ijjjji method v1

[abcd_z]

After seeing the mixed review Tyler Durden's "25 points" got on this website, I thought I'd bring in another post from mASF. This one's from a poster called ijjjji, and I'm skipping a few things not relating directly to DJ attitudes. Specifically, a bit at the beginning about what to eat, and a whole bunch of slightly more specific material (pretty much the entire second half). If you want to see the entire thing for yourself, it's right here

Oh, and before I begin (because this situation probably will come up), xblitz, I think we can safely assume you believe that men have no choice in the mating process, and we can also assume that it'll probably lead to flame wars. Let's not go there, people.

Without further ado, ijjjji method, v1.

LOOKS - STYLE
Always be clean and groomed. Always smell good. Dress in ways that make you stand out from the crowd. Clothes must be on the edge. Amplify with accessories. When buying clothes, think about your style - not the current fashion.

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BUILD CONFIDENCE
Always be pleased with yourself. Let nothing harm your confidence. Remember successes and forget mistakes after you learned from them.
View improvement as an effect of your persona and as part of a pattern - not as result of a good day. See failures as temporary effects of a bad day.
Do not over analyze in search for answers to everything. Never think about the status in your life. Stop thinking that girls are something fundamentally important. Realize you will be happy no matter what. Stop seeing girls as potential girl friends. See them as a source of entertainment, fun and excitement.

BUILD CONFIDENCE - AFFIRMATIONS
Say affirmations with lots of feeling. Say them with confident masculine voice. Some examples:
"I'm alpha and masculine! I got deep voice and I'm perfect! I'm confident and positive!"
"Why are all girls crazy about me? Why am I so charismatic, magnetic and irresistible? Why am I so confident and unstoppable? Why am I a first class lover?"
"All girls are horny, and I'm what they want and need!"
"God had a boner when he created me! Chairs orgasm when I sit in them! I'm the most powerful warm wet ***** magnet in the universe!"

POSITIVITY
Create a clear, detailed and vivid mental picture of what you want in life. Find the feeling that will come when you get there. See the picture and feel the feeling as often and as intensively as possible.
Eliminate negative thoughts from your system. Eliminate sources of negativity from your life (news, soaps, negative friends, AFC songs, negative posts etc). Let the positive thoughts, feelings and mental pictures dominate. Choose to be happy, confident and positive - no matter what.

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BE THE PRIZE - SUPPLICATION
Don't do things only to make others like you.
Never be nice. Never adjust yourself.
Reward - never give (thing, help/service, attention, time). Never do anything on the conditions of others - squeeze in your own conditions.
Never try to impress (brag, say intelligent/interesting/cool things, over act, talk about your friends/exes/things you own etc.)

BE THE PRIZE - NEEDY
Don't show too much interest early on.
Never follow her and never wait for her without good reason. Be ok with her leaving. Show willingness to leave.
Do not try to analyze her. Stop caring about her interest in you. Accept that girls are unpredictable. Remain fully calm and confident when girls do bizarre things to control their feelings.
Always look like you just had great sex - a little tired, hair a little untidy, disinterested, arrogant, not needy, like you got better things to do.
Do not hide your sexuality in fear of rejection. Act on it when you are horny, and never let the outcome affect your mood negatively.
Stop caring what people think of you and show it.

BE THE PRIZE - BODY LANGUAGE
Never lean in. Do not turn too much against her early on - show more back than her. Do not face her all the time and don't give her all your attention.

BE THE PRIZE - ATTITUDE
I'm the prize - no girl are better or more valuable than me!
This is my world - others come into my world - not vice versa.
Girls are crazy after me - I need protection!
I'm a fantastic lover.
I'm 100% pleased with myself.

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BE THE MAN - GENERAL
Be 100% masculine at all times.
Always be dominant and in control. Take charge - be the leader - the boss. Do everything with authority. Instruct - never ask. Never seek approval.
Show that you got limited respect for her and that you are not subdued by social norms/rules (scream in her ear, make noise, laugh and sing loudly, pull her hair, pinch her ass, grab her and bite her neck, shout about farting and ass ****ing, laugh and admit you are a jerk etc)
Never show a soft emotional side. Don't show interest in her thoughts and emotions.

BE THE MAN - TONALITY
Talk with a dominant tone. Speak slow, deep, rhythmic, clear and relaxed, like you are not in a hurry and got full control. Copy the way air plane pilots talk to their passengers. Make breaks that create anticipation before you get to the point, and breaks where you underline the point with gestures and meaningful eye contact.

BE THE MAN - BODY LANGUAGE
Spread yourself out and fill as much space as possible, when you stand, sit and walk.
Move extremely slow and relaxed. Cross rooms like a king headed for his throne. Every movement including head and eyes shall be slow and dramatic.
Move focus/attention rarely. Ignore everyone and everything that doesn't deserve the boss' attention.

BE THE MAN - KINO
Touch her confidently - never insecure, careful or testing.
Handle her like a doll - grab her and control her movements. Hold her and lead her - change directions, speed etc so you manipulate her movement. Tell her how to do things while you grab her and show her the movements. Lift her up and spin around when you hug/kiss her. Help her with getting clothes off /on. Lift/carry her over obstacles.

BE THE MAN - ATTITUDE
I'm the boss and I got full control. I own the guy who owns this place. I'm Zeus - its my duty as god to **** the nymphs!

BE THE MAN - 'FICTION HERO'
Male heroes in films and romantic novels share a few traits that many girls dream of. Be these things:
Impression: Strong, muscular, tough, hard, big hands, powerful, alpha, dominant, protective, masculine, confident, will power, determination, untamed, rough edges, moody, dark,dangerous, mystic, raw, rough, devilish, wild.
Personality: integrity, identity, pride, honor, sense of humor, self irony, charming, charismatic, flirty, passionate, good kisser, rough lover.
Hidden qualities: weaknesses, wounds, faults, openness to learning and growth, caring, attentive, tender (the clue with these is that he does a everything in his power to hide them).

 

[abcd_z]

STATE CONTROL - GET INTO FLOW
Be relaxed, laid back, unworried and comfy. Feel safe, secure and confident. Feel happy and great about yourself. Trust yourself.
Open a few girls quickly (3s rule) before you do anything else.
Avoid being passive. Never stand still and observe.
'Let go' and throw yourself into action. Join in, do something, be part of the action, dig the music, move/walk around, take the lead, wave and talk to people etc.

STATE CONTROL - AVOID DEEP THINKING
Focus on your feelings. Let your feelings get carried away by music or something happening.
Avoid deep thinking - don't analyze - turn off inner dialogue. Forget status, plans and agenda. Avoid mirrors, clocks and other 'thought triggers'.

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EYE CONTACT
Eye contact must be confident, meaningful and firm - not timid, questioning, analyzing, shy, short, begging or frustrated.

FACES
Use funny overdramatized facial expressions for underlining and vibing. Examples: Puppy dog - overly sad face with huge eyes. Dignity - turn head sideways and stare towards the horizon with low eye lids and straight neck. (Look out for new ones among your friends and when watching movies and cartoons)

TALK
Don't talk too much. Don't try too hard to keep conversation alive - don't try to fill empty pauses. Don't be too enthusiastic and interested in what she says. Don't remember too much what she has said. Don't answer too quickly. Don't tell about yourself unless she asks.
Avoid thought stimulating talk like questions, problems, plans, logic, explaining, analyzing, advice, argumentation/defense, fascinating, interesting, intelligent, analytical, theoretical, professional.
Always pump positive emotions - never dwell on the negative.
Never talk without subcommunication - subtext/hidden messages, body language, facial expressions and meaningful eye contact.

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ATTRACTION - GENERAL
Be fit!
Be clean/groomed!
Be the prize!
Be the man!
Be in a strong confident state!
Be sexual!

ATTRACTION - SEXUAL STATE
Be in a sexual state. Show it by doing stuff like: Play with something in your hands. Straighten hair/clothes. Touch your face, neck and body. Turn more and more towards her. Move closer. Open relaxed body language. Relaxed smile. Low relaxed eye lids. Sensual eye contact. Whisper like voice. Lick upper lip. Bite lower lip. Look down with 'sad' eye brows. Scan her body slowly with eyes. Stare at lips. Open mouth with long breath. Turn head sideways slightly backwards to expose carotid artery. Short heavy breathing.

ATTRACTION - OPEN
Attitude and body language must be 100% the man and 100% the prize.
Avoid approaching too directly - talk to her as you pass her or while facing another direction or while in conversation with others.
NEG her if she doesn't show interest and enthusiasm.

ATTRACTION - FLIRTING
Be ****y!
Tease her about wanting you, that you can't be a couple, that you are not her type, that she should try to seduce another guy etc.
Bust her playfully on everything she does and says.
Pretend like you are searching for a polite way to leave her.
Tell her she is seducing you and beg her to stop.
Say things with hidden sexual messages (subtext) - use a lot of symbolic words: wet, moist, stream, pump, warm, open, grow, big, rise, stiff, hard, hidden, secret, good, from behind, in, deeper, slide, penetrate, ecstasy, bliss, come, suck, lick, tongue, mouth, adventure, feel, rhythm, wave, fantasy, wild, untamed, intense.
Look at her like she said something dirty. Paraphrase stuff she says into a sexual context and tell her she's a naughty girl.

ATTRACTION - INTRIGUE
Be mystical - don't say everything - indicate and say things indirectly. Hint towards secrets and double meanings with body language, facial expressions and subtext.
Ask her to guess. Give obvious bull **** answers.
Become distracted or cut yourself off or change subject just before you reach the point.
Fractionate attention when there's a spike in her interest. Look and talk to other girls. Turn away from her. Go toilet. Fall into deep thought. Look around.

ATTRACTION - KINO
Butt bump, spank, tackle, push, spin, tickle/prickle, pinch, pull hair, wrestle, lift, shake.
Point somewhere and stick a finger in her belly. Pretend to kiss her hand but kiss our own instead.

ATTRACTION - **** TEST
Focus on being the prize and the man if she does things to become the prize or make you less dominant.
Stuff like demands, commands, complains, manipulation, negativity, logic questions and threats must be met with attraction (****y busting/teasing, spanking, tickling or backturn/freezeout). Never with direct/honest answer, frustration, neediness or rapport seeking.
If she complains about you, agree and ask if that's why you make her so horny.

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RAPPORT
Never seek rapport. When she seeks rapport, give her a little bit, but never enough to satisfy her. Then return to attraction.
Do not try to build trust, comfort and feeling of safety. Don't try to be kind and considerate. Don't try to be her friend.
Avoid rapport that is feminine, friendly, careful, considerate or insecure.

RAPPORT - KINO
Be the man by using an impulsive and confident caveman style.
Rub, don't squeeze or pinch. Use slow deliberate movements.
Touch her close to eregenous zones and pull back.
Touch yourself with her hands.
De-escalate kino after escalation.

RAPPORT - CLOSING
Create an innocent reason why you should go together to her or your place. Then take charge and make it happen.
If conversation dies, look her in the eyes and say nothing.
Smell her neck slowly from shoulder to hair line. "Mmmmm!" Do it again while gradually making it more like kissing and biting. Continue up and nibble her earlobe gently and continue along her chin towards her mouth. Pull back before you reach her mouth. Then grab her head and kiss her cave man style. Pull back again etc. Continue taking steps forwards and backwards until she is ready for sex.
Let your sexual state affect everything you do. Show her you got problems concentrating. Make it obvious what you think about.
Be the man in bed.

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Credits:

Ultra major credits to: TylerDurden

Super major credits to: formhandle, Gunwitch, jlaix, Style, Mystery

Major credits to: IN10SE, Superslicka, ThePresident, Dreem, Tommy227, Pimpjuice, Pap

Credits to: BLscorpZ, CheMistry, Harmless, Mmasters, Radical, Jimbo, Proto, Wild Bard, scoob, zyxwxy, NeoRio, zarathustra_fi, mrhviid, HedgeKilla, Kooper, Coolwater, Dreamer, Chaco, BadBoy, croBadBoy, Snowcub, Cooljoe, Schematic, Lowrider, DVS, ozwald1, Maxxwell Bond, Dr.Smooth, Nightblue, Nilatak and many many more

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

You fvcking CUT OUT STUFF from ijjji method???? It's NOT GOOD WITHOUT EVERYTHING INN IT. It's a fvcking 100% thoughtout congruent method, can't cut out parts because "It's not DJ", fvck that.

The whole part about eating etc is ESSENTIAL because it pumps testosteron and also general stuff about your body. But oh well..


yes we know xblitz is a troll. Sure women are the ones saying yes or no (often) but you can still attract her via game. xblitz is just ignorant and a bad PUA so it uses bad excuses for sucking.

 

[xblitz44x]

KC,

Anytime you want to meet up brotha, you just let me know. I'm all about it. You talk a lot of shyt, but nothing against me has any substance. When you want to have a serious debate instead of that shyt falling from your mouth, let me know. And if you *really* think I'm a bad "PUA", we should meet up and I'd be glad to show you just how bad I am. Until then shut your mouth because nothing you say about me has any credibility.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Why would I care? Whatever I say is truth anyways, doesn't matter if you don't agree.

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

Did I miss something here?


Get Em Boy.

 

[Ebach]

Everyone has their own game...stop biatching like little girls.

 

[JT47319]

Dude, you left out his routines and money C&F lines.

 

[abcd_z]

JT47319, yes, I know I cut out some good stuff. The post was already quite long, so I left the link in in case people were interested in seeing the rest.
xblitz, kc, I didn't create this thread to watch you two bicker. That's why I tried heading the situation off at the pass. It doesn't seem to have worked, so I'll state it more directly: kindly take this somewhere else.

 

[abcd_z]

I didn't mean everybody take it elsewhere.

 

[smooth666]

ok, lets bump this!

 

[DJLegion]

Can someone find a link to the original article that still works? Thanks in advance.

EDIT: I couldn't find the original article at mASF but I did find it here:

http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2004/06/ijjjjji_method_.html