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    Beware of virtual sh!t-test, lesson learned!

    Hahah. Dude, same thing happened to me. Screenshotted a snapchat a chick sent me and I didn't know it'd alert her. Had to to weasel my way out of that one, which is easy via text.
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    About physical preference

    Maybe it's subconcious: child-bearing hips, fat deposits, etc. Me? I love me a thick little latina, but I always end up with blonde white chicks.
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    How often do you guys go out?

    Yeah, I know. It was nice to have a g/f, stay in, not care what other people are doing, get drunk, have sex, save a ton of money.
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    Why is college portrayed as the best 4 years of your life

    Same here. I went to a small state college, partied a lot, had fun, did well enough to get into grad school at a major state college. I love talking about the old times with buddies, but now 18-21 year olds seem sooo ****ing obnoxious - def couldnt go back. It's probably worth mentioning...
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    Girls telling you that you have coldness in the stare...

    A girl I know is always trying to hook me up with her friends. She has one in particular, who is just absurdly good-looking and went to an ivy league school, but is very family-orientated and goes out once a month and usually just has a drink or two before driving home. Obviously, I'm highly...
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    My Advice- Never Take it Personally

    I agree for the most part. But there's certainly scenarios where the girl does like her bf, but is getting "grass is greener" syndrome", and could end up going for a guy of equal or lesser value for the thrill of it. In those situations, it's certainly better to just cut your losses, but...
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    Gf going distant. Time for me to be more distant?

    Gotta +1 this. Just went though this a few months back. I spent money, I spent energy, I was constantly worried and stressed, felt like I was walking on egg shells around her, overall just total emasculated beta, etc. all just to date her for another couple weeks, which make break-up that much...
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    Gf going distant. Time for me to be more distant?

    This. This. This. 1000 times this. OP, your gut has already told you it's done for. Your mind is overanalyzing now and contesting your one source of truth: your gut. In a relationship as young as yours, with the games you're having to play to make it sorta work, it just doesn't have a chance...
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    Gf going distant. Time for me to be more distant?

    She must have some interest still. Just don't get your hopes up. Girls will still contact a bit even with critically low interest, and break-up still may be inevitable. I'd say keep doing what you're doing. If you meet-up, don't even acknowledge you haven't seen each other for a few days.
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    How often do you guys go out?

    Anyone else get kind of anxious if they aren't out socializing every Friday and Saturday night? Or say, I have a buddy text me to wingman on a Thurs night, even though I know Friday at work I have a ton to do. On the weekends, even if there's not much going on, I still find myself willing to...
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    Couch surfing to get laid?

    Sounds like the script for Taken 3. Don't piss off Liam Neeson.
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    Gf going distant. Time for me to be more distant?

    If the items are actually valuable, then go for it, otherwise just let it go. I think a lot of guys think they can use stuff left as pawns, and maybe some can, but it might just be better to say "whatever" and go true NC. Every situation is only as awkward as you make it. If you're anxious...
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    10% Rule

    There's no magic percent. Brad Pitt has 100%, not 10%. Chis-chan has 0%, not 10%. Without quantifying the unquantifiable, let's quote Gretzy, "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take", or something like that.
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    Giving out your number?

    Agreed. Way before I understood the concept of "game", I'd play around with different strategies myself. I went though a phase (a very short phase) where I insisted a girl take my digits and hit me up. Didn't work even once. In fact, I bumped into a girl I did that to 1.5 years later (she...
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    Gf going distant. Time for me to be more distant?

    Got to go with the majority here. I was just in this situation a few months back. She got distant/cold, easily irritable. I got alarmed and tried to fix it like a beta and she got super irritable, even volatile. Was not a pleasant experience. We legit just stopped talking. No formal...
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    Girlfriend being cold and distant in texts

    Yeah, trust your gut. You're seeing the signs. Don't think I've ever seen a girl get suddenly cold with no repercussion.
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    Now I know of the 3 day rule but

    I'd just text after 2 days. Say something clever and cool and see if you can line something up for Friday, as opposed to texting the day of. If she's high interest, she'll reserve that time. Then do your own thing until Friday and take her out. Keep the texting low or close to nothing, but...
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    Body Grooming, What do you do to look your best? Share, give advice

    I grow a thick beard in my mid 20s, so I rock that. I have a diamond shaped face and the beard gives me a blockier face. Keep my cheek bones (some rogue hair) and neck shaved. Give it a 10 min trim most every day and then use a bit of product to smooth it out. Can't even describe how much a...
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    Getting hbb college girls while not actually being a college student, achievable?

    Wow, are you me? Exact same thing here. Was not great with girls through HS and most of undergrad. Moved to a city for grad school and everything was different. Have definitely been making up for lost time.
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    Best way to act seeing ex in public

    Sounds like you handled that like a G and really are all the way over her too. Unfortunatley, I didn't had a gf with me, but I was with my #1 wingman (who used to smash my ex's best friend) and she knows when me and him are at the bars together we're in game mode. Word. Well, she was just...
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