So I have getting girls back to my place down. This last girl I was doing really well (I am judging this by how it was literally pouring out of her and the moaning) - but I have always had a problem with transitioning to BJ smoothly from sex - maybe I should do it before - but then she isn't as horny and usually a very conservative. Also do you get girls to dirty talk the first time? She was shy and I was getting her to say things to me but it was a struggle and I didn't push it that much ("I'm a good girl and shy" me: "I'm not buying it, I know there's a bad girl in there"). Had these same problems a few times now - any tips or is this just normal?