have a lot of fun and I hit it every time. Plate1 is great. She invites me out, she easily pays for half the dates, and does all the texting/calling with the "I miss you" etc...
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    how many plates [can] are you spinning?

    I'm relatively new to this and I only have 2 solid plates going right now, trying to add another one but so far no luck. It's working out great, but I still find myself having to really tightly schedule everything else (work school gym). I wouldn't mind having 3-4 actually. So, how many do you...
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    party game tips?

    My game has improved a LOT recently and I feel I'm in a really good spot when interacting with girls 1on1 or even in a social environment IF I KNOW THEM, but the fresh-meat-party-environment is still something I really need to work on. I've had a few ONS but they're nothing I brag about. I don't...
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    having options is great, but now I have a dilemma - which would YOU choose?

    First of all, it's a DAMN good feeling going from having to call people to have something to do on the weekend to having multiple people invite you and you having to cancel on someone :rockon: Now, I have 2 options for this weekend: OPTION 1: Friend's bday party. This is a girl I've...
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    the "hair preen" - IOI or just a natural response?

    You know that thing girls do with their hair when they move it behind their ear to make themselves appear more attractive - is this an IOI or just something they do around guys in general? I've been noticing this a lot more lately and I'm wondering if I'm passing up even more opportunities to...
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    how do YOU avoid loaded/personal questions?

    Inevitably a girl will ask you how many girls you've slept with, if you're player, when was the last time you had sex, etc. So far I've been asked all 3 in a week's time. I have gotten my way out of them by either coming up with some witty answer (like when she asks how many girls I've slept...
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    Quick Tip: WWAMD (What Would A Man Do?)

    This is something that has worked wonders for me lately. Any time I'm about to say something stupid, do something stupid, reply to a text, prepare to make a move, or take any action in life, women related or not, I VERY quickly ask myself - what would a real man say/do in this situation? He...
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    VERY interesting situation & how to tread these waters (engaged chick)

    Without getting into too many details, there's a girl in my class who I'm working on a large project with. She's engaged, lives with her fiancee and has a kid by him. We've hung out several times 1 on 1 outside of class (this was required for the project). Thing is - I think she has a thing for...
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    cutting a girl some slack after sex?

    This might sound a bit banal, but how much slack do you cut a girl after she's given it up? For example, if she's texting you and asking you to call her sometime. Do you still play it cool or give her a call? What about taking her out? This is assuming you do want to see her again. This is part...
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    how do you get a girl to try Anal?

    This is now on my list of things to do. How do you coax a girl into letting you hit the back door? I'd like to hear your stories/tips. Also how many times you've slept with a girl before she consented.
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    (Quicky) FEAR: There's only 2 we're born with

    People are born with only 2 fears: -heights -loud noises That's it. All other fears are learned. Example: you learn to fear fire by getting burned or scolded by a parent. As you grow, eventually you stop fearing fire to a degree - you simply see it as something that can be controlled...
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    Here's how I see it: 2 ways to get laid .. which would you choose?

    I've been thinking lately about the types of guys that get lots of tail, and I came to the conclusion that there are 2 main types: -those who actively go out, game, and get it (i.e. the milfhunter guy, other puas) -those who do something else that makes girls come to them (rock stars...
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    Fellas, I need some help - A "Developing" Relationship

    Guys .. I need help. I'd appreciate some thoughtful input because this is kinda serious to me and I need a side perspective that isn't clouded like my own has become. I'm finding myself in an interesting situation. First, a bit of background: I've never been much of a player. I've never...
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    Tolerance in Relationships - Your Input

    Oops looks like I made duplicate posts. Please continue the discussion in this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=116551
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    "I love you"

    Just curious what your thoughts are on this. Although I've [foolishly] thrown it out in the past, it's not something I've done or intend to do anytime soon. I have found it's better to show a girl how you feel about her rather than telling her. However, if involved in an LTR there will...
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