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    Movies and Large Crowds

    I agree. People that don't have some form of social anxiety don't understand it's not a problem that can be solved easily through willpower. So just ignore Macgyver. Also go check out this book "The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem" by Nathaniel Branden. Read it so you will become aware of your...
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    Girl from Work

    Just go approach her and open with "Hi, how you doing?" "Good" "So are you new here?" Then just make a casual conversation like you would with any other person you just met. There really not much you should be afraid of. If you've saw her checking you out and smiling at you a few times, then...
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    This is how easy it is

    LOL. Getting a little sensitive are we. How are you suppose to help other people when you yourself don't have any game?
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    This is how easy it is

    LOL. There's nothing special about what you did. What makes you think that getting an email from some strange girl you met online was worth posting?
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    Place A Tip Of Value!

    It's quite simple. A lot of guys have big egos and likes to write big tips to make themselves feel smart. There's nothing you can do about it. The only defense you have is practice your judgement skills so you can tell the good ones from the bad. Forget about other people, help yourself...
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    Don Juans cannot teach AFCs

    I was in a hurry when I first wrote this. Now that I have some time to think I realize it could've been said much shorter: "You do not have to be a MAN to get any girl. That's easy. But you do have to be a MAN if you want the very high quality ones."
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    Don Juans cannot teach AFCs

    I know these are fictional characters but their personalities reflects that of a real man. And I gave these examples so that if you're smart you would then go watch these movies and try to learn. Sure, I'll give you a few famous names that I admire: Richard Branson, Seal (married to Heidi...
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    Don Juans cannot teach AFCs

    The best posters I've seen so far are the ones that have less than 20 posts and they have been here for a year. More posts does not necessarily mean better skills. It could mean that the posters has too much time due to no life so he posts a lot. The people who posts little but offer a lot of...
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    Don Juans cannot teach AFCs

    Let me clarify some points. I have a very high standard for what a Don Juan is. My definion of DJ would be character like Arthur and his Knights in the movie King Arthur, or Maximus from Gladiator, or Wolverine from X-men. All of them have the characteristics of being confident men...
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    Don Juans cannot teach AFCs

    No it's not, riding a bike is a mechanical skills. Easy to teach. Seduction is a social skills. Much more complex and harder to teach. It does take time, but like I said you are gonna learn the most from experience. 'nuff said.
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    Don Juans cannot teach AFCs

    After many frustrating attempt to give advice here I've come to the conclusion that it is almost impossible to give advice to AFCs. The reason why is because Don Juans think very differently than AFCs. When I say apple, instead of hearing apple the AFC hear orange. For example, when I try to...
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    The key to popularity:initiate and accept!

    Maybe you don't understand my point because you don't know someone that does the exact same thing checkmatekid suggested. Instead of getting respect, he gets laugh at behind his back. I gave my advice and it's your decision to either take it or leave it. 'nuff said.
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    The key to popularity:initiate and accept!

    How checkmatekid's method will come off depends largely on the person's character. If the person has true confidence, then it will come off as confident. In contrast, if the person has low self-esteem, then it will come off as trying too hard. Why? Because what he is doing externally is...
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    The key to popularity:initiate and accept!

    Wrong! If you try this you would likely come off as "trying too hard to impress everyone." The best and probably the only way to become popular is to be confident and approachable. By confident I mean have confidence, the kind that you have to develop through hard work. It should not be...
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    Is this typical for girls with low self esteem (interest or not)

    Well if you know that you have a lot of value and a lot of girl would like to go out with you, then there's a good chance that she likes you also. Sometime you just have to assume and take the risk. ;-)
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    Is this typical for girls with low self esteem (interest or not)

    She's probably nervous around you. Haven't you ever had a huge crush on a girl that it's become hard to just talk to her? It's the same way with them. If you are absolutely sure that she likes you and want something to happen, you're gonna have to make the first move because she will not.
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    How to improve confidence?

    Only you can know how to do that. The only way you will is to 'just try.' If you don't have the will to change, you won't. If you saw Batman Begins, there is a line that goes, "Training is nothing, will is everything." Trust me there is a lot of truth in that one line. Sorry I don't have...
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    Anyone else get their balls busted because they don't follow the norm?

    They're probably using you. Your friends are probably just immature. They don't understand that you have to work hard and not be partying all the time in order to become successful probably b/c they never work hard like that before. Like Str8up said, if you keep doing what you're doing...
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    Is there a way to weed out girls without dating them?

    Engineering is a pretty good major, but some people go into it for the wrong reason, ie money. Just give it a try, if you like it stay. How are you gonna know if you like something if you don't give it a chance? Yes, but I can't help you. You just gonna have to figure out what you like in a...
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    "Would you go out with her?"

    She's testing you to see how you will react. My advice is that you should be upset. But you should be upset like how a guy that is in control would get upset; not like how a guy that easily get mad at everything. You get my point? The next time she brings it up and gets mad, I would confront...
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