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I was posting on a site today that is very Politically Correct. You can't advocate Nexting a woman for poor behavior, because that's unfair and manipulative. Bleh. I was going to re-post what I said there, about zero-drama relationships and what they have in common. And I will, at the...

I've been getting some grief from others about how I handle relationships, so I thought I'd get some outside opinions. Where do you draw the line between staying with a partner and breaking up with him/her? If he/she attempted to stab you with a knife? If he/she drained your bank account...

I was at the mall hanging out with my brother (well, pushing him into sets, really), when a friend (acquaintance?) I've talked to several times at one of the kiosks pulls me aside and gives me the number of a chick he thinks I'd be interested in. Apparently there was a nasty breakup or...

So I'm on one of the several forums I frequent. I see an avatar of a fairly attractive young woman. Some of her posts confirm that yes, she is female. So I decide to shoot her a PM. I'd been experimenting with going more direct, so I thought I'd give that a try. Subject: Hi. Message...

I don't have a car, so I use the bus system where I live. I met a fairly attractive barely legal young woman. We vibed, I asked open-ended questions about herself which she struggled to answer, I was playfully impudent (my variant of C+F), but nothing set off any alarm bells. I got her number...

Note: This is not my post, it was written by a pickup artist by the pseudonym Tyler Durden. I just happen to completely agree with it. ;) Many guys will dislike this, because it implies that women are sluts and untrustworthy. Well, I can only speak from my experience and report back what...

Go out. Open sets. Memorize an opener or two if you have to, but get some sets under your belt. Even if you get approach anxiety every single time, don't stop going out and making the attempt over and over until you succeed at that one little thing. And then, once you've got that done once, keep...

I'm in Idaho for my stepmother's funeral. She was a great woman, and she touched all of our lives very deply. She will be missed. However, for the rest of us, life goes on. Yesterday evening, a few days after the funeral, I was bored. I don't head out until tomorrow, and I needed some exercise...

Invited to a techno concert by a female friend who we shall label Bookworm (she isn't much into physical contact, but she made a great pivot here). Met her friend, Model. Constantly teased Model; C+F and a few negs where appropriate. I got my first ever chance to use Mystery's "oh, a hand...

To prove to my roommates Jeff and Leon that looks and material posessions are largely irrelevant when picking up women, and to prove that I can do it, I am going to meet, attract, and sleep with a woman that is from an 8 to a 10 in looks, as decided by my roommates Leon and Jeff, within one...

I'd been to a club once before, a long time ago in Canada. I didn't do much actual sarging that time, since I was with my then-girlfriend (who wasn't really into the club scene) and her 3 friends. Anyhow, I arrive at the club, it's freakin' cold, and the line is pretty long. At least a...

You're read the DJ bible. You've decided to start talking to an attractive woman. But somehow, you're just too scared to approach. Somehow, closing the distance between you and her just seems an insurmountable feat. And not just her. Each time you try to approach, your own nerves cause you to...

Before I start, let me just say this: I'm good with canned material. I'm not quite where I want to be in terms of skill, but I'm much better than I was two years ago. I understand how the parts all fit together, and I've got enough material to get me laid several times over. In fact, it has...

Take a minute, and take a personal inventory. It should be split into 4 sections, each one of them important. Figure out where you are, and where you want to be. And then post it right here, right in this post. They don't have to answer these exact questions, since these are just meant to get...

Hey you! Stop giving me a bad name! That's right, I'm talking to you. The guy in front of the keyboard. Now, I don't know who you are or where you're from in real life, but it's *really* painful to read some of your posts. I mean, you're probably an okay guy, you just don't seem to get how...

For those of you who don't know, http://www.fastseduction.com is home to mASF, or moderated Alt.Seduction.Fast. On this site, the goals are internal confidence, striving to be a DJ, and long-term relationships with one-night stands being a rare possibility. On fastseduction.com, they focus...

After seeing the mixed review Tyler Durden's "25 points" got on this website, I thought I'd bring in another post from mASF. This one's from a poster called ijjjji, and I'm skipping a few things not relating directly to DJ attitudes. Specifically, a bit at the beginning about what to eat, and...

Please forgive if I ramble a bit, it's 3:00 am where I am. Here's the deal. I am a recovering AFC. Sad, but true. I found the website a few years back, and am still trying to get my act together. I've improved a lot since I initially found this site, but I'm still a far way from having...

After going to college today, I realized that the biggest problem I have right now is kino. Or, more accurately, my application thereof. You see, I suck at kino. I have no idea what would be appropriate, and what wouldn't, how much is too obvious, and what's not enough. I've looked through...

Okay guys, here's the deal. After following this site for several months, I've been working on pulling out of my AFC habits, and becoming a true DJ. The biggest problem I had been having was one of self-esteem, but I have that (mostly) put behind me now. Unfortunately, I still don't actually...