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A while ago this forum was transformed into this dark looking spooky "we are sexy and cool" kinda atmosphere. I see it has been changed back now, or that is just my illusion here? I mean it is almost back to what it was before; I still liked the old one better, it felt safe and sane. Layout and...

is someone who doesn't take **** from anyone. That's the real you. You just don't take crap from anyone. You call them out on it. You throw it back in their faces. The person you are is a lot less civlized in that sense. You just don't take crap. Other people may be living in a crap world and...

I want to suggest or petition a small improvement/change. Currently quotes are done in italic style, which is fine by me. But italics in the quote are not returned to normal, ie. if you use [ i ] inside the blockquote it will just "double" or "reapply" the italics that was already done. It is...

I am a subscriber to a certain mailing list that I shall not name just now, but perhaps you can even google the content once you see it. I just want to offer a few tidbits of advice or inspiration from that list. It is slightly religious but only in a sense of "God" wanting you to succeed. I...

I am thinking back to some of my youth and it is not all that long ago but it is now like worlds apart, a different century, another age. And when I look at my life, it has been so devoid of good things. And I did not trust my self back then, even less than I do now. Or even more than I do...

I generally hate this world we live in these days. I was of the position that I'd find my way into a better world or one that better suited me - one that was the result of my own creation -- but I completely failed. I am surrounded by idiocy everywhere. I am keen on the fact that if you want...

So I had this girl I met on a dating site. It was a social network site. I didn't have a picture. It was a blonde. She was easy enough. Over the course of the morning I chatted her up and got her to the point where she'd start to play down my worth. I became angry with her, surely she didn't...

You know how this thing with disconnects works. You offer someone a chance at learning who you are by setting a limit or walking away on someone or posing someone a threat that you think is a threat to the relationship. It might be "I don't want you to do these things" or "Please don't do...

So just suppose there is a girl who keeps talking too much out of a form of panic or unrest. Suppose the girl is pressing you for answers to questions you don't want to answer because they come too soon or they are irrelevant or whatever. And you want to deflect those questions, but your...

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Many times we try to achieve something with someone when the thing we try to achieve is already so. This is not knowing where you are and not knowing your condition. You may say to a girl "Then you'll have to come and be with me" when the appropriate thing would have been to say "Then don't...

Just want to share. Extremely horny girl. We meet here in the facility. Psychiatric institution. Big rules not to do certain things. I missed the opportunity to make use of it right away. So scary. Knocking at her door. The opportunity will not return. She was just perfect. Will give...

It's like I always at every junction deep down (and sometimes, or often, also consciously) know exactly what to do with any given woman. I look at these young girls and they don't even have to be that young. Any woman really, there are moments in time in every encounter, often when you first...

I'm currently in my early thirties still. I guess my inner problems/issues/challenges have pushed my life in a direction that I very much do not like at all. The biggest thing I don't like, is my self ;-). It seems to get me in trouble all the time, and when it matters I cannot count on...

Earlier there was a little post about acting like you are something, and actually being that thing. I want to say here that they are one and the same. If you are actually capable of acting in certain way, with a certain mode of feeling, that is actually the definition of being that thing.

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I need a little feedback or advice at this point. Apart from the fact that my life has been falling apart completely in recent months.... I guess it's been falling together instead, but I've become rather disgruntled with myself and the way things have been going. Part of that is the...

The DJ in disguise is a guy who acts like someone who is afraid to speak to women. He plays this role in order to teach women how they respond to guys who are insecure. Through him, they become aware of themselves. The pavement saint is a guy who acts like someone who lives at the bottom of...

Self-confidence is the result of self-love and leads to self-respecting choices and behaviour. These choices in turn grant the experience of self-love. Seductive behaviour is equivalent to self-respecting behaviour around women. A training in self-respect is automatically a training in...

Basically it's not smart to view yourself, as a beginning Don Juan, as an "average frustrated chump". The labels you accept for yourself determine the course of your evolution. If you believe you ARE an AFC, that's what you'll become more of. It's much saner to view yourself as a...