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  1. dudewut

    MBA Abroad?

    A little about me; Ex-military, looking to get my MBA through the GI Bill [tl;dr] I am wondering, would an MBA from (for example) University of Warsaw/University of Taras Shevchenko carry the same weight/marketability potential like an MBA from, say, Baruch College in NYC? I ask because I...
  2. dudewut

    Catching feelings w/ a F buddy

    Long story short, I am talking to a girl who is not a good idea besides being a FWB or F*ckbuddy or someone you can get nudes from or hit up when you are bored. Problem is I am starting to give a f*ck about her, where my brain is starting to tell me that she is probably cheating on me or lying...
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    Location to move to for an Asian guy (best place to hookup NYC vs. SD)

    I am leaving the Army soon. And I am quite traumatized by how scarce the women are near post, that and the quality is not that great. On top of that, since I am in the South (Columbus, GA) I am not doing very well with tinder as well as dating in general in account to my race. Not hating or...
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    Overcoming scarcity mentality (when its objectively true)

    Background: I am in the military, and as an Asian dude being stationed at a small town in the Southern US, this is hell for me. I think only around 30% of people in this place have seen an Asian guy before, much less be attracted to them. (dont give me the 'race does not matter' BS, it matters...
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    Night game troubles, open set then target leaves

    -Approach girls -Talk with them for a couple of minutes -Somehow it will start to feel awkward/run out of topics to talk about -Energy dies down, can feel them getting bored or they start paying attention elsewhere -Then the girls will excuse themselves and leave or move to the other side...
  6. dudewut

    Proof that no contact works.

    Some gentleman posted this on youtube. Not sure if its already was posted here. But yeah. I know this first hand as well. For the lulz http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuYECqikqGU&feature=player_embedded#!
  7. dudewut

    Indian girls, and how bad did I f**ked up? Thoughts?

    -be at a bar last night -spoke to a girl -bought her a shot (before you guys hang me for a traitor...erm i can explain) -danced with her -told her I think you are kinda cute, and I would like to get in touch sometime (this is loaded, coz I have a clever riposte when she say x or w/e but to...
  8. dudewut

    is being the "safety net" for a girl ever ok?

    If you have a feeling (figment of your insecurities or not) that the girl you are with is only with you because the other guy isnt is that ever alright? or should you have higher standards and walk? just something I was pondering about
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    What to do when she accuses you of sleeping around

    -banging this girl -we are not official (I beat around the bush when she brings it up) -She asked me to go out tomorrow night, I really cant because legit busy (its a friggin weekday ffs...tsk tsk) -She said she is hurt about the rejection and excuses and then accused me that I maybe sleeping...
  10. dudewut

    This is why online/facebook game sucks! (halp!)

    This girl is a family friend of ours, she lives kinda far but in the following months she might move to my city and I want to be able to give her the warm welcome ;) Anyways this morning she was at my house, I just flirted with her a bit, but then her and her dad must go so quickly just went...
  11. dudewut

    Is our "values" outdated?

    In my other thread http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=196757 Ws well as some other threads here, it seems like women cheating is not a matter of IF but a matter of WHEN. In that case, why do we have to walk if one sleeps with another? I found out from a Rooshv thread as well as...
  12. dudewut

    Jealousy, envy, grudges, insecurity, how does one get rid of this?

    these are negative things that great men have very little of How do i get rid of it? I dont plan on being white knight, but having these things kills your game and also make one look beta, women can smell a pathetic beta from a mile away it reeks in their actions, the way they talk etc.
  13. dudewut

    Being a Romantic Beta to the core!

    I am in a journey, like most of you, to get a lot of women. I grew up in a household of women, and was raised to watch dramas and soap operas. I got screwed over by a girl, and here I am trying to improve on girls. However, I want more. I dont want to just emulate the qualities that attracts...
  14. dudewut

    Is it possible to increase strength, mass and endurance at the same time?

    Usually 1 or 2 of these things will take a back seat when you focus on just a few aspect I want to be able to max out and fly through USMC OCS' physical part as well as have more stamina in boxing However I also want to get bigger how do people in sports like boxing go up in weight...
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    How do you know if you came in too strong?

    -After going out with friends I was at the train station waiting for a train that did not seem to want to come. -Hot girl comes in -Decide not to approach because I thought its the end of my night -Random dude starts talking to her -She came over and asked if she could sit beside me because the...
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    Do alpha males get cheated on? Or do betas more often?

    I googled it and it comes to two camps: -Cheating goes hand in hand with cheating alphas, however alphas couldnt care less and would walk with a different female(s) who didnt do him wrong (yet) Hence some women married to a rich alpha cheats with the pool boy but then some alphas who are...
  17. dudewut

    Girlfriend ditches me to go to a dude's party

    Ok let me clarify she didn't go to the party however she didn't go for a completely different reason (that she don't know anyone there) So my gf was invited to another dude's party and she ask if she can bring someone. Here is how the convo went; Another dude: sure, as long as its not...
  18. dudewut

    Drunk stuppor: How do I reverse things when I clearly screwed up?

    -Be out with girl for the first time (I see she has IOIs) -We go to a bar -Plan was to get her drunk, wam, bam, thank you ma'ame -Not realize she can outdrink me (because of ibuprofen!) -I got drunk first -Spend the rest of the night just pushing her against walls and making out (read...
  19. dudewut

    All of my "what?"s

    Situation: I met this girl through a friend (he used to like her, and he went nowhere, so he gave me the green light) we all hang out together around campus and stuff. The first couple of weeks she seems cool, until today, out of nowhere, she starts busting my balls. So opposite on how she...
  20. dudewut

    How do I stop obsessing?

    I got it! I figured it out! The reason why I am alone, and dont have a GF, not even an F-buddy (despite the fact that girls tell me I am handsome and my friends point out how sometimes girls stare at me etc.) is that I obsess about these things too much! Remember the movie 500 days of summer...
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