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How do I handle a women who is "seperated", and getting divorced ? She seems afraid of any kind of commitment, dates are hard to schedule, and in emails she talks alot about the attention guys give her and so on. She doesn't mind my touching her or holding hands, but I don't think she's...

I met someone through one of the dating sites. We met in person at a Restaurant/Bar nearby that has live music. It was alot of fun - we both liked it, and I could tell she liked me. Next day she sent me an email saying she enjoyed it. This girl is older (as I am) but I'd say she's a 9 easily -...

An average looking female can get alot of attention from men by doing things like wearing certain clothes (short skirt, low-rise jeans, etc) along with actions like smiling at you. We all know this. The question is, what is the equivalent for men ? What can men do to attract women with the same...

Think about it this way guys. If a really unattractive girl read the SoSuave for women and knew all the tips, would she be any more attractive ? NO ! Same thing applies to men. You need to have a good look before anything else matters.

Hi Guys, just saw this David DeAngelo article "Why Nice Guys Fail With Women" and had to comment: what a load of nonsense. He says exactly what he thinks he should say to sell his book. If you followed what he is implying, you'll need his book because few women will be interested in you! The...

There's a girl at work about 26 years old that I've had some interest in for a while. I was on vacation last week, so this week I was thinking I'd ask her out for lunch to possibly get things going. Well, this week I find out she's interested in another guy at work who is 50, and apparently...

I've read Doc Love, read the discussion groups, watched others who are successful, gained alot of experience myself, and realized something: most people probably can't change their attractiveness or relationship success all that much. We are basically born with certain looks and...

Let's say I can buy either a 2005 Toyota Camry or a 2005 Audi Wagon (I'm even thinking about the 2006 Ford Mustang). The Audi costs a little more, is probably a little fancier inside, but does anyone see any advantage either way in attracting women ?

Would a girl do things on purpose to get you angry? For what reasons? Testing me for something? Trying to get rid of me? Trying to get a reaction from me? I think I'm noticing a pattern with this gal. Twice she has not been able to see me when we planned something because of kid...

I met a 20 something girl recently who is basically a part-time "call girl". She seemed so nice and sweet (and would make a great wife for someone I think) it struck me that she didn't seem at all what I had expected. Does anyone understand these girls at all? How/why do they follow this...

A manager where I work (and friend of mine) is in the middle of a divorce initiated by his wife earlier this year. It's an amicable divorce, and he was anxious about it at first. However (and I have never seen anything like this before) as soon as his separation became known, there were women...

There's another interpretation to the "nice guy" theory presented in the article above and many others. They confuse cause with effect. In other words, the guy can get away with being "a jerk" or not nice guy, or even mistreat her, because the girl is already in love with him or greatly...

How do I deal with a woman who, in my estimation , has low self-esteem and is very insecure. This gets in the way of our relationship developing. I know she thinks I'm 'great' in alot of ways, but she gets extremely defensive and insecure about her 'inferiority' (which I don't believe at...

Unfortunately, I think I'm at the end of a relationship I've had for some time. But she said something yesterday that I don't understand: I'm not "adventuresome" enough? It's possible she used the wrong word here, but any idea what she means?