Went on one date with this girl two weeks back (have been spinning a couple plates and I notice this makes my date performance much better as I don't behave like a dog desperate to hump her leg) and it went pretty well, shy nerdy gamer type chick with an unbelievable rack.. like its just not even fair. I manage to hold myself together, we went to movies, give her a ride home, kiss her and done.
She is all about the snapchat and next day is sending me tons of these things and I don't even really understand how it works. I send one back here and there, her tits are practically falling out in these pictures, so I decide to screenshot them so I can get better look at them LITTLE DO I KNOW that apparently the other person can find out if you did this, and shes like "you screenshotted it?" I said yea and I kept saving a couple like who cares shes sending me pics of her boobs basically why would it matter?
Then she says "stop screenshotting them", which is when it hit me how bad I was blowing this! She starts getting very short and responding much less.. the communication went south from here. Waited couple days, ask her out for sunday, she agrees then flakes/doesnt even say anything. She does counter offer with monday (today) which I agree to but then I cancelled because I had to work late and am exhausted. So now I'm acting like a desperate beta asking her when shes around this week, what day can we hang out, etc. etc. and she of course is barely responding.
This was a tough but valuable lesson here, and reminds you that you have GOT to keep your cool. Do not get overly sexual or "creepy" before you have gotten that close with the girl. Went from a good first date and her having very high interest the next day to quickly blowing it just like that. She does seem to generally respond to my txts still but I think theres about a 95% chance this one is done. I will most certainly try again in a few days because the image of her busting cleavage is more than my mind can handle, but this is fair warning to all you would-be screenshotters out there!
She is all about the snapchat and next day is sending me tons of these things and I don't even really understand how it works. I send one back here and there, her tits are practically falling out in these pictures, so I decide to screenshot them so I can get better look at them LITTLE DO I KNOW that apparently the other person can find out if you did this, and shes like "you screenshotted it?" I said yea and I kept saving a couple like who cares shes sending me pics of her boobs basically why would it matter?
Then she says "stop screenshotting them", which is when it hit me how bad I was blowing this! She starts getting very short and responding much less.. the communication went south from here. Waited couple days, ask her out for sunday, she agrees then flakes/doesnt even say anything. She does counter offer with monday (today) which I agree to but then I cancelled because I had to work late and am exhausted. So now I'm acting like a desperate beta asking her when shes around this week, what day can we hang out, etc. etc. and she of course is barely responding.
This was a tough but valuable lesson here, and reminds you that you have GOT to keep your cool. Do not get overly sexual or "creepy" before you have gotten that close with the girl. Went from a good first date and her having very high interest the next day to quickly blowing it just like that. She does seem to generally respond to my txts still but I think theres about a 95% chance this one is done. I will most certainly try again in a few days because the image of her busting cleavage is more than my mind can handle, but this is fair warning to all you would-be screenshotters out there!