abcd_z
Senior Don Juan
Invited to a techno concert by a female friend who we shall label Bookworm (she isn't much into physical contact, but she made a great pivot here). Met her friend, Model. Constantly teased Model; C+F and a few negs where appropriate. I got my first ever chance to use Mystery's "oh, a hand model?" neg. She couldn't decide whether to laugh or punch me. Beautiful.
All three of us caught a ride to the concert. At the beginning Model was... a little caustic. For instance, she said something about her punching me if I pissed her off. I sidestepped it and suggested a more win/win situation, such as me going to the concert and her having a good time. No point getting into a battle of frames if you don't have to.
I drop a DHV story of mine about how I'm an outgoing, personable person, and when my co-worker was the opposite of that, it blew my mind.
Fluff talk, we got there, some more fluff talk, made sure to involve both people in the conversations. Talked about an anime convention called sakuracon. At one point I made a point to show Bookworm a picture on my cell phone that was relevant to the conversation (I want to cosplay as the other Syaoran. Don't ask.) Model then pulled out her cell phone and showed us her cat. I pointed out that she was feeling left out, and sympathized before pulling her back into the convo.
Model told me about her boyfriend, who lost a bet and had to dress up as a french maid. I responded that if I had to make it a bet to get my girlfriend to dress up for me, she wouldn't be my girlfriend for very long.
We arrived a little early, so I asked some random strangers if they knew any place to get cheap good food. We wound up going to a Krispy Kreme. I dropped Mystery's "what do you have going for you", but she was listing things that she had (rich parents, etc.), not who she was. So I used the extension about "you've got two out of three. We can be friends." She wanted to know what she was missing, and after putting it off twice (which drove her nuts), I told her that her attitude was rather caustic, that I'm sure she was a great person, but that right now I wasn't seeing that. Model and Bookworm told me (almost simultaneously) that was just first impressions. I told her I hoped to see the side of her that was more than this.
We finished eating, got back in line for the techno concert. She randomly struck up a conversation with the guy behind us, I made it a point to be friendly to him and include him in conversations. Cool guy.
More fluff talk, playful, some C+F. We got inside, I made it a point to head straight to the bar section, which I knew they couldn't follow me to. Muah hah hah. I don't drink, but it did make a good statement. I finally get back, they give me grief for it. I claim that I had no idea they couldn't follow me in, which we all know is bull****.
"I'm really very sorry about that, I won't go there again...more than...ten- no, eleven times." More bull****, all in good fun.
Anyhow, I do several takeaways, dancing for a bit then wandering off to the bar area. By the third time, Model caught up with me as I wandered off. I joked that she missed me. She said she was curious why I kept leaving, but she did also miss me. Cool. Took her to a secluded area, got to know each other a bit. Tried "trying not to kiss you", but she just smiled, and when I moved in for the kiss, she gently deflected it. No biggie.
Around here there were several trips back and forth between the secluded spot and the dance floor. On the dance floor there was some grinding, I gave Model a massage, and had her give me one in return. At the secluded spot, I nibbled on her neck. She told me she had a bf. I told her I wasn't looking for a gf (truth), and talked about the difference between provider and alpha male, and that I definitely wasn't a provider.
Asked her which she liked more, (nibbled her neck) or (nibbled her ear). She liked them both. Tried some rubber band psychology and told her "that's all you get". She was okay with this (not what I was hoping for), so I asked and found out she lets the guy take the lead, and if she has a problem, she'll stop him. Took this as a green light, said "**** it" and made out with her. Talked a bit about the m/w complex most guys have, and that I won't judge a woman for being sexual. She told me her bf was in the military, and wanted to know if "I would come back to bite her in the ass." Me:"Only if you want me to." (grin) . Then I seriously told her about how most guys don't understand the importance of social value to a woman. Her: "This could work."
Ding ding ding! Gentlemen, we have a f*ck invitation.
We couldn't follow up with it because of logistics, so we made plans for a day2 at my place. More getting to know each other (favorite sexual positions, who would win: batman vs superman, sensitive spots on your body and what turns you on), more making out and some petting. Later on, I had her snuggle up against me (tongue-in-cheek "FYI, I'm just using you for your body."). She asked my trait that I dislike about myself (vulnerability). I made her promise to tell me hers if I told her mine, and she agreed. I told her about my geek tendencies, she told me about her goldfish-like memory. I verbalized that when we're snuggled up like we were, I have an odd paternal urge to keep her safe. I was afraid it was beta, but she seemed to like it. Finally, our ride showed up and we went home. If everything goes according to plan, I'm getting laid tomorrow. Wish me luck! ^_^
All three of us caught a ride to the concert. At the beginning Model was... a little caustic. For instance, she said something about her punching me if I pissed her off. I sidestepped it and suggested a more win/win situation, such as me going to the concert and her having a good time. No point getting into a battle of frames if you don't have to.
I drop a DHV story of mine about how I'm an outgoing, personable person, and when my co-worker was the opposite of that, it blew my mind.
Fluff talk, we got there, some more fluff talk, made sure to involve both people in the conversations. Talked about an anime convention called sakuracon. At one point I made a point to show Bookworm a picture on my cell phone that was relevant to the conversation (I want to cosplay as the other Syaoran. Don't ask.) Model then pulled out her cell phone and showed us her cat. I pointed out that she was feeling left out, and sympathized before pulling her back into the convo.
Model told me about her boyfriend, who lost a bet and had to dress up as a french maid. I responded that if I had to make it a bet to get my girlfriend to dress up for me, she wouldn't be my girlfriend for very long.
We arrived a little early, so I asked some random strangers if they knew any place to get cheap good food. We wound up going to a Krispy Kreme. I dropped Mystery's "what do you have going for you", but she was listing things that she had (rich parents, etc.), not who she was. So I used the extension about "you've got two out of three. We can be friends." She wanted to know what she was missing, and after putting it off twice (which drove her nuts), I told her that her attitude was rather caustic, that I'm sure she was a great person, but that right now I wasn't seeing that. Model and Bookworm told me (almost simultaneously) that was just first impressions. I told her I hoped to see the side of her that was more than this.
We finished eating, got back in line for the techno concert. She randomly struck up a conversation with the guy behind us, I made it a point to be friendly to him and include him in conversations. Cool guy.
More fluff talk, playful, some C+F. We got inside, I made it a point to head straight to the bar section, which I knew they couldn't follow me to. Muah hah hah. I don't drink, but it did make a good statement. I finally get back, they give me grief for it. I claim that I had no idea they couldn't follow me in, which we all know is bull****.
"I'm really very sorry about that, I won't go there again...more than...ten- no, eleven times." More bull****, all in good fun.
Anyhow, I do several takeaways, dancing for a bit then wandering off to the bar area. By the third time, Model caught up with me as I wandered off. I joked that she missed me. She said she was curious why I kept leaving, but she did also miss me. Cool. Took her to a secluded area, got to know each other a bit. Tried "trying not to kiss you", but she just smiled, and when I moved in for the kiss, she gently deflected it. No biggie.
Around here there were several trips back and forth between the secluded spot and the dance floor. On the dance floor there was some grinding, I gave Model a massage, and had her give me one in return. At the secluded spot, I nibbled on her neck. She told me she had a bf. I told her I wasn't looking for a gf (truth), and talked about the difference between provider and alpha male, and that I definitely wasn't a provider.
Asked her which she liked more, (nibbled her neck) or (nibbled her ear). She liked them both. Tried some rubber band psychology and told her "that's all you get". She was okay with this (not what I was hoping for), so I asked and found out she lets the guy take the lead, and if she has a problem, she'll stop him. Took this as a green light, said "**** it" and made out with her. Talked a bit about the m/w complex most guys have, and that I won't judge a woman for being sexual. She told me her bf was in the military, and wanted to know if "I would come back to bite her in the ass." Me:"Only if you want me to." (grin) . Then I seriously told her about how most guys don't understand the importance of social value to a woman. Her: "This could work."
Ding ding ding! Gentlemen, we have a f*ck invitation.
We couldn't follow up with it because of logistics, so we made plans for a day2 at my place. More getting to know each other (favorite sexual positions, who would win: batman vs superman, sensitive spots on your body and what turns you on), more making out and some petting. Later on, I had her snuggle up against me (tongue-in-cheek "FYI, I'm just using you for your body."). She asked my trait that I dislike about myself (vulnerability). I made her promise to tell me hers if I told her mine, and she agreed. I told her about my geek tendencies, she told me about her goldfish-like memory. I verbalized that when we're snuggled up like we were, I have an odd paternal urge to keep her safe. I was afraid it was beta, but she seemed to like it. Finally, our ride showed up and we went home. If everything goes according to plan, I'm getting laid tomorrow. Wish me luck! ^_^