Could anyone with experience of getting an ex back after a long time after the breakup please tell me how they did it?
PLEASE DONT POST IF YOU DONT HAVE ANY EXPERIENCE
2.5yr LTR
very intense
BU 5 months ago
hooked up for two weeks 2 months ago
told her I didnt want to be friends - caused us not to talk for month
then found out some stuff and confronted/insulted her a month ago
called her yesterday to say hi for the first time - she was cool but didnt really care - was distracted it seemed. I was happy and told her I went out last night and just had a good interview (both true) then asked her how she was she didnt give much - then I ended it - not much else. I didnt get enough humour in there - I regret that now - I was thrown a bit by her attitude. Any idea what I can do next?
NC is not going to do any more here - I've been NC with her for a month and before that on and off for 4 months - its not going to do anymore- RIGHT NOW I WANT TO COME IN AS A "FRIEND"....it worked really well last time till I told her I didnt want to be
again I dont need anyone without exp telling me that its not worth the effort no thanks - I just want to hear peoples experiences THAT HAVE - I know mostly it doesnt.
I'm plate spinning and gymming and have moved on before anyone says it - this is just an experiment.
PLEASE DONT POST IF YOU DONT HAVE ANY EXPERIENCE
2.5yr LTR
very intense
BU 5 months ago
hooked up for two weeks 2 months ago
told her I didnt want to be friends - caused us not to talk for month
then found out some stuff and confronted/insulted her a month ago
called her yesterday to say hi for the first time - she was cool but didnt really care - was distracted it seemed. I was happy and told her I went out last night and just had a good interview (both true) then asked her how she was she didnt give much - then I ended it - not much else. I didnt get enough humour in there - I regret that now - I was thrown a bit by her attitude. Any idea what I can do next?
NC is not going to do any more here - I've been NC with her for a month and before that on and off for 4 months - its not going to do anymore- RIGHT NOW I WANT TO COME IN AS A "FRIEND"....it worked really well last time till I told her I didnt want to be
again I dont need anyone without exp telling me that its not worth the effort no thanks - I just want to hear peoples experiences THAT HAVE - I know mostly it doesnt.
I'm plate spinning and gymming and have moved on before anyone says it - this is just an experiment.