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    she breaks NC again...

    every time we stop talking it takes about 4-5 weeks of NC and then she breaks it to ask how I am.... so this is about the 3rd time this has happend - the first time everything went well and we basically got together again till I pushed her away...then again ....so this is the third...
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    What happened with ex?

    Following on from the other poll...... sex once/few times/ regularly/ get back into rel short/long...... SO FAR...........post how long post BU it was....(another poll needed) Assuming BU of 3-6 months here......say how long With more gf's than one - just average it If you havent done...
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    any advice on social circle game?

    any advice on building up social circle? I am just wondering what you would recommend for building an awesome social circle? Work in a bar/club? (eg become a ****tail bartender- cool job on the side) Go out to bars frequently? Go to classes? (eg salsa, been doing this but often find most...
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    Reconciliation after half a year?

    Do any of you have experience of getting back together with an ex after an extended period of time? Spare me the advice to move on - I'm dating two girls at the same time and working out etc - this is just out of interest. So I posted my story a while ago, basically BU 7months ago because...
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    anyone reunited with ex after 5 months?

    NC was broken by her first then awesome hookup then two months of NC and at the end I confronted/insulted her for what she did etc(not good move)- now been two months seeing ehr tomorrow - has anyone got back together with an ex after 5 months on and off NC and how?
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    Problems with getting BJ

    So I have getting girls back to my place down. This last girl I was doing really well (I am judging this by how it was literally pouring out of her and the moaning) - but I have always had a problem with transitioning to BJ smoothly from sex - maybe I should do it before - but then she isn't as...
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    anyone with experience of getting ex?

    Could anyone with experience of getting an ex back after a long time after the breakup please tell me how they did it? PLEASE DONT POST IF YOU DONT HAVE ANY EXPERIENCE 2.5yr LTR very intense BU 5 months ago hooked up for two weeks 2 months ago told her I didnt want to be friends - caused us...
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    Flakey FWB/FB - how to handle?

    So I met up w this girl 5 times had ok sex 4 times after really good dates with high interest. Whenever I was with her she would display REALLY HIGH interest (hence the sex) she even wanted us to go exclusive at one point. BUT From the start it seems she's been playing games - sometimes not...
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    Spinning not so hot plates?

    I have always had very high standards and since I'm not bad in the looks department and I have done quite well academically I've managed to get with a few high quality (average 8/9) girls as LTR's (what I'm personally looking for). I get the feeling that the people on here would encourage me to...
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    Do you like my response?

    Just got an email from a girl after trying to give her a call/text thats been in italy visiting her parents. As I had predicted something was fishy! And I even predicted that the fish was another guy....... She just emailed me a really sweet apologetic letter saying sorry and that she is too...
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    HB8/9 is in a bad state - asks what I think.

    Had high interest levels with girl 4 dates - f-close each time within 2 weeks. Knew her 4 weeks before that. Shes been acting oddly when she went back home - not texting back she didnt reply to 3 texts etc. now she sends me this (she'll be back in 4/5days - this is part of a longer text): "I...
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    PLEASE HELP! how do I limit this damage?

    I went out on two dates with my ex after 7 weeks NC and f-closed her on the second one - everything was going great - then she went distant on me for the last 4 weeks and wanted space mainlybecause I said we couldnt be friends (see other thread - I was paranoid about the FZ but this stopped...
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    being a friend isn't always bad!

    If you think of the way DD uses the word "friend" almost as a neg it can be quite good. Also think of what you are with any girl before you go out - she doesn't immediately call you her BF she calls you her friend first - its actually totally natural! I was hanging out with my ex and we had a...
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    HB8/9 playing games via text

    please respond, much appreciated. So very high interest - F-close on first to 4th dates - even talked about becoming exclusive - says she's fallen for me already etc. BUT she's always been difficult via text - she wont text me first - when I text her she wont take any ****yness - just ignores...
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    Sexual texing - how to keep tension high??

    I would really appreciate any input you have. Been seeing 20yr HB8/9, texted regularly then met 5 times in 2/3 weeks, had sex on first date. Everything going very well although all the way through she has been playing hard to get games via text - but these fall apart once I meet her and she...
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    First date shy HB9 - awkward sex

    Had a good first date with a HB9 night before last and came back to my place - was pretty drunk so I wasn't... functioning so well when we first got back, although she tried really hard (we did everything apart from F-close). I handled that pretty well just had a break etc, then when we went...
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    IOI's but not very "into" sex

    Had a good first date with a HB9 last night and came back to my place - was pretty drunk so I wasn't... functioning when we first got back, although she tried really hard. I handled that pretty well just had a break etc, then when we went back to it, it was mainly me initiating and she wasn't as...
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    Could calling her out raise attraction?

    LTR 3 years ended 8 weeks ago initiated by her, probably situational. So met up twice kept everything totally cool and the dates were really good, F-close on second date 2 weeks ago. Been in regular contact since - maybe too much - although usually let her initiate contact... when she comes...
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    2 great dates and f-close - now gone cold?

    What would you guys do? Thanks. Went on to really fun dates with ex (3 years together, broken up 8 weeks was NC for 6 weeks) and f-close on second date (clear very BIG IOI). She loved it all and said she was sad to leave the second time. It was great. Then I could tell she was hesitant so...
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    Girl spinning plates

    Girl tells me she is very innocent and basically a virgin and doesn't want sex unless in a relationship thing, plays up the whole I wouldn't have sex with anyone else thing.... when I know for a fact she is spinning a few guys at the same time and at least in the past had sex with two. I take...
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