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    Vote on a 3rd date activity.

    As expected it came up last night. She always does it just after sex too, which is annoying cos nobody can communicate properly with all the chemicals present in your brain. She said she was on the pill as of today, so next time we could go without. I said I prefer to use them tbh and made some...
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    Vote on a 3rd date activity.

    Ty, excellent advice, especially the questioning on her part about 'just sex'. I was under the impression she was wanting a relationship the way she said it but what you said makes way more sense. She doesn't know me anywhere near well enough and is like you said, just doing it for her own self...
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    Vote on a 3rd date activity.

    Idk what came over me, I lost my **** a bit there. The date was fine, she wasn't overly impressed with the dog track and I could tell, but it was secondary to having a few drinks in the bar anyway. I was def overly invested because I thought she was something she probably isn't. This is good as...
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    Vote on a 3rd date activity.

    Going for the dog track. Well, that's what I've decided, I've just messaged her for her address to pick her up and she's seen but not replied. Not a great sign considering it takes 10 seconds to reply and she usually insta replies. If she flakes I'll be ****ing annoyed, considering she's...
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    Do not tolerate BS from women

    I find replying angrily just shows you have lost your cool. Saying actually don't bother comes across as bitter and like someone that has been flaked on so much that he has got tired of dealing with womens BS. That's not a good look. Much better to act unphased. Like how would it even be a...
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    Vote on a 3rd date activity.

    I was thinking the food thing is a bit romancey for this stage (is that a bad thing?), having said that I've booked the table just in case cos if the weather doesn't pick up I'm not taking her to stand in the cold rain at the dogs. The horse racing is a good one but that's more of a couples...
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    Vote on a 3rd date activity.

    Okay guys I have 2 options for a 3rd date. The girl is really fun to be around, we've had sex already. A) Tapas and ****tails B) Dog track and ****tails. Factors influencing: -She asked me did I want to go out for food, am I supplicating by going for the tapas option...
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    Talk to me about dangling the carrot

    Sorry shoulda stated, we've had sex twice on each date. First date sex is seen as a red flag for some but I don't read too much into it tbh. I can expand on my reasons for this if wanted. I get the impression she's really into me right now, for example she will double or triple text until I...
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    Talk to me about dangling the carrot

    Went on a tinder date Friday night with a girl. It went really well and I agreed to go see her again on Sunday night. She seems really into me and I'm pretty into her. She's the perfect mix of cute/insecure. I want her to catch feels for me. Am I right to think I should be ignoring her...
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    Girlfriend of 11 months has sex with me but wont kiss me anymore?

    Reading this makes me wanna get into a situation where I can just vanish nc without a single word said.
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    So lets say 50 years from now...

    Jesus christ.
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    Anti-Slut Defense, does it really exist?

    It's sick though cos lots of igrls have fantasys about being raped and get off on being pinned down and dominated. Rape (take what you want) in itself is pretty alpha (which is a turn on) whereas fannying about is beta. You have to be really careful, I air on the side of caution at all times.
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    Why don't most couples last

    this site says relationships don't last but i'm still watiing of any of good friends ltr's breaking up. it certainly would be interesting to see 5 years down the line but right now they all seem like theyre in it for the long haul.
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    Why you should never trust a woman. Or anyone else for that matter.

    yes i can guarantee that if i knew a loved one would die due to me cheating then i would 100% not cheat.
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    The #1 Way Movies & TV Shows Mess Up Dating for Guys

    Basically in ever rom com the woman is the prize and the man must win her over by acting like a whiteknight. In real life this is needy and desperate and shows you as being low value so you lose the girl.
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    Nuking the Hamster

    What was the purpose of showering her with affection? I assume you wouldn't usually take this route, but it appeared to work. I just ask cos I get so caught up at times in not being too nice that I don't hardly show affection or compliments, but it seems to actually work. This site says stuff...
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    Where do playful insults cross into something else

    Yea I'm well aware. It's kinda a gut thing tbh. Her saying 'god you're such a girl' when I've been pretending to me moaning about being ill, is to be expected and is fine/playful. I made a mistake and tried to A&A and said 'yea, post op trans'... She then said 'i thought so..it's the jawline...
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    NC battle with my date

    Treat them like small children. You wouldn't let a 6yo tell you what to do would you? They need you to show them what's right and wrong and you do this either by telling themr or just withdrawing attention. Never suplicate.
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    Where do playful insults cross into something else

    So I went on a date, it went fairly well, kiss closed bla bla. I hate the texting after date 1, cos I don't just wanna pile in with a date request, but at the same time I cba to waste time speaking if ultimately she's just being polite, and I usually get paranoid this is the case. And with...
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    Music choice affecting Betaness?

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bpOSxM0rNPM this is weird cos it makes me feel different things at once. the lyrics say one thing and the riff something else
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