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    20 "things" that women say make men more masculine/manly

    https://www.mensfitness.com/women/dating-advice/20-things-20-real-women-say-make-you-manly seems like high self esteem is a common theme. some others that came up a lot: working out/being in shape having facial hair/being rugged being handy taking control of any situation
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    This movie scene is loaded with DJ lessons

    From the movie 'Rush' .. it's one of my favorite scenes and it's loaded with lessons on seduction
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    Female matchmaker's rant @ females about their unrealistic standards

    This popular matchmaker quit female matchmaking after getting fed up with females' standards. A lot of her points are similar to the ones brought up here. Thoughts?
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    DJ life: do your relationships ever really end?

    Basically every relationship i have with women never really officially start or end. There's no relationship drama either. There's really nothing "official" about these relationships .. it's purely a relationship based on having fun together, and fvcking. I notice that once you start having sex...
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    Girl accepts date but then says she is only looking for friendship?

    A girl i was dating got in touch with me out of the blue (after a year or so of no contact) .. so i set up a time/place to grab a drink together ... she then tells me she is only looking for friendship AFTER she accepts the date. e.g. the common advice is to always pay attention to girls...
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    Dealing with overly greedy/selfish girls who still put out easily

    The type of girl who will rarely if ever offer to pay for anything, who will act entitled to your resources (dropping hints at the type of food they want you to cook them, restaurants or gifts they like, etc), and act oblivious to the fact that they rarely if ever invest anything financially (or...
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    Someone help me make sense of her behavior

    So i hit it off with this girl i met online. We were having sex shortly after the first date. This girl is really great in a lot of ways .. in almost every way actually. She's beautiful .. nice body .. successful .. good behavior .. seems super loyal ... has me convinced she doesn't have a long...
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    Women's pickiness regarding food/drinks

    I spin plates at my place pretty often .. one thing i notice is that it's really hard to guess what a girl does/doesn't like as it relates to drinks or food or snacks. It gets really awkward when you make a meal and then the girl doesn't like onion in it. Or order pizza and the girl doesn't like...
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    What we can learn from this recent Trump debacle

    Now beauty pageant contestants are coming out saying he touched them or whatever ... This is why you NEVER date girls at work. It doesn't matter how much vibes she gave off and how much she reciprocated the flirting/touching/etc. girls can impulsively out of the blue say that you touched them...
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    So it happened: Sexual Harassment @ Work as Retaliation

    You all warned me. Anything I should know to prepare for ? HR is doing an investigation....
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    Lots of broken plates

    One of my favorite plates recently went ghost on me ... which really got me thinking... If i start banging a girl ... i notice maybe half stick around as good plates long term, the other just kind of flame out after a few months. Does this sound about right to you guys? I guess the nature of...
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    how to handle girl who only wants a 'real' relationship?

    there's this girl who was a plate before .. then she dropped me when she got into a serious relationship with some other guy ... she's broken up now ... and we've been talking again ... met her for lunch ... trying to get her back to being a good plate ... but she's super cautious and "only...
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    girl tells me about FWB situation? is this a **** test?

    I got a FB message from some girl i just started dating (we've been on one date) but there's ton of chemistry and we'll be getting together again this week at my place ... anyway i get this message from her today: I need to tell you something about my situation. I have an FWB that kind of...
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    How to respond to girl in situations where she 'qualifies' herself to you

    e.g. when you are negging her "your ass is small" and she responds with "i'll work on that in the gym" what is the dj response in this situation?
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    Big time connection between Geo Location & Pvssy Quality

    I grew up in los angeles and fell in love with the first girl i met as a young adult ... (before i knew about this community) made the mistake of investing in one girl .. "falling in love" etc. moved away to a small town to take a job towards the end of my relationship with this chic ...we...
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    The most attractive male traits rankings (input wanted)

    Right now with the college football playoffs/rankings going on ... i got to wondering how 'attractive male traits' would rank...here's my ranking/list: 1. Social Status: leader/power/authority figure/winner, quantity & quality of relationships (large number of family and friends who also have...
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    What is one easy way to really improve confidence quickly?

    If you had zero confidence (none whatsoever) how would you 'improve' your confidence? walking up to random girls and starting conversation? getting ripped/fit .. etc. ? All of these things are time consuming endeavors ... what i'd like to know is the #1 way you would go about improving your...
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    Tell me what I already know bros (this new girl)

    I met this girl 2 nights ago doing volunteer work -- we were kind of forced to start talking due to working together. As small talk, one of the first topics that came up was how we ended up working there--she mentioned how busy she was with school/work/child/volunteering/etc. basically mentioned...
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    Getting lucky: girl completely out of my league showing interest?

    You ever work/go to school/take a class/etc. with a girl clearly out of your league that was somehow interested in you? For example, I'm 5'11, 225 lbs (overweight/pudgy looking) .. introverted .. etc. (working on myself through the advice here) I'm not bad looking but i'd call myself...
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