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I've been doing online dating and about the only women that respond to me are obese... weighing as much as me or more (I'm a tall guy). When I DO get a "meetup", it rarely leads to a second date. When I go to bars, I hook up with good looking women. The problem is I tend to go to "dive bars"...

I have an acquaintance who I run into often and we were at the bar together when groups meet up. So I see her once a week or so. And lately we've been sort of flirting/escalating with each other when we see each other. She asked me if I wanted to share a cab to our final destinations as she...

Not teasing in a sexual way but making fun of your perculialities. Like saying I would expect you to do something like that or that's so etching you would buy or calling me weird. Everything. This is a girl I have known for a long tone and shes never done this. So she started throwing me...

Have you ever had a girl that showed mild or little interest, then got jealous when you started seeing other people, so you go back and give her a try, and have it turn into an LTR? Or does the fact it takes jealousy to get her interested show it won't really work for anything other than short term?

I'm not sure what to make of this... if I compliment a girl and they giggle like a little schoolgirl. It's happening to every single girl I compliment these days. Am I doing something wrong?

There's a girl I know who's one good attribute is having big boobs. I notice lately when talking to her that she will take one hand and sort of cover her heart area above her chest and start fidgeting, like messing with her skin. She did this yesterday when talking to her I was looking her in...

Can someone explain how you are "needy" and "needy for approval" when you give compliments?

I've been trying online dating and haven't had much luck. I met one girl on there who was pretty good looking, I'd say an 8. But the vast majority ignore my email after looking at my profile. In real life and online, I would get all the fat girls I could ask for. I've had rejections by good...

I live with a girl roommate 3 years now. I have not hit on her all this time. It's me her and one other guy. She would go through these periods where she called me hun all the time. I know what you're saying that doesn't mean anything. But I've only seen her call either her on/ off boyfriend...

What is everyone's opinion on this. I was in a 3 way conversation, she was talking to someone else, I was watching her face while she talked, she looks at me, takes her jacket and covers her chest and looks back at the other person she was talking to.

I don't have any other way to describe it, but do you think two people can show attraction to one another through their eyes? I don't mean holding gazes, I mean just somehow showing some sort of look in their eye and coming across as attracted.

It's a viscious circle. I get nervous that I won't be able to catch wood which in turn makes me more nervous which in turn stops me from catching wood which in turn... causes a lot of problems. How do I overcome this? Why can I get hard thinking/being around women but when that time comes...

I just moved into this place 2 months ago with a guy and a girl. So I do like this girl now. I've had female roommates in the past and never got any type of feeling for them but I do this one. The problem is she is my roommate and I don't want to turn things akward. So I hit on her a little...

I suggest you focus on developing a network of friends in a social circle as #1 priority. You would be surprised how much having a group of guy friends can help you get women. If you are just some loner, you are going to have a much harder time meeting women. Even women friends can help, but...

I post this here because I'm one of probably many here that battle shyness: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/20178762/ Shyness is probably the #1 thing that can hold you down in life. It's held me down and it still does. But as I get older I overcome my shyness and push myself. So I think as...

I exchanged emails with this girl a while back. Her profile had hardly anything on it other than she's looking for a long term relationship. I wrote to her basically trying to get an idea of what she's all about. She responds and basically says she has no hobbies, and for fun likes to go out...

I'm talking to 3 girls on the internet. One girl seems strait up telling me what bar she's going to that night,etc. It would be easy to meet up with her. The other initiated with me and always answers my emails but just makes short, simple remarks. Plus she lives like 50 minutes from me. The...

Aside from online dating (doesn't work for me), school (outta school), work (fortune 500 co with lotsa women, unfortunately they are all fat 40 year old married women), where can you meet girls. It seems like the bar is the only place I can think of.

I've been on eHarmony since December 3, and have yet to talk to anyone over the phone or even personal e-mail. I realized I just spend $180 to waste my time on that site trying to meet someone and filling out a bunch of questions. I also signed up to American Singles, and there are so many...

I started messaging this girl I know kinda likes me, but I'm not interested in her. I know every time I do, she gives me attention. I did it just because I was bored. I don't get any satisfaction out of it, and I don't understand how women do. Why does it matter if a guy you have no interest...